Question about finance and spouse in chart

[ripplestars]

Hi!

I’ve heard before I won’t be rich according to my chart. But I do have some luck pillars to earn some money, which is mainly Ren Zi. But I just wanna ask, is there a gauge to how much I can earn in the luck pillar?$5000 per month might be a little money for some but a lot of money for others. So when they say I won’t be rich, what do they mean by rich? Perhaps for the bazi consultant rich means 1millon but for me rich means much less?

I’ve also heard I most likely won’t be married. But if I do, if, is it most possible during the luck pillar with the spouse element? So during jia yin and YI Mao?

Thank you for your time!

Singapore
Female
24 August 1997
15:54
(Solar time would be 14:46)

[crimsongem]

Your birth hour is sheep according to this tool: Bazi chart

With so much earth/peer elements, I think your chart does not intend to get rich. It's only good for competition or friendship/networking.

You're not supposed to think about money. Instead, you should think about "connections" in big communities (e.g. political party, religious group, team sports, etc) or globally diverse communities.

The dangerous side of having so much peer elements, your money is easily spread among your peers/competitors. People can easily take your money or take advantage of your generosity. You don't seem to care about losing money either. So, beware of the quality of your circle. IMO, your wealth is measured/determined by connections, not money.

Marriage is possible, but I think it will be quite late... somewhere near mid 30s, the earliest.

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[qingfantasy]

Singapore
Female
24 August 1997
15:54
(Solar time would be 14:46)

https://www.mybazi.com/index.php?lp=2&ay=1&xm=Your%20Name&yy=1997&mm=8&dd=24&hh=15&mn=54&gd=-1

Strong Wu earth daymaster.

No wood inside the chart. Wood is husband star. So affinity with husband is very weak. If there is no wood, then we look for substitute to represent husband. Since water produce wood, then we use water (wealth) to represent husband star. So we look for water inside the chart. You have Ren water hiding inside the Shen metal. The water also not very strong. For Wu Shen month pillar, it is Wu earth (competitor) sitting on Shen metal, inside the Shen metal is Ren water (your husband star). So this Ren water also possible to snatch by Wu earth.

For strong Wu earth daymaster, self-stars are competitor. We have Xu earth sitting inside the spouse palace. This Xu earth is another woman. That means your potential husband may have concubine. The Ren water hiding in Shen metal that located in the hour earthly branch is much better, sitting on Shen metal is your favorable Geng metal. That means your peach blossom luck is much better during the old age.

You are now in Xin Hai LP. We have the Jia wood officer hiding inside the Hai water in the Xin Hai LP. So it is still possible for you to get this Jia wood and married. However, the Jia wood is hiding inside the Hai water and it is not the main qi. So it is not easy to meet this Jia wood. We know Hai has relationship with Ding Chou (Year pillar) through the Hai-Zi-Chou, and sitting on Chou is Ding fire. Ding fire is resource which also represent your mother. That means Jia wood is possibly coming from your mother side or your mother may introduce you some guys in Xin Hai LP.

In your natal chart, the husband star is represent by Ren water. There is 2 sets of Shen-Xu-(You) combo, this give the image that your friends (Xu earth) also has interest in Shen metal (hiding inside Shen metal is the Ren water, husband star).

[ripplestars]

Singapore
Female
24 August 1997
15:54
(Solar time would be 14:46)

https://www.mybazi.com/index.php?lp=2&ay=1&xm=Your%20Name&yy=1997&mm=8&dd=24&hh=15&mn=54&gd=-1

Strong Wu earth daymaster.

No wood inside the chart. Wood is husband star. So affinity with husband is very weak. If there is no wood, then we look for substitute to represent husband. Since water produce wood, then we use water (wealth) to represent husband star. So we look for water inside the chart. You have Ren water hiding inside the Shen metal. The water also not very strong. For Wu Shen month pillar, it is Wu earth (competitor) sitting on Shen metal, inside the Shen metal is Ren water (your husband star). So this Ren water also possible to snatch by Wu earth.

For strong Wu earth daymaster, self-stars are competitor. We have Xu earth sitting inside the spouse palace. This Xu earth is another woman. That means your potential husband may have concubine. The Ren water hiding in Shen metal that located in the hour earthly branch is much better, sitting on Shen metal is your favorable Geng metal. That means your peach blossom luck is much better during the old age.

