Begging an advice to save marriage, DIVINATION

[proletar]

Hello All,

I need your help based on the QMDJ. I have no knowledge about divination, and don't know which method suitable for me ... just please help me  ...

My DOB: a man, born in Padang City, West Sumatra, Indonesia (GMT +7) on 18 September 1983, 02:00 a.m.
My wife born on 10 June 2000, I believe her birth time 05:00 am in Makassar, Indonesia (GMT +8).
We got married on 25 November 2017.

On February 10, 2021, I took my wife to visit Makassar, my wife's hometown to let her pay a visit to her parents, unexpectedly my wife decided not to return home with me, and she takes our daughters with her. My relationship with my parents-in-law is something out of question.

I'm trying my best to persuade my wife, but she remained silent. Later, I thought that the cause of all these problems was that my wife couldn't stand being away from her family. My wife has a hard time admitting this because usually, the people in the eastern world consider wives obliged to follow their husbands wherever they go. It may explain why my wife remained silent.

I got a job offer from my previous company located in the city where my wife lives, but I have mentioned this to my wife, she somehow becomes soften at a while and resumes her refusion afterward. I'm scheduled to onboard on July 26, 2021. This move, I believe may save our marriage and my daughter's future.

My question is, will this work? I am worried that this plan will cost me too much. Because I had to accept a lower salary offer than my current company. I'd like to ask from QMDJ 's or other methods perspective, is there any chance that my wife and child can reunite with me, at least before November this year?

Entering July, My wife just agreed on some mutual terms but unfortunately, I was forced to apologize to her family. She knows and I know even if I can pretend to do it, at one point it will explode and she will run away again.

We don't yet divorced, no divorce was filled yet. However, all seems up and down.

We still argue and she refuses to join me again, once she agreed, there are other conditions that I have to fulfill.

I want to save this marriage. There must be a way to save our marriage. If I can stall divorce till November, any hope available for me?

I feel very sorry for my daughter. I lose all of my hope and desire if I remember my daughter. Please help me to give me any months that suitable for the momentum. Please show me the light at the end of the tunnel...

I want to keep fight.

[fengshuiartist]

Online forum isn't the best place for serious help.  marriage issues require mediator of marriage counselor if the other party don't want to communicate. Need 3rd party to help see the blind spots. It requires action or discussion and behavior change. If there is demanding a party does this and that , than it won't work out. People have to be their true self. If there is no such environment created then it's just fake people pretending to please each other.  Better to be by self then hold on to fake people pleasing one another.

You can force the other person to stay but that's not marriage.  You have to define what marriage is to you. what does it mean? And than the other question is... can person provide that?

There's plenty people who are separated but share kids and show love to the kid where divorce have no negative effect.

[proletar]

Your advice is exactly what I get from others, who has no knowledge about this art. So why there is divination, bazi etc.?

[fengshuiartist]

It's called free will and living life,  taking responsibility for own actions of interaction. You assume bazi will solve all your problems  and that it's set in stone.  You think doing divination will predict future? That's not being realistic. Nothing in the world is given to you. One's action determine one's life.  To say that people don't know bazi cuz they give you sound advice just means your avoiding the real issue of being responsible.   

If you want answer to why there's divination, bazi etc.. then study it.  I already know why and so do many others cuz we study the field. I think you are falling for the many superstitious about a certain field that many do cuz they are somewhat lost. Or your just very misinformed about chinese metaphysics.

There's a reason many people give you the same advice I gave you. Cuz that is reality of what works. It's not some feel good telling you what you want to hear so that you have false hope. I get it. Your in a trauma and emotional event in life. Many would latch on to anything without practical reasoning. See reality for what it is, not illusions of what you want.  That's how you deal with life problems. Open one's eyes and actually see what is going on around you. Then one can think and plan step by step how to create one's life.

All the info on metaphysics dont' mean anything without one's action/behavior. You can have a reading that says a person is rich but they won't be without action. True story. A parent had reading that children will be rich. guess what? They poor all their life cuz the parents kept believing that they kid will be rich and they let him be lazy cuz they think life will take care of it due to the divination. They were told by another reader decades later when they wonder why divination didn't come true that it was just potential but actions were needed to get rich. You can have a divination that says everything is going you way but it won't without actually one's life effort to make things better.  Anyone can say your marriage is going to work out but it's not if you don't make the proper effort of connection/communication.

[proletar]

I have other channel to discuss the reality and I come to this forum for metaphysics.

[fengshuiartist]

Your not gonna get much response because serious practitioners don't do divination online on serious issues. Marriage issues isn't a game where one does reading or divination online.  Even if someone does divination or bazi reading , there's no guarantee.  There's so many factors of life.   Metaphysics don't determine your life , that's where many error in their thinking.   It's only a guide, yet one still have to put action to create one's life.

[proletar]

That's why I come here for the guidance, based on metaphysics aspect. What's wrong with that? I even saw people who has family member in serious illness desperately seek guidance from divination because they want do all the best they can do, and they never blame the practitioner when the worst is unavoidable.

I come here to check if I can do something to improve the situation and I don't disturb anybody here.

I wish you never been in my position.

[TaiYin]

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[proletar]

TaiYin, my sincere apologies if my reply is considered hostile. I regard you very highly. I will do your advice.

[j27945]

Didn't see your divination query in time.
Have reply to your post in another thread.

[proletar]

Yes, Sir. You show me the wisdom path. Many thanks for all.