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Request for birth chart reading [FREE] / Re: Strength of my day master
« on: November 26, 2022, 05:05:20 AM »
Ok now I'm more confused. Seems like no one agrees among basi practitioner on a strength of a daymaster.

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Request for birth chart reading [FREE] / Strength of my day master
« on: November 19, 2022, 11:04:46 PM »
Hello,

I'm always confused on whether my daymaster is weak or strong. From bazi-calculator it seems weak but it has support from 2 Rob Wealth and sitting on Geng Metal. My daymaster is Ren.

I was born 24 March 1987, 5:30AM.

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Aside from toxic relationship (harm) with basically everyone, her lack of DIRECT resource and DIRECT wealth is concerning.

Why the lack of DIRECT resource and DIRECT wealth is concerning? Is it that she's prone to being dishonest? Or she cannot handle money very well?

I understand that people with DIRECT resource and DIRECT wealth type is like good old fashioned study hard and work hard type to success.

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She is in jewelry business. Husband bought her a jewelry store from her oldest sibling whose wife didn't want to manage anymore.

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- How is her relationship with parents, siblings, spouse and also her friends?

Relationships with siblings and spouse isn't very good and very little friends. Parents, I don't know, father died early, mother isn't very good I suppose, she begged her mother she wants to continue school but has to work early help family business since age 15-ish. She is rather strong-willed and have strong personalities.

- Is she actually rich or just on the surface?

Yes, she is pretty rich (at least from my point of view). She has a combined net worth (with spouse) of about a few millions USD. But then she suffers the syndrome of being rich but cannot enjoy it. She is the one working hard making money but spouse control all the money. She still works everyday. Spouse very stingy (like won't give you any money at all stingy).

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You're kind of correct. She's actually pretty rich, but nothing seems to be enough for her. Most of her wealth is invested though, in real estate and precious metals.

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Oh yeah, she's female

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Hello,

This chart has 4 potential self harm. What can you tell me about this person?

Born 7:30 AM, 8 June 1959

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I don't know what the master had read about you when you were young but, can see from your ZWDS chart that you don't have much fate or good relationship with your parents, they are helpless. (Hmmmmm, you might also feel the same for some elderly or if you were employed before, your boss at work at times.)

It's true that there are a few people that I considered a father figure as I ran my business but they always disappoint. It always ends up in betrayal from my point of view.

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I wonder how their marriage life is going...? Something tells me it's dysfunctional.

It is my father that is hyper-critical and sharp-tongued. My mother, I never know her much, she's cold as far as I know.

Let's just say that my father never take any inputs at all and can start shouting even after 5 minutes of conversation. It all has to be done his way. From age 40-ish my father business hasn't been doing well and he struggles to support for the family. My mother work all the time too opening a business with only one day of break every month. My father has impossible expectation with people and think that he's perfect himself and yet never provide for the family. He always call me useless, always telling me that I always lose things and clumsy, or that I'm naughty while I'm always one of the quietest in school, and I never go out at all in my childhood, my dad drive all my friends away. He's prone to jealousy. My mother is a bystander and from my point of view sometimes incite jealousy between people or pit one child against another (but yeah I cannot know for sure, that's what I felt). She often compares me with other children, siblings, cousins, etc.

At age 22, I was suicidal took all the sleeping pills I can take. I had mental breakdown. My dad wants me to finish university in a year after transferring from another college. It's just not possible to do because it's one of the hardest school and I had to support myself as well working since I was 18 years old. When I didn't do what he said he stopped sending money. Sometimes I wonder if he sent me to school just so that he can get the certificate. He told me that he'll keep my university degree because I always lose things and even until today he still kept my university degree. My father never finish university.

It's been about 3 years when I realized that the family dynamic is too toxic to be in. I never had that much self esteem anyway, so I got out of there and never meet my parents even once. It just took me 30 years to realize the pattern. I got out of there because I realized that if I stay there I'll always be the guy that everyone stomp in, it was self-preservation.

I'm 34 now, single, unmarried, and jobless for the time being, I lost my business during the pandemic. Financially, I'm fine. How is life looking going forward? Is it going to get better? Too be honest, some days I'm just really tired with life.

Is my bazi looking that bad?

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Are you their only child? No siblings?

No, I have one younger sister. My sister is the perfect one, she cannot do anything wrong while I take all the blame.

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Hi master,

A long time ago, when I was about age 5-7. My mother said that when I was just born she visited someone who can read birth chart and the reader said that I should be given away and I should not call my father and mother dad or mom instead I should call them aunt and uncle. Fast forward 25 years later, the prophecy kinda come true, I no longer speak with my father and mother. I was abused mentally all the time by my father and there are two instances where my father said he would kill me. I ran away from home once too when I was 23 years old.

What was it in my bazi that is a giveaway on my terrible relationship with my parents?

I was born March 24, 1987, 5:30AM
My father was born March 10, 1957, 5:30AM-ish
My mother was born June 8, 1959, 7:30AM-ish

Thanks before.

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Request for birth chart reading [FREE] / Re: Will I ever got married?
« on: October 25, 2020, 02:32:34 AM »
@vng78 I was in business during 2013 - 2018.

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Request for birth chart reading [FREE] / Re: Will I ever got married?
« on: October 24, 2020, 03:55:09 AM »
@vng78 thank you for the reading.

My business failed this year, any chance that I can start another business or if it's better to be self employed or work in a corporate setting?

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Request for birth chart reading [FREE] / Re: Will I ever got married?
« on: October 21, 2020, 10:25:51 PM »
@vng78 yes, recently I was in a bad heartbreak and kinda went into depression and stop dating for a while. She is not married yet though but I believe she is with another man which I cannot prove.

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Request for birth chart reading [FREE] / Re: Will I ever got married?
« on: October 21, 2020, 12:24:16 AM »
@vng78 thank you for your reply.

Why do you say there is a mao wood in my DM? I thought I am a Yang Water daymaster sitting on Monkey (Ren Shen).

When do you think is the right time for me to settle down?

Also, what is my favorable element?

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