You are now in Xin Hai LP. We have the Jia wood officer hiding inside the Hai water in the Xin Hai LP. So it is still possible for you to get this Jia wood and married. However, the Jia wood is hiding inside the Hai water and it is not the main qi. So it is not easy to meet this Jia wood. We know Hai has relationship with Ding Chou (Year pillar) through the Hai-Zi-Chou, and sitting on Chou is Ding fire. Ding fire is resource which also represent your mother. That means Jia wood is possibly coming from your mother side or your mother may introduce you some guys in Xin Hai LP.

In your natal chart, the husband star is represent by Ren water. There is 2 sets of Shen-Xu-(You) combo, this give the image that your friends (Xu earth) also has interest in Shen metal (hiding inside Shen metal is the Ren water, husband star).

Hi there! Thanks for the long explanation I saw the chart you linked but it seems like you used the original birth time instead of my solar time? The professional bazi master i consulted once says my hour pillar is ji wei according to my solar time

[ripplestars]

Your birth hour is sheep according to this tool: Bazi chart

With so much earth/peer elements, I think your chart does not intend to get rich. It's only good for competition or friendship/networking.

You're not supposed to think about money. Instead, you should think about "connections" in big communities (e.g. political party, religious group, team sports, etc) or globally diverse communities.

The dangerous side of having so much peer elements, your money is easily spread among your peers/competitors. People can easily take your money or take advantage of your generosity. You don't seem to care about losing money either. So, beware of the quality of your circle. IMO, your wealth is measured/determined by connections, not money.

Marriage is possible, but I think it will be quite late... somewhere near mid 30s, the earliest.

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Hi there! I saw the bazi chart you posted and you used my solar time. If I’m not wrong, the bazi calculator you used actually automatically converts the original birth time to solar time, so 15:54 should be entered instead of 14:46?

Thanks for offering me another perspective! I’ve always been told I won’t be rich and it just feels like no matter how hard I work I won’t earn good money. It’s nice to understand that perhaps money isn’t what I’m looking for, and building connections is what is more important for me.

It’s nice to hear that there’s a possibility for marriage as well. Mid 30s is just the right time for me so it’s not too late! Thank you very much!

[crimsongem]

Hi there! I saw the bazi chart you posted and you used my solar time. If I’m not wrong, the bazi calculator you used actually automatically converts the original birth time to solar time, so 15:54 should be entered instead of 14:46?

I wasn't sure which one to enter, but I ignored it without asking because either hour is still within Ji Wei after calculation.

[vng78]

@ripplestars,

Some quick questions:
- Are you currently in Singapore? If yes, any thought of moving outside of Singapore?
- Do you work for a foreign company or the government?
- Do you happen to work in the financial related industry?
- Do you move around a lot in your line of work?
- You can be quite competitive person?
- Your mother is a housewife?
- Father - mother relationship is good but how is your relationship with your mother?
- Did mother have any health issues during your teenage years?

Vince

[ripplestars]

@ripplestars,

Some quick questions:
- Are you currently in Singapore? If yes, any thought of moving outside of Singapore?
- Do you work for a foreign company or the government?
- Do you happen to work in the financial related industry?
- Do you move around a lot in your line of work?
- You can be quite competitive person?
- Your mother is a housewife?
- Father - mother relationship is good but how is your relationship with your mother?
- Did mother have any health issues during your teenage years?

Vince

Hi Vince,

Yes, I’m currently in Sg. I do hope to live overseas/ work overseas for some time in the future.
I’m at home trading cryptocurrency and stocks for now ( due to a weird health issue that has bugged me since 2018 hence I’m mostly resting at home.) when I’m alright I hope to work as a mindfulness/meditation teacher … I do think about doing it overseas but in my home country is alright  too. I wouldn’t really say I’m a competitive person, but I do like working alongside others. I enjoy being in a team and working with people. My mum is not a housewife, she’s an office worker. Both my parents work. I wouldn’t say my parents have a very good relationship, but it’s not that bad either. I actually have a better relationship with my mother than with my father. My father can be overprotective sometimes and that makes me feel suffocated. But I do have a good relationship with my parents in general and they are the most important people in my life. My father is the one who has health issues during my teenage years, not my mother

[vng78]

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Thanks.

