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>My date of birth: September 20, 1976, time: 09.15 GMT+7
 >Wife: September 7, 1977, time: 05.30 GMT+7

Can you kindly share your location of birth for a more accurate reading?

Thank you.

Looks like willing to nego peacefully.

Let me know how it goes.

By must travel to have success, do you mean that I have to travel out of my birthplace or travel in general?

Hi again,


It is to travel out of the place you spent majority of your life in, which is usually your birthplace.

Hi all, my name is Ben, I'm a new member here, have read some and tried to learn about bazi, but couldn't quite grasp the whole concept so any help is really appreciated! I have some problems that I need help with: -I have a relationship issue with my father that is taking toll in my life. Well, it's not just me, other family members like my mom, and brother also having problems with the dad, he is such a difficult person. - For these past 2-3 years I've been trying to start my own business, but at the end they weren't profitable enough so I decided to close those business ventures.. with 2 small kids and a loving wife I feel that I don't have much leeway anymore in experimenting with too 'crazy' or too 'creative' new business ventures; and furthermore, my financial resources are drying up just to support my little family, this has been stressing me out very much!! So any help in reading my bazi (or any other method) chart is really appreciated! By the way, I've done a bazi reading consultation and this guy told me that in this upcoming 1-3 years is going to be good for me financial-wise, is this true? One thing I know for sure is that I'm a Ren DM with no wealth element in my chart! (is this bad?) and also want to know my chart structure and my useful gods. Thank you for your time reading my post and hopefully I could get some answers that could help me decide my next course of action.. Btw, my DOB is April 3rd 1985 at 06:20pm in Los Angeles, California, USA. Male

Hi Benett,


I'll have a go.


Having no wealth star doesn't mean you won't get rich. In fact a lot of celebrities do not have any or many wealth stars. You just have to work with what you have.


I can see since last year till this year, you've been trying to find your feet. You have no affinity with your father. In fact you are closer to your mother.


Did you get married in 2013?


I agree with the others that you must specialize in something and charge for or use it to work for someone else. If you want to start a business you must find people you must partner with to run it who can help you handle it. Doing it alone, you will most likely be overwhelmed. Am I right in saying that you prefer to do things on your own? You do however have the ability to collaborate, but you have to dig deep to develop it.


Between November and April, you might want to start networking in earnest. Ask your friends, family or strangers for opportunities. If you're looking to work for someone else, you can do so at the start of April. Whether working alone or for someone else, you only have a window of 2020-2021 for bosses to see your ability so make good use of this timeline. I can also see you must travel to have success.


Hope this helps!

Thanks @amfortas for helping me in QMDJ reading. I cross-check with ZWDS, there's still a possibility of pregnancy, so just do your best, good luck.

Hi,


In my opinion, you need water in your chart. The closest time for the baby to be born is in 2022. Can someone cross-check me? Thank you. 

@johnyqi @windwheel @sutriz I take your advice seriously and will convey it to my mother so she can advise my sister. But for additional information, I just asked the date of her husband's birth, which is April 21, 1988 at 11.33 pm in Jakarta. Which chart is like this (CMIIW) Jia Bing Bing Wu Wu Wu Chen Chen He has so many fire too. Is it okay in matters of relationship with my sister? Sincerely, Mike

Hi again,


Can you confirm his time of birth is 11:33pm? The hr pillar you mentioned is 甲午 but if it's 11:33pm it should be 庚子.