marrige reading

[vanzz123]

hi all. can help me read my bazhi for marrige? will I get marrige? when? will I be happy in marrige?

DOB : 26.10.1990
Place : Sabah
Time :11.30am
Gender : Female

I seems unlucky in finding right one.

Thanks

[leonard28]

年 月 日 时
庚 丙 甲 庚
午 戌 子 午

Did you nearly lose your life when younger? It seems your relationship with family elders are quite bad.

The Geng metal represents your boyfriend/husband. Both these elements clash directly with your Daymaster. Futhermore, the Geng metal sits on top of Wu fire in Year and Hour pillars. Fire is in a controlling relationship with Metal. There's another Bing fire in the Month pillar, so the Fire is quite dominant in your chart. Both Wu elements are in a state of self-punishment, amplifying its strength exponentially. In short, the Geng elements are severely weakened and damaged by fire. Both Wu fire elements are also clashing with Zi water in your Spousal palace.

You also had a relationship in the past 2 years. You're quite insistent on your ways and refuse to give in, so both of you cannot agree to each other's expectations and end up fighting. The abundance of fire is the problematic issue. The current phase Gui Wei has Wei earth forming up with Wu fire to produce even more fire. The next phase Ren Wu again triggers and strengthens the fire elements.

I think the issue here is not about when are you getting married. When Water elements arrive in the phase or year, it can calm the fires in the chart. This can happen in 2024 when Chen earth combines with Zi water in the chart to form abundant Water. But in the next few years, fire in the chart is again triggered by the phase and years, sort of like returning to the default state. What happens then? I think you can already imagine.

[qingfantasy]

hi all. can help me read my bazhi for marrige? will I get marrige? when? will I be happy in marrige?

DOB : 26.10.1990
Place : Sabah
Time :11.30am
Gender : Female

I seems unlucky in finding right one.

Thanks

https://www.mybazi.com/index.php?lp=1&ay=8&xm=Your%20Name&yy=1990&mm=10&dd=26&hh=11&mn=30&gd=-1

1. Any relationship that failed in 2014 ?

2. long term relationship just ended in 2021 ?

[vanzz123]

i just ended my relationship in 2020. this year I started to date again but I am not sure if he is the one

[vanzz123]

年 月 日 时
庚 丙 甲 庚
午 戌 子 午

Did you nearly lose your life when younger? It seems your relationship with family elders are quite bad.

The Geng metal represents your boyfriend/husband. Both these elements clash directly with your Daymaster. Futhermore, the Geng metal sits on top of Wu fire in Year and Hour pillars. Fire is in a controlling relationship with Metal. There's another Bing fire in the Month pillar, so the Fire is quite dominant in your chart. Both Wu elements are in a state of self-punishment, amplifying its strength exponentially. In short, the Geng elements are severely weakened and damaged by fire. Both Wu fire elements are also clashing with Zi water in your Spousal palace.

You also had a relationship in the past 2 years. You're quite insistent on your ways and refuse to give in, so both of you cannot agree to each other's expectations and end up fighting. The abundance of fire is the problematic issue. The current phase Gui Wei has Wei earth forming up with Wu fire to produce even more fire. The next phase Ren Wu again triggers and strengthens the fire elements.

I think the issue here is not about when are you getting married. When Water elements arrive in the phase or year, it can calm the fires in the chart. This can happen in 2024 when Chen earth combines with Zi water in the chart to form abundant Water. But in the next few years, fire in the chart is again triggered by the phase and years, sort of like returning to the default state. What happens then? I think you can already imagine.

So meaning, I might lost my life in the coming years? I almost lost my life in year 2012 in an accident. My relationship with my father is very bad and he had pass away. So marrige is not for me?

[leonard28]

I feel conflicted telling you my honest opinions. But I think it's better that you know and can do some reflection on your own.

Marriage is going to be real tough for you. When a woman's output elements are strong, like in your case, quarrels and fights with her partner will take place often. The Spouse palace is also hurt. It won't take much, let's say for example 2026 with Wu fire in year and phase, to bring your marriage into deep trouble. Your future husband's health and safety will also be negatively affected.

The 2 Geng metal as 7-killings are actually being controlled by the abundant fire. As the name suggests, 7K can take a person's life and they are both in your Heavenly Stems directly clashing you. If Water arrives and calms the fire, the metal elements can grow unchecked and become more vicious. You might have some health issues since childhood. Do take better care of your health and don't take unnecessary risks. Be careful too when traveling.

[vanzz123]

I feel conflicted telling you my honest opinions. But I think it's better that you know and can do some reflection on your own.

Marriage is going to be real tough for you. When a woman's output elements are strong, like in your case, quarrels and fights with her partner will take place often. The Spouse palace is also hurt. It won't take much, let's say for example 2026 with Wu fire in year and phase, to bring your marriage into deep trouble. Your future husband's health and safety will also be negatively affected.

The 2 Geng metal as 7-killings are actually being controlled by the abundant fire. As the name suggests, 7K can take a person's life and they are both in your Heavenly Stems directly clashing you. If Water arrives and calms the fire, the metal elements can grow unchecked and become more vicious. You might have some health issues since childhood. Do take better care of your health and don't take unnecessary risks. Be careful too when traveling.

Thanks for your honesty. So if like that, does is better if I just stay dating with my current partner as marriage will trigger my spouse place? Any remedy to reduce the negetivity?

[leonard28]

Staying as dating partners should be alright. In this case, you have each other's companionship without the problems that marriage can potentially bring. Although Fire is bad for your marriage, yet in a way it's protecting you, keeping the 7K under control, and preventing them from threatening you. Sorry there isn't any remedy I know of to fix a Bazi chart.

[leonard28]

Couple of things I should advise you as well.

First, it's better for you to move away from your birthplace. It can be a different state or city in Malaysia, or even a different country altogether. Staying near or in your birthplace will bring you problems.

Second, carry out good deeds like helping the poor and sick people, on your own, quietly and regularly. This would help you avert or reduce the severity of future problems.