As for Your partner chart, I need to dig up my 1,ooo year calendar to do some manual check as 4 feb is a tricky date.

Hi j27945, yes indeed it's a tricky date.  But her partner's chart is definitely still Ding Mao year, and not Wu Chen.  And the month is still Chou month, and not Yin month. 

For the interest of chart plotting, here is the output of bazi-calculator.com, based on her birth location.  And her two LP's below her birth chart.  Without the correct month, we won't get the correct LP.


Congratulations to jipank2187!!    You are preparing for marriage, it's not the right question to ask whether the bazi of the couple match with each other.  You have come into this stage of the relationship, of course you will be married! For metaphysics advice, better questions are marriage date (date selection method), selection of wedding venues (Liu Yao etc.), your future house (Feng Shui) etc.

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As you said, yes, it's interesting. If you wouldn't mind, could you remove the karma requirement so that others can follow the story. If you wouldn't mind, I can edit it with your permission. If you would, that's okay.

Well, 2 years is older, but not significantly older. Maybe he is significantly older in other ways too, not only because of age.

Next year (starting Feb 4) his rejection will be stronger, so I would look to another guy(s) now.

Online clarity, ah yes, what do they say? The hexagram you use is the same, right? Actually, the more appropriate question to divine is "do I have a relationship chance with this guy"? And only then you can supplement it with other information like him hanging around women with children.

1. I'm one of several Mr. A's fans.
2. Question on my mind, does he really prefer experienced lady than singles like us....    

Hi sy123456, in this divination, the most important roles are yourself (1) and Mr. A (2).  I redraw your hexagram in another format, which I like better, because the changed hexagram only shows the changed line.



The brief answer is he would prefer a more mature lady and is not interested in you.  But you don't lack guys that are interested in you.  Here is the analysis and some more images:

1.   Self line represents you (enquirer), and Others line represents Mr. A.  Both are represented in the hexagram with the woman and man icons.
2.   Self line Hai Water is weak by Day (Mao) and Month (Xu), and it’s overcome by Chou.  This means the guy “rejects” you.
3.   Second line is also Hai Water, and it represents yourself as well because it’s the same Branch.  Hai coming with Xuan Wu (Tortoise) means you are secretly interested in him.
4.   Hai Water changes to Wu Fire.  The thick curve means Wu combines with Wei, and the straight arrow line is Wei clashing Chou. 
5.   Hai, Wu and Wei together represent thoughts and feelings. Wu is empty (Kong Wang) and is a Child line, so it means mentally and emotionally immature.  Wu combines with Wei, which is also Kong Wang.  Wu-Wei clashes Chou (Mr. A).  This means Mr. A “rejects” ladies who are not mature enough.

6.   Chou (Others line) represents Mr. A, coming with White Tiger means his age is significantly older than you. 
7.   Chou coming with White Tiger and Wealth line means in the past his feelings may have been hurt by a younger lady.
8.   The 3rd and 5th lines are You Metal that enclose and produce Hai Water.  You don’t lack guys that are interested in you.  And it seems right there is at least one this year.  But unfortunately not Mr. A, because 3rd and 5th Officer lines do not represent Mr. A in this hexagram, but other guys.

Hi Sweet Cherry and Gmuli,

Yes, Chou-Xu makes the Ding in Xu available.  Here is an example, also a Geng DM: Power Controlling Parallel using PM Thatcher as example.  She was married only once.

@Jlim

Thanks for your reply. Mangpai is very interesting.

The Bazi is actually mine. I was comparing the Mangpai with ZWDS si hua. I thought the XU is the spouse star since it has DO. And closed tomb and many spouse doesn't really match up with ZWDS. Now both seems to be saying similar things. Except for the part that spouse is younger. Because ZWDS says spouse is older 5-10 yrs.

Ha, that is your chart! Are you married already?

@Jlim
Any chance that spouse could be older even if spouse is in hour pillar?

There is a chance, but I don't think so in your case.  Age of spouse is also influenced by the country & culture.  In some cultures, it's more difficult for a lady to marry a younger man.  In other cultures it's easier.  Also parents' influence play a role if you're Asian.

Mistysheepy,

Third thing to verify.  Some information about your mother can also be in the Hour Pillar.  Really, how to verify the Hour with information about parents?  Here it is: Geng represents your father, and Jia inside Hai represents your mother.  Hai being Fu Yin to the Hour means mother does business, has a career or is active in society.

It's either-or.  And I didn't say she is influential in society.  This reading means your mother is not likely to be a homemaker only.  Since you said she's HR in a bank, she has a career.  This fits better with the Hai hour.

BTW, apart from the above regarding intelligence, this [Jia Zi] hour also leads to a person with a bad temperament.

Getting angry at times is normal.  But bad temperament can be a severe problem  It means having a short fuse, one who easily gets angry or is easily provoked.  Do you think you are?

IMHO, the Gui Hai hour leads to a (much) better chart grading than the Jia Zi hour chart.

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Hi mistysheep, based on your exact birth time and city, the correct hour is Gui Hai. And Gui Hai would suit you more. 

As I said before with the previous hour of Jia Zi:

But when I look at your Bazi, it does not seem to reflect your intelligence.  Geng and Jia clash each other, resulting in them not performing any work.  Geng is Seal (Resource) 印 and Jia is Output.  Your Qi Sha (Wei) would also "contradict itself", Wei-Hai combines but Zi-Wei harm in this case becomes problematic.  All of these do not seem to be a smart young lady.  I don't personally know you, so I may be wrong.

With the Jia Zi hour, you would have a serious problem in finishing junior high school level, but you are now studying at Polytechnic level. 

BTW, apart from the above regarding intelligence, this hour [Jia Zi] also leads to a person with a bad temperament.

Looking at your other post about yourself, your temperament seems to be mild.

Third thing to verify.  Some information about your mother can also be in the Hour Pillar.  Really, how to verify the Hour with information about parents?  Here it is: Geng represents your father, and Jia inside Hai represents your mother.  Hai being Fu Yin to the Hour means mother does business, has a career or is active in society.