Request relationship reading

[Falc]

Hi good people,

My DOB 9 Aug 1981. Male. Time: 3.20am. Singapore

I would like to know if I have luck with relationship or even get married at all, can you kindly help ?

In other area of life, so far I have no complain but I have difficulty to be in relationship with woman it seems.

Thank you.

[Spiritsfan]

Hello. Southern solar hemisphere. Man. - 1-20.
Your pillars of luck have changed in 2022. The social circle has changed. There were candidates. Why didn't they suit you? But you have a BaZi card, which makes it difficult to have wealth. Are you in a good job with a good salary? Is there a property or a car in your name?

[crimsongem]

In other area of life, so far I have no complain but I have difficulty to be in relationship with woman it seems.

Do they cheat on you and the difficulty may also be related to your broken family ties?

Do you have strong female influence in your career as well?

[Falc]

Hello. Southern solar hemisphere. Man. - 1-20.
Your pillars of luck have changed in 2022. The social circle has changed. There were candidates. Why didn't they suit you? But you have a BaZi card, which makes it difficult to have wealth. Are you in a good job with a good salary? Is there a property or a car in your name?

I am in good job and a good salary at least I think I am comfortable enough, I have got a condo but no car. I can afford it probably if I want too though. Like I said i have no concern in other areas of my life for now.
I do not have many friends and probably a loner or very introvert person. Last relationship was in 2017-2018 but it did not work out and separated in 2019 and since then I have no other relationship.
Meet some woman but I guess it failed to advance to next step as I have difficulty to express myself well as an introvert.

[Falc]

In other area of life, so far I have no complain but I have difficulty to be in relationship with woman it seems.

Do they cheat on you and the difficulty may also be related to your broken family ties?

Do you have strong female influence in your career as well?

Do they cheat on you and the difficulty may also be related to your broken family ties? Not at all

Do you have strong female influence in your career as well? well I guess no but my colleagues mostly are women since I started working

[Spiritsfan]

Hello. Southern solar hemisphere. Man. - 1-20.
Your pillars of luck have changed in 2022. The social circle has changed. There were candidates. Why didn't they suit you? But you have a BaZi card, which makes it difficult to have wealth. Are you in a good job with a good salary? Is there a property or a car in your name?

I am in good job and a good salary at least I think I am comfortable enough, I have got a condo but no car. I can afford it probably if I want too though. Like I said i have no concern in other areas of my life for now.
I do not have many friends and probably a loner or very introvert person. Last relationship was in 2017-2018 but it did not work out and separated in 2019 and since then I have no other relationship.
Meet some woman but I guess it failed to advance to next step as I have difficulty to express myself well as an introvert.

Hello. Relationships are also in the realm of resources. If you have the resources of a good job and an apartment, you just don't have enough energy for a relationship. It's good that you don't buy a car. As an option, you yourself need to start looking for a partner with the right elements for you. Or move to a round house, if you have one. Round - the energy of the metal, removes energy from the soil dm. This will free up your energy for relationships. Do you have the opportunity to write the date of birth of a woman with whom there was no continuation? You can only date, no time.

[Falc]

Hello. Southern solar hemisphere. Man. - 1-20.
Your pillars of luck have changed in 2022. The social circle has changed. There were candidates. Why didn't they suit you? But you have a BaZi card, which makes it difficult to have wealth. Are you in a good job with a good salary? Is there a property or a car in your name?

I am in good job and a good salary at least I think I am comfortable enough, I have got a condo but no car. I can afford it probably if I want too though. Like I said i have no concern in other areas of my life for now.
I do not have many friends and probably a loner or very introvert person. Last relationship was in 2017-2018 but it did not work out and separated in 2019 and since then I have no other relationship.
Meet some woman but I guess it failed to advance to next step as I have difficulty to express myself well as an introvert.