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    « on: March 13, 2018, 12:15:31 AM »
    Any shifu can help me see my bazi?

    Female, Singapore
    19 April 1992, 18 30 birth time

    Asking about children and family life. Been trying to get pregnant with no news..
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    « Reply #2 on: March 13, 2018, 11:57:07 AM »

    Hi Jeremy,

    Thanks for helping me chart my bazi! Appreciate it! Hopefully someone would be able to help interpret it :)

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    Any shifu can help me see my bazi?

    Female, Singapore
    19 April 1992, 18 30 birth time

    Asking about children and family life. Been trying to get pregnant with no news..

    Hi @Kitkatleen ,

    Here's your chart and LP after time adjustment for other forum friends to assist.


    Cheers,

    Jeremy

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  • Re: Help me see my bazi for children & conception
    « Reply #4 on: March 14, 2018, 07:44:06 AM »
    Hi Vince,

    Thanks for helping! Really appreciate it.
    I got married at 2017 but got together with my husband at 2015!

    No miscarriage that I know of and been actively trying since apr last year (with breaks in between).
    A few people told me that It’s very hard for me to conceive due to my bazi so I’m very worried about it. I think the added stress is not helping.

    May I ask if 2020 is when they are born or conceived? As for now we have been trying the “relax approach” if have then have, if not then we just be patient.. my only concern is that I’ll be childless.

    Thanks again!
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    Hi Kitkatleen

    Did you get married in 2015 by any chance?

    On children:
    - Any history of miscarriage before?
    - You will likely have 2 children.
    - Boy first and girl second
    - Likely years would be 2020 or 2021.

    But from LP perspective, basically going forward, the chance of having children is high so you just have to be patient.
    However 2018 seems like a tough year to have a baby successfully.

    Vince

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    Re: Help me see my bazi for children & conception
    « Reply #5 on: March 14, 2018, 03:32:56 PM »
    A few people told me that It’s very hard for me to conceive due to my bazi so I’m very worried about it. I think the added stress is not helping.

    May I ask if 2020 is when they are born or conceived? As for now we have been trying the “relax approach” if have then have, if not then we just be patient.. my only concern is that I’ll be childless.
    Ah, newlyweds; so eager to have children :) It's perfectly okay to take 1-2 years. You're still young.
    I wouldn't worry about what other people say. Besides, you don't need the stress. Definitely not childless.

    2019-2021 (year born, so can start TTC a year before) have good chance. So looks like "relaxed approach" works best.
    It's possible that your firstborn and second one only have 1 year gap, is that how you plan/your ideal scenario?

    Some questions:
    - Your father and mother have very good relationship?
    - Is there large age gap between your mother and father?
    - Your mother's family side is relatively more affluent?
    - You have 2-3 siblings?

    Vince

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  • Re: Help me see my bazi for children & conception
    « Reply #6 on: March 14, 2018, 04:04:05 PM »
    Hi Vince,

    Thanks again but just to double confirm, my birth time is 18:30 (+8 UTC/GMT Singapore). The chart given above seems different from when I use the online bazi calculator (I’m really new so I could be wrong).

    And yes we would like to have children soon as my husband ain’t that young too.
    His birthday is 13 nov 1986, 06:00 (-4 Utc/gmt) time. Not sure if that is linked to my bazi for kids?
    Haha thanks! At least I feel a sense of relief that I’m not child less.

    2019-2021 definitely sounds good and would love for that to happen! Yes I think the main issue is also worried and I kept hearing from different shifu that I have fertility problem (plus we tried and no news).
    Ideally 2 years gap is ideal for me but 1 year works too. Better to have them close in age.

    - my parents were together since their teens, relationship wise is not too bad.
    - they have 2 years age gap
    - yes my mom side of the family are more well to do (sadly not us haha!)
    - I have 2 siblings

    Thanks!

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    Ah, newlyweds; so eager to have children :) It's perfectly okay to take 1-2 years. You're still young.
    I wouldn't worry about what other people say. Besides, you don't need the stress. Definitely not childless.

    2019-2021 (year born, so can start TTC a year before) have good chance. So looks like "relaxed approach" works best.
    It's possible that your firstborn and second one only have 1 year gap, is that how you plan/your ideal scenario?

    Some questions:
    - Your father and mother have very good relationship?
    - Is there large age gap between your mother and father?
    - Your mother's family side is relatively more affluent?
    - You have 2-3 siblings?

