Very bad bazi?

[BeaBea]

Hello, I've been doing research about my bazi chart, but as a beginner, I am not sure if I am reading everything right, as I am not good with translating.
My birthdate is 25.08.1994 02:48 woman in Rovaniemi.

I want to make a good career and succeed in business and start making money, but my mental and physical problems are coming against my plans at every turn. You can be straight with me and tell me how it is, if it is really bad and if you can help me figure out how to make life a bit easier to live or what career path I would be good at, I would appreciate it from the bottom of my heart.
Thank you and excuse me for any errors.

[IKW]

Hello....it's better you work for someone else first for this year and be patient wait until next year....work related to wood areas like medicine or services. Must do more good deeds to your parents, to go through this year is not so luck for you.

[TaiYin]

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[BeaBea]

Hello....it's better you work for someone else first for this year and be patient wait until next year....work related to wood areas like medicine or services. Must do more good deeds to your parents, to go through this year is not so luck for you.

Thank you for your advice, my family relationship is complicated, but I will try my best to get along better with them! For now I will prepare for next year. I am very passionate about arts like drawing, theatre, tattooing and making music, but medicine career has always been on my mind. I am not a very focused student tho, if the subject isn't interesting, my thougts often bounce around like a ball. But I am sure I can learn more focus.

[BeaBea]

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[crimsongem]

You may have lifelong relationship problems. Some people will receive a lot of empathy when they appear weak, others like you will get bullied instead. However, your confidence will only grow stronger as you adapt.

I don't think you will ever become popular. You can be cordial with people, but don't try hard to entertain/please them.

You may have to quarrel over money matters, but you will also get used to it. On the good side, you are suitable to work with arts, spirituality and express your creativity verbally. There's a sign you have the ability to profit from conflicts/crisis.

I can see you become eventually hardened from all the misfortune. You may feel soft like a jelly now, but you will be as hard as stainless steel if you keep moving forward.

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According to ZWDS, your friendship luck is good, if not great. Some possibilities:
- If you have no friend during youth, you will have it later when old (from midlife onward).
- They have high reputation and social status.
- There could be some kind of trade-off/tension in the dynamics of your friendship.

Your wealth luck is unstable yet "not bad" for my standard. In general, something must be lost before something is gained. You must suffer series of losses before you can enjoy series of profits or a sudden windfall. There's also some kind of trade-off here. In details, I dunno how this particular wealth luck would manifest in real life.  Your financial strength also depends a lot on friendship/networking.

You have affinity with much older men as a lover. Be careful with those who appear nice on the surface, but arrogant and insecure deep within. Never rush a marriage, because the chance is high that you may fall into a trap. 

[TaiYin]

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[BeaBea]

You may have lifelong relationship problems. Some people will receive a lot of empathy when they appear weak, others like you will get bullied instead. However, your confidence will only grow stronger as you adapt.

I don't think you will ever become popular. You can be cordial with people, but don't try hard to entertain/please them.

You may have to quarrel over money matters, but you will also get used to it. On the good side, you are suitable to work with arts, spirituality and express your creativity verbally. There's a sign you have the ability to profit from conflicts/crisis.

I can see you become eventually hardened from all the misfortune. You may feel soft like a jelly now, but you will be as hard as stainless steel if you keep moving forward.

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According to ZWDS, your friendship luck is good, if not great. Some possibilities:
- If you have no friend during youth, you will have it later when old (from midlife onward).
- They have high reputation and social status.
- There could be some kind of trade-off/tension in the dynamics of your friendship.

Your wealth luck is unstable yet "not bad" for my standard. In general, something must be lost before something is gained. You must suffer series of losses before you can enjoy series of profits or a sudden windfall. There's also some kind of trade-off here. In details, I dunno how this particular wealth luck would manifest in real life.  Your financial strength also depends a lot on friendship/networking.

You have affinity with much older men as a lover. Be careful with those who appear nice on the surface, but arrogant and insecure deep within. Never rush a marriage, because the chance is high that you may fall into a trap.

This is very interesting to read. Indeed I do not get much empathy and more so snarky looks, and have always wondered why do people care about others but not me. I have wallowed in self-pity a lot because of this. My confidence has grown from forcing myself to be more confident over the years and I do get treated a lot better. I am too people-pleasing sometimes and even baby some of my friends for no reason, and I do find it irritating. I will try to stop this habit.

I usually sell my art to my friends and friends friends, and recently as I started tattooing have many people waiting for me to be great at it, so they can buy tattoos from me. I wonder if this is that trade-off energy.

What I find really interesting, as I have studied western and vedic astrology thru the years and gotten predictions from different people, they all say the same about marriage for me, not to rush and be very careful who I marry.

Moving forward, I will keep your advice and words in mind! Thank you!

[crimsongem]

If you're forced to confront the problem, it's better to be furious than crying. They don't deserve our tears or smile or trust. This is very difficult/dangerous if you're trapped in a bad marriage.

Trade-off basically means compromise. We can't have everything goes our way in friendship.

Some examples about trade-off in my mind:

- Friends are beneficial in terms of career and money, but they are not necessarily helpful when we are deep in trouble.

- We don't like certain traits of our friends, but we must ignore it as long as the friendship is beneficial. Once we say something, the friendship is broken.

- Uneducated/irresponsible friends are more likeable and closer to us than friends that are resourceful/wise.

According to ZWDS, the biggest help comes from your parents or personal assistant/servant. Some readers may also interpret "parental figure" as government or elderly relatives. Less obvious help come from your children, female friends and acquaintances. 

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[BeaBea]

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[BeaBea]

If you're forced to confront the problem, it's better to be furious than crying. They don't deserve our tears or smile or trust. This is very difficult/dangerous if you're trapped in a bad marriage.

Trade-off basically means compromise. We can't have everything goes our way in friendship.

Some examples about trade-off in my mind:

- Friends are beneficial in terms of career and money, but they are not necessarily helpful when we are deep in trouble.

- We don't like certain traits of our friends, but we must ignore it as long as the friendship is beneficial. Once we say something, the friendship is broken.

- Uneducated/irresponsible friends are more likeable and closer to us than friends that are resourceful/wise.

According to ZWDS, the biggest help comes from your parents or personal assistant/servant. Some readers may also interpret "parental figure" as government or elderly relatives. Less obvious help come from your children, female friends and acquaintances. 

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In past few days I have changed my thought pattern aggressively fast, and looking to get into more of an fitness lifestyle to keep my mind healthy. Abandoned all alcohol and smoking cigs too, and have started to treat my family kinder and with understanding. I apologized over my behavior during drug addiction too and they were understanding and it is much easier to get along now.
The changes are amazing, I go outside to jog into the woods every day and really love it. I refuse to cry over useless things and other people anymore and focus thinking about all the things I am blessed with. I want to have a proper life and already it feels so much better. The readings were really a huge help, thank you so much!

[leonard28]

In your chart, Chou-Wei-Xu punishment is causing you internal conflicts and mental issues, while 2 seven killings (qisha) manifest as health problems.

Good thing is that your Daymaster is on the slightly strong side, so you're able to withstand and cope so far. I can see that you are blessed with high intelligence and capability. You will have to dig deep within yourself and overcome the difficulties.

This year is tough as both elements are not favorable to you. Next year will be better. You should have a good career from 2025 onwards, when Fire dominates in your 10-year phase.

One word of advice, don't do business or invest with your peers/friends. They will cause you to lose money.