Hello,

I hope you all are doing well.
Please help to see if these two charts are good for marriage since we are planning to take our relationship to next level after 3 years.

Me: 5 Aug 1996, 9.30 AM
Him: 26 Nov 1995, 10.15 AM

(I also attached the chart)

Thank you

I don't have a specific requirement in looking for a serious partner, as long as I like him. And yes I found him pretty good-looking and smart.

I met him in 2019 in university, we studied the same course but we weren't interested in each other back then. Now we've been talking again since April/May this year and got really close together, we do things together, travel together, play games together, and now he asked me if I should consider moving into the same city as him. That would require me to look for another job so I don't really know if I should go for it. We are pretty serious in terms of our relationship because we both studied architecture and now also considering working together in our free time that is why I need to consider this carefully.

Please give me some insight in terms of our birth chart if it is a good idea?

Thank you in advance

Quote from: bratkartoffeln on February 10, 2022, 08:21:55 PM

Dear masters,

These days I've been worrying that I saw 2 forlorn stars in my bazi chart (day pillar and month pillar) and I can quite relate it to my life maybe it is because of these stars. I have been away from my family for some years now and I am very lonely. I actually have no trouble in getting a guy or getting friends but I have so many difficulties keeping them. There are always many guys interested in me and talk to me but after a while, either they always go or I am no longer interested in them and push them away. Is this because of my chart? I am worried that I will never marry anyone at this point.

Great to see you’re still posting!

Yeah Relationship wise, your luck leaves more to be desired.
The guys you came across, they eventually belong to other women - so you actually have quite a bit of competition.
You are also a bit picky yourself and it is rather difficult for you to get married, or a very late one.
Generally your marriage is also not so great or harmonious.

There’s a chance of marriage near 50 y/o, which is yes, quite late. I guess better late than never, considering in your chart, it’s quite difficult to get married.
Sorry not a very positive reading.

Hello! yes I am still active on this site but I normally always be a silent reader haha

Yeah, actually I never want to compete for a guy. If there's a competition I normally walk away as it is not difficult for me to find another guy. And I'm not actually picky, it's just there are too many choices and I get easily distracted. There's this good guy who liked me for more than a year now and I liked him too but then I got distracted by another guy and this keep happening to me.

Is there any way to fix that? I was actually thinking about taking a random chance in getting into marriage with this guy and letting universal determinism decide the outcome because I think most people spend time getting to know each other before deciding to commit to marriage but most marriages ascend in divorce so it could be argued that getting to know one another is unproven to be a productive use of one's personal time when deciding to enter marriage so I may as well act if free will is non-existent and just take a random chance

Cheers

You can marry someone eventually, the sign is obvious in your current decade LP (Gui Si) and Ren Chen LP.

In ZWDS, you can get married before 30 but your marriage luck is better at 33 and above.

Earlier marriage have signs of bad luck concerning temperament, desire, ego, money and career.

You have 7K/Qi Sha in decade happiness palace (ZWDS)... which isn't good for relationship, but it's comparatively great for career. If you're a very busy woman, then great.

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Thanks for reading my chart. Yes my career is somehow going well even though I don't do anything about it. I think I should focus on my relationship for the time being

Cheers

Quote from: bratkartoffeln on September 14, 2021, 03:53:19 PM

I found a job another job in Taiwan with a much higher salary but the project location is in Indonesia and very close to Surabaya, my city. So I decided to take it because I have the choice to go home while having better paying job as well.

Thanks for updating. Is the plan for you to go to Indonesia next year or this year? I'd like to check on what I predicted for you:

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High probability you can go back to Indonesia next year but it won't be long before you move out again...

Looks like you won't be settling back in Indonesia just yet

Hello, I think they will send me to the project site next year it's correct. And I will be here in Taiwan for the rest of the year and the contract is only one year so after the contract end I will go back to the uni in Germany or Austria just like my initial plan. I think it is pretty close to your reading that's why I remember

Quote from: bratkartoffeln on August 17, 2021, 02:23:33 PM

I see. Thank you for the insight. Yes I grew up in a good family and my parents are in a very good relationship, had a good life before I moved out as well and my father is still healthy. Yes I've been moving around quite often especially in 2019, when I lived in Austria I still had to travel a lot during my time there. I don't know where do I really want to settle but for the time being maybe I will go back to my parents (haven't seen them for almost 2 years now because of the virus)...

It’s good to be back in Surabaya with your parents after such a stressful time in Taiwan.
You’re still very young, so should enjoy the mysteries of what life has in store for you more but at least you seem to have enjoyed Bratkartofein

Vince

Thank you 

Can I ask what year you moved to Taiwan?

2018 moved to Taiwan
2019 moved to Austria
2020 had to go back to Taiwan and has been working until now

Your luck in another country and local both has a good sign. It is depend on what you want. Your happiness sign a bit negative so easily can get moody, stress, or your attitude a bit negative — better get support from religion, meditation, yoga, or spiritual art.

May i know do you have health problem in stomach area?

I see. Yes I think I’m easily stressed out and anxious over things I cannot control. I often have problem with digestion either diarrhea or constipation but nothing serious.