    Vince

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    Re: Help me see my bazi for children & conception
    « Reply #7 on: March 14, 2018, 05:22:44 PM »
    Thanks again but just to double confirm, my birth time is 18:30 (+8 UTC/GMT Singapore). The chart given above seems different from when I use the online bazi calculator (I’m really new so I could be wrong).
    Hour is Yi-You after conversion like what @Jeremy has done so hour is correct. What hour did you get?

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    I kept hearing from different shifu that I have fertility problem (plus we tried and no news).
    If you suspect fertility problem, it's better to consult doctor than bazi :) But since you just got married last year, give it time before heading to the doctor.

    Vince

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    « Reply #8 on: March 14, 2018, 05:42:56 PM »
    Thanks for clarifying! I forgot that there is time adjustment so mine was definitely wrong.

    I didn’t think too much about my fertility (maybe only the part where I suspect I have weak uterus  due to cold feet) till a few shifus told me that it’s very unlikely that I’ll have kids.. Also we only started trying for a few months so I wanted to wait for abit. I also have fear of needles so that puts me off too haha!

    Now I feel a sense of relief. I guess different people have different opinion and I should just take in the positive and not worry too much. It’s my life long dream to have kids that’s why I’m so paranoid!

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    Hour is Yi-You after conversion like what @Jeremy has done so hour is correct. What hour did you get?

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    I kept hearing from different shifu that I have fertility problem (plus we tried and no news).
    If you suspect fertility problem, it's better to consult doctor than bazi :) But since you just got married last year, give it time before heading to the doctor.

    Vince

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    Re: Help me see my bazi for children & conception
    « Reply #9 on: March 14, 2018, 10:57:04 PM »
    Kitkatleen,

    Can I ask some questions about your husband?
    - He was born abroad / outside Singapore.
    - He has lived in Singapore or Southeast Asia region for quite some time.
    - He is well educated
    - He had a prior marriage or relationship before he met you / is with you.

    Vince

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    « Reply #10 on: March 15, 2018, 09:02:16 AM »
    Hi Vince,

    -He is born in North America
    -He just moved here for me so he will be living here long term.
    - Education wise, not really high but he went to college so I guess pretty well educated. Smart guy for sure.
    -This is his first marriage but he was in a 5 years relationship before he was with me.

    Is his chart bad? Thanks!

    Kitkatleen,

    Can I ask some questions about your husband?
    - He was born abroad / outside Singapore.
    - He has lived in Singapore or Southeast Asia region for quite some time.
    - He is well educated
    - He had a prior marriage or relationship before he met you / is with you.

    Vince

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    « Reply #11 on: March 15, 2018, 11:27:03 AM »
    Thanks for the feedback.

    - Education wise, not really high but he went to college so I guess pretty well educated. Smart guy for sure.
    -This is his first marriage but he was in a 5 years relationship before he was with me.
    Yes, a smart guy I agree but I think he's probably more of a book-smart kind of guy.
    Regarding his 5 year relationship, I suspect he was living together with the woman (which is common in the US I suppose).
    Living together can also be considered as married in my bazi school.

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    Is his chart bad? Thanks!
    No no no. I haven't even looked at his chart. I can also read about him from your chart alone, though less detailed :)
    Anyway, I'm sorry but I don't intend to read his chart due to time constraint.

    So again, please take it easy and good luck.

    Vince
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    « Reply #12 on: March 15, 2018, 12:04:37 PM »
    I should be the one thanking you! Hope the information helps :)
    No worries about his chart, really appreciate that you took time to even look at mine!

    Yes, they were living together but he didn't have any intention for marriage with her, more of a house-mates situation along with her parents. It's very common to do that in the US.

    Once again, thank you so much vince! I'll heed your advice & take it easy. Have a great day  ;D


    Thanks for the feedback.

    - Education wise, not really high but he went to college so I guess pretty well educated. Smart guy for sure.
    -This is his first marriage but he was in a 5 years relationship before he was with me.
    Yes, a smart guy I agree but I think he's probably more of a book-smart kind of guy.
    Regarding his 5 year relationship, I suspect he was living together with the woman (which is common in the US I suppose).
    Living together can also be considered as married in my bazi school.

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    Is his chart bad? Thanks!
    No no no. I haven't even looked at his chart. I can also read about him from your chart alone, though less detailed :)
    Anyway, I'm sorry but I don't intend to read his chart due to time constraint.

    So again, please take it easy and good luck.

    Vince

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