Feeling stuck in life-Need advice

[curiouscat]

Hi Masters,

I’m new here and have been following this forum for a few weeks. I came to realize that most masters here have been able to provide pragmatic life advices to ppl who need them aside from reading charts.

Before having you spend your precious time analyzing any chart, I’d like some advice from you:

For a person who’s feeling stuck in life but know he/she is the root cause of the stagnation, is CM able to provide any insight to move forward with hope of finding success in his/her own terms? Or he/she is advised to  just work on improving his/her weaknesses (personal development/ therapies etc) and the right insight will come at the right time?

Thank you very much. 🙏🏻

[TaiYin]

Knowing is knowledge. It takes will and wisdom to accept the challenge in life and move forward.
That's willpower.

If you don't find that willpower and motivation, regardless whatever insights you have in life... you won't move forward.

Have a good journey.

[luckylei]

Yes, I agree. I wish there was a way to help people when their luck is not in their favor, especially when it feels almost impossible to move forward.

In the event when extreme hardship is presented to an individual what would be sage advice for those who are suffering internally and externally?

[TaiYin]

Seek professional help. Mental health, meditation, etc. No master can help in that area.

We can show you what is obvious and perhaps give some recommendations but it is still up to willpower to action it. Plus, any master shouldn't alter your actions and decisions. They can give options or recommendations based on chart. However, some options and recommendations at most time can't be actions due to certain external restrictions but most times also due to our own willpowers.

If you feel stagnant and continue to complain or grief about it even though the options are easy to pursue, then no one can help you. Best is professional help, medical check to see any missing vitamin or hormone deficiencies, etc.

Find things what motivates you best.

All the best.

[crimsongem]

In the event when extreme hardship is presented to an individual what would be sage advice for those who are suffering internally and externally?

Sometimes all you can do is waiting. Helping hands are only there so you can withstand the pressure.

[curiouscat]

Thank you all for your replies! All very valuable advices/ responses. 🙏🏻

I feel that most times, changes in one’s life/ fortune are only 1 friend/ acquaintance/ book/ thought/ video/ voice/ advice etc away. It is my personal hope that everybody who is stuck at a dark place find that 1 thing sooner. Perhaps CM could help shed some lights. The decision to action upon it is entirely on the individual.

[babysammi]

I guess it is part and parcel of life that we have to go through low moment or low period in life.

Read that period 9 is coming so pay attention to your mental health. During stagnation, I guess need to let go of expectations and focus on well-being, mental health, learning to reinvent yourself plus learning new things.

I am also coping with stagnation so wishing you all the best and let's overcome this together.

[curiouscat]

Thanks for chipping in with your words of encouragement @babysammi!

One of the things you mentioned that stood out for me is the need to reinvent myself. I’m working on improving my mental health and figuring out what drives me (if that’s even possible for me haha). Anyway, one step at a time.

I’m sure what I’m experiencing is nothing compared to yours. Wishing you all the best too, and yes, let’s overcome this together 😄