Question about finance and spouse in chart

[ripplestars]

Hi there! Sorry for the trouble, but if I may ask again, why is marriage possible in my mid 30s? My spouse element only appears in my luck pillar when I’m 55 onwards?

You still have Ren-Ding combo which produce wood during Ren Zi LP.

I see, thank you very much!

[ripplestars]

Can you perhaps see why I’m unlikely to get married? Is it because of my personality or something else?

I didn’t say unlikely, instead, I said it’s quite difficult.

There are multiple reasons for this (other than stubbornness, anxiety which we already know)
1. You’re picky as well
2. Your relationships tend not to last long / proceed into marriage stage, due to competition or guys you date just don’t belong to you.
3. Purely timing (in your 50s)

Vince

Oh I see! Can I clarify for point 2, you said guys I date don’t belong to me, do you mean that I date guys who are already attached or you just mean they aren’t meant to be with me?

[vng78]

It can be both, there’s no quick way to discern which is more likely.
Either way eventually they don’t belong to you.

Just remember I don’t think your chart is single forever type of chart.

[ripplestars]

It can be both, there’s no quick way to discern which is more likely.
Either way eventually they don’t belong to you.

Just remember I don’t think your chart is single forever type of chart.

h

I see…. I’ll keep this in mind and make sure I don’t do things against my morals.

Thank you very much Vince!

[marsboy]

not sure who is your "professional sifu" asking you to use solar time. all i know prominent sifus who actually read for VIP and super successful like so man fung and joey yap used the "time as it is", not the modern invention of bazi real solar time. our so called time is also not "real" since it is counted from Gmt =0. why cant we use jerusalem, cairo, as the prime meridian ? then malaysia is only gmt +6 or +7 , not +8.

not sure what you mean by rich. the actual definition of rich bazi chart is 2. cai qi tong men hu or wealth storage. you have neither. but having hidden wealth stars generally mean like to secretly save money. if your a normal wage worker, i don't know how to be rich in a conventional sense especially when you're still so young.

no DO star generally mean lack affinity with husband. then need rely on peach blossom years. this year 2023 is heavy. mao year is your peach blossom, plus earth dm easy marry in years ending in 3 and 4. this year cant marry wait 10 more years.

[Han]

Hi!

I’ve heard before I won’t be rich according to my chart. But I do have some luck pillars to earn some money, which is mainly Ren Zi. But I just wanna ask, is there a gauge to how much I can earn in the luck pillar?$5000 per month might be a little money for some but a lot of money for others. So when they say I won’t be rich, what do they mean by rich? Perhaps for the bazi consultant rich means 1millon but for me rich means much less?

I’ve also heard I most likely won’t be married. But if I do, if, is it most possible during the luck pillar with the spouse element? So during jia yin and YI Mao?

Thank you for your time!

Singapore
Female
24 August 1997
15:54
(Solar time would be 14:46)

Best regards,
Han

[ripplestars]

@ripplestars

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About your finance/wealth:
You have high tendency of making your money from government or foreign companies. In your chart, you can have good achievement in your work and your wealth / earning potential I would say slightly above average (in Singapore standard).

You do place high importance on money and you might think about being your own boss someday.
The best period to accumulate wealth for you is in your mid 40s. Prior to that, money comes and goes.

About your spouse / marriage
In your chart, generally it’s quite difficult for you to get married.
However, I think your chart is not a single forever type of chart.
Good signs of marriage are mostly in your mid to late 50s, which unfortunately is very very late by our social norm / standard. He would be a divorcee and someone not from Singapore and someone about same age or few years older than you.

Vince
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Hi Vince! Sorry to bother you again. Regarding “best period to accumulate wealth is mid 40s and prior to that money comes and goes”, does that mean the money I earned before 40s I will lose all? Is it to the point that I would have to worry and struggle about not having enough money?

[vng78]

Hi Vince! Sorry to bother you again. Regarding “best period to accumulate wealth is mid 40s and prior to that money comes and goes”, does that mean the money I earned before 40s I will lose all? Is it to the point that I would have to worry and struggle about not having enough money?

It means your incomes would tend to be unstable therefore harder to accumulate wealth consistently.

[ripplestars]

Hi Vince! Sorry to bother you again. Regarding “best period to accumulate wealth is mid 40s and prior to that money comes and goes”, does that mean the money I earned before 40s I will lose all? Is it to the point that I would have to worry and struggle about not having enough money?

It means your incomes would tend to be unstable therefore harder to accumulate wealth consistently.

I see, thank you very much!

[yc poon]

from my point of view, as you are strong on friend/robwealth element that is earth, therefore by nature you are someone who prefer for stability life and resist to changes, hence you suitable to work with other. The possibility of getting rich by working for other is very slim but it not impossible. just the journey not easy and depend on your choice. with your career luck coming next decade and good with people, aim to work in big corperation and get promoted maybe the way for your career.

as for spouse, since the decade luck not supportive it will be abit harder to meet up with the your potential partner, but you can utilise the annual year. the option will not be much and you need to actively search for it. This rabbit year may bring abit luck for peach blossom for you. the next coming will be Horse year. 
 
in addition, just beware of your friend when it come to money leading, partnership or investment. 
Just for my record, would you be working in finance-related indusrty? 

[ripplestars]

from my point of view, as you are strong on friend/robwealth element that is earth, therefore by nature you are someone who prefer for stability life and resist to changes, hence you suitable to work with other. The possibility of getting rich by working for other is very slim but it not impossible. just the journey not easy and depend on your choice. with your career luck coming next decade and good with people, aim to work in big corperation and get promoted maybe the way for your career.

as for spouse, since the decade luck not supportive it will be abit harder to meet up with the your potential partner, but you can utilise the annual year. the option will not be much and you need to actively search for it. This rabbit year may bring abit luck for peach blossom for you. the next coming will be Horse year. 
 
in addition, just beware of your friend when it come to money leading, partnership or investment. 
Just for my record, would you be working in finance-related indusrty?

Hi, thank you so much!

Can I ask why horse year? I thought it’s years where there is wood element (since it’s my spouse elemnet) so isn’t it 2023 and 2025?

I’m currently trading crypto currency so I guess it’s finance related?

[yc poon]

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[ripplestars]

Hi!

I’ve heard before I won’t be rich according to my chart. But I do have some luck pillars to earn some money, which is mainly Ren Zi. But I just wanna ask, is there a gauge to how much I can earn in the luck pillar?$5000 per month might be a little money for some but a lot of money for others. So when they say I won’t be rich, what do they mean by rich? Perhaps for the bazi consultant rich means 1millon but for me rich means much less?

I’ve also heard I most likely won’t be married. But if I do, if, is it most possible during the luck pillar with the spouse element? So during jia yin and YI Mao?

Thank you for your time!

Singapore
Female
24 August 1997
15:54
(Solar time would be 14:46)

Best regards,
Han

Hi Han, thanks for the analysis! Can I ask why do you choose to use birth time instead of solar time? Is birth time more accurate for you?