- If mother has a career, then would you say your mother is more capable than your father?
- If you would not describe yourself as competitive, would you say you're a stubborn person? Also you're more towards an introvert, quiet type?
- Doing trading of crypto and shares I think you're doing alright but you also have not made a large sum of profit? Is that $5K a month what you typically make?
- This weird health issue, is it skin, digestion or respiratory/ENT related?
- Would you say you're prone to stress and anxiety? Or oftentimes, your thoughts are disorganized?

- I would think my mother works in a better company. Her pay is slightly higher than my father and she is more thrifty so she has more money saved.
- I wouldn’t say I’m very stubborn, but I do hear that I’m stubborn once in a while. I love meeting people and interacting, but yes I’m introverted and quiet too. I need my alone time.
- haha yes I have not earned a big amount from trading yet. I did make a good amount in 2020/2021 but I recently lost alot in 2022…
- health issue is related to nervous system and digestion
- yes I’m very prone to anxiety since I was young! My biggest problem actually. Which is my i started doing mindfulness activities which has helped me alot and this is why I want to help people with similar issues in the future.

[vng78]

@ripplestars

        日
丁 戊 戊 己
丑 申 戌 未

About your finance/wealth:
You have high tendency of making your money from government or foreign companies. In your chart, you can have good achievement in your work and your wealth / earning potential I would say slightly above average (in Singapore standard).

You do place high importance on money and you might think about being your own boss someday.
The best period to accumulate wealth for you is in your mid 40s. Prior to that, money comes and goes.

About your spouse / marriage
In your chart, generally it’s quite difficult for you to get married.
However, I think your chart is not a single forever type of chart.
Good signs of marriage are mostly in your mid to late 50s, which unfortunately is very very late by our social norm / standard. He would be a divorcee and someone not from Singapore and someone about same age or few years older than you.

Vince

[ripplestars]

@ripplestars

        日
丁 戊 戊 己
丑 申 戌 未

About your finance/wealth:
You have high tendency of making your money from government or foreign companies. In your chart, you can have good achievement in your work and your wealth / earning potential I would say slightly above average (in Singapore standard).

You do place high importance on money and you might think about being your own boss someday.
The best period to accumulate wealth for you is in your mid 40s. Prior to that, money comes and goes.

About your spouse / marriage
In your chart, generally it’s quite difficult for you to get married.
However, I think your chart is not a single forever type of chart.
Good signs of marriage are mostly in your mid to late 50s, which unfortunately is very very late by our social norm / standard. He would be a divorcee and someone not from Singapore and someone about same age or few years older than you.

Vince

I see! Thank you so much for your inputs! I really appreciate it

Can you perhaps see why I’m unlikely to get married? Is it because of my personality or something else?

[ripplestars]

Your birth hour is sheep according to this tool: Bazi chart

With so much earth/peer elements, I think your chart does not intend to get rich. It's only good for competition or friendship/networking.

You're not supposed to think about money. Instead, you should think about "connections" in big communities (e.g. political party, religious group, team sports, etc) or globally diverse communities.

The dangerous side of having so much peer elements, your money is easily spread among your peers/competitors. People can easily take your money or take advantage of your generosity. You don't seem to care about losing money either. So, beware of the quality of your circle. IMO, your wealth is measured/determined by connections, not money.

Marriage is possible, but I think it will be quite late... somewhere near mid 30s, the earliest.

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Hi there! Sorry for the trouble, but if I may ask again, why is marriage possible in my mid 30s? My spouse element only appears in my luck pillar when I’m 55 onwards?

[crimsongem]

Hi there! Sorry for the trouble, but if I may ask again, why is marriage possible in my mid 30s? My spouse element only appears in my luck pillar when I’m 55 onwards?

You still have Ren-Ding combo which produce wood during Ren Zi LP.

[vng78]

Can you perhaps see why I’m unlikely to get married? Is it because of my personality or something else?

I didn’t say unlikely, instead, I said it’s quite difficult.

There are multiple reasons for this (other than stubbornness, anxiety which we already know)
1. You’re picky as well
2. Your relationships tend not to last long / proceed into marriage stage, due to competition or guys you date just don’t belong to you.
3. Purely timing (in your 50s)

Vince