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  • Root cause of sudden marriage conflict
    « on: October 06, 2021, 12:43:45 AM »
    Flashback to my family problem: My wife suddenly goes away and take our daughter with her.
    My DOB: a man, born in Padang City, West Sumatra, Indonesia (GMT +7) on 18 September 1983, 02:00 a.m.
    My wife born on 10 June 2000, around 4-5 a.m. I believe her birth time 05:00 am in Makassar, Indonesia (GMT +8).
    Our daughter, born on 15 September 2018 6.54 p.m in Makassar (GMT +8)
    We got married on 25 November 2017

    Is that true my marriage's problem from bazi perspective comes from entombment?

    What is that mean? why entombment causes marriage's conflict? what is the hidden causes/motives of our conflict that the entombment can refer to? There is no significant conflict with my wife last year.

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  • Re: Root cause of sudden marriage conflict
    « Reply #1 on: October 06, 2021, 09:57:02 PM »
    This is my mother in law DOB: Makassar (GMT +8) August 5, 1977. Any clue from her chart. This lady was behind all of my suffering. Why she hate me so great?

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  • Re: Root cause of sudden marriage conflict
    « Reply #2 on: October 07, 2021, 12:51:51 AM »
    Interesting.
    - You and your MIL are only 6 years apart.
    - Your MIL is a Jia DM and you have Gui Hai year pillar with your in-law element in hidden stem.
    - Your wife is a Ji DM and she also has Jia in the hidden stem of spouse palace.

    Water is you and your wife's wealth element. I wonder what that means...

    Looks like your MIL is always present in the relationship even if she's hidden/far away somewhere.

    Your MIL is also expected to behave like your superior (boss) because you and your wife are Ji DM. Wood controls earth.

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  • Re: Root cause of sudden marriage conflict
    « Reply #3 on: October 07, 2021, 01:10:52 AM »
    Correct, she always want to control both of us!!! everything of all her wants must come into our expenses. I always refuse to be controlled by her but then she abuses my wife and our daughter. I so surprised when check my mother in law bazi, a chart with money oriented straightforward.

    My wife's chart not so bad except for this year due to chen chou clash.

    I am really keen something pressures my wife and this lady has manipulate her with something that I don't know yet.

    I do really want bazi hints something for me as our marriage is full bliss whenever my mother in law not interfere. But she always there, doing something for her interest. I don't know what karmic power so badly injured me and my wife.

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  • Re: Root cause of sudden marriage conflict
    « Reply #4 on: October 07, 2021, 08:47:08 AM »
    I do really want bazi hints something for me as our marriage is full bliss whenever my mother in law not interfere. But she always there, doing something for her interest. I don't know what karmic power so badly injured me and my wife.

    If we use ZWDS, I can see that you have:
    - weak marriage luck
    - difficult relationship with children
    - weak happiness/karma luck
    - good career + wealth luck

    The lottery of fortune at birth seems nicer to your money luck than relationship luck.

    This doesn't include decade/annual luck, all the dynamics/changes/complexity in your life.

    Just a warning, if we focus too much on our misfortune (unhappy marriage life etc) it may damage the better aspects of our life.

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  • Re: Root cause of sudden marriage conflict
    « Reply #5 on: November 20, 2021, 02:59:33 PM »
    Just want to update you, my wife fills divorce on November 10, 2021. Our first divorce trial will be held on November 22, 2021. I will go back to Bali at November 23. The court will proceed with mediation first with a mediator provided by the court.

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  • Re: Root cause of sudden marriage conflict
    « Reply #6 on: November 24, 2021, 09:20:51 AM »
    Quote from: proletar

    Is that true my marriage's problem from bazi perspective comes from entombment?


    Just want to update you, my wife fills divorce on November 10, 2021. Our first divorce trial will be held on November 22, 2021. I will go back to Bali at November 23. The court will proceed with mediation first with a mediator provided by the court.

    Hi, I don't have answers to this in Bazi terms. 
    But would like to send best wishes to you. Sorry to hear it finally came to divorce route.
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  • Re: Root cause of sudden marriage conflict
    « Reply #7 on: November 24, 2021, 12:19:21 PM »
    No worries, TaiYin and Thank You.

    The good news is our communication is better now as she unblocks me somehow. A little hope.

    Regards


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  • Re: Root cause of sudden marriage conflict
    « Reply #8 on: November 25, 2021, 03:47:33 PM »
    Maybe Si-Hai clash during 2016-2025 Luck pillar is the cause of unstable marriage..

    Next LP (Bing Chen) is better for spouse luck.. Either you find new love or reconcile with your wife..
    « Last Edit: November 25, 2021, 03:49:09 PM by TianTong »

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  • Re: Root cause of sudden marriage conflict
    « Reply #9 on: November 26, 2021, 12:15:42 AM »
    Next year is Ren Yin.

    The pressure from your MIL looms large.

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  • Re: Root cause of sudden marriage conflict
    « Reply #10 on: November 26, 2021, 02:20:38 AM »
    Ren Yin yes.

    My wife's DOB 10 June 2000 05:00 a.m (GMT+8)

    It also possible she was born on 4:00 a

    Hai in her DM will combine or suffers destruction with Yin?

    Hai-Yin can combine becomes wood? is that not her DO?

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  • Re: Root cause of sudden marriage conflict
    « Reply #11 on: November 26, 2021, 08:36:06 AM »
    From what I read, we should always expect the destruction part in case of Hai-Yin and Si-Shen.

    On your side, you have a potential Si-You-Chou combo this year. Your wife doesn't have any potential combo except December (Chou-Zi-Hai).

    I think these powerful metal and water combos are a good sign for relationship matter, but I'm not sure if they are allowed to happen.

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