Hi Leonard
Thank you for the quick response,
Actually thinking back, yes , my daughter always looks for my wife and my helper more then me. She sticks to them more often.
Also recalled my mom and wife are always not in good terms, my mother is someone that doesn't get along well with people, (Even everybody in the family) . She moved in with me in January as she quarreled badly with my step father(me and my wife just bought a new place), at first when she moved in, she was okay with my wife for 2-3 months. Afterwards she and my wife just didn't get along. She moved out of my place around July and went back to live with my stepfather after having a quarrel with my wife.
After that incident, we just didn't contact as much, i think about her occasionally, but this is a problem that will never resolved. I love my mother a lot and i really don't know how to communicate with her.
Yes i made quite a bit of money last year, me and my wife spent a bomb in our renovations and we are currently still recovering from our financial situation. Our finances really just flow out really quickly and we are always living from paycheck to paycheck.
Will try to save as much as i can but its really difficult. Something always pops up when i have "extra" money.
Yes i will be supervising more people next year as my company is hiring and they will all be under my care. Will try to maintain a Work-life balance.
Me and my wife's relationship is ok, just lack of communication i guess. Will Try to work out something.

On a side note may i ask what are ironclad instruments? i tried google-ing , and it seems like they are task specific work gloves?
Would like to know if that was what you meant?