Hello,

I'm always confused on whether my daymaster is weak or strong. From bazi-calculator it seems weak but it has support from 2 Rob Wealth and sitting on Geng Metal. My daymaster is Ren.

I was born 24 March 1987, 5:30AM.

She is in jewelry business. Husband bought her a jewelry store from her oldest sibling whose wife didn't want to manage anymore.

You're kind of correct. She's actually pretty rich, but nothing seems to be enough for her. Most of her wealth is invested though, in real estate and precious metals.

Hello,

This chart has 4 potential self harm. What can you tell me about this person?

Born 7:30 AM, 8 June 1959

I wonder how their marriage life is going...? Something tells me it's dysfunctional.

It is my father that is hyper-critical and sharp-tongued. My mother, I never know her much, she's cold as far as I know.

Let's just say that my father never take any inputs at all and can start shouting even after 5 minutes of conversation. It all has to be done his way. From age 40-ish my father business hasn't been doing well and he struggles to support for the family. My mother work all the time too opening a business with only one day of break every month. My father has impossible expectation with people and think that he's perfect himself and yet never provide for the family. He always call me useless, always telling me that I always lose things and clumsy, or that I'm naughty while I'm always one of the quietest in school, and I never go out at all in my childhood, my dad drive all my friends away. He's prone to jealousy. My mother is a bystander and from my point of view sometimes incite jealousy between people or pit one child against another (but yeah I cannot know for sure, that's what I felt). She often compares me with other children, siblings, cousins, etc.

At age 22, I was suicidal took all the sleeping pills I can take. I had mental breakdown. My dad wants me to finish university in a year after transferring from another college. It's just not possible to do because it's one of the hardest school and I had to support myself as well working since I was 18 years old. When I didn't do what he said he stopped sending money. Sometimes I wonder if he sent me to school just so that he can get the certificate. He told me that he'll keep my university degree because I always lose things and even until today he still kept my university degree. My father never finish university.

It's been about 3 years when I realized that the family dynamic is too toxic to be in. I never had that much self esteem anyway, so I got out of there and never meet my parents even once. It just took me 30 years to realize the pattern. I got out of there because I realized that if I stay there I'll always be the guy that everyone stomp in, it was self-preservation.

I'm 34 now, single, unmarried, and jobless for the time being, I lost my business during the pandemic. Financially, I'm fine. How is life looking going forward? Is it going to get better? Too be honest, some days I'm just really tired with life.

Is my bazi looking that bad?

Are you their only child? No siblings?

No, I have one younger sister. My sister is the perfect one, she cannot do anything wrong while I take all the blame.

@vng78 I was in business during 2013 - 2018.

@vng78 yes, recently I was in a bad heartbreak and kinda went into depression and stop dating for a while. She is not married yet though but I believe she is with another man which I cannot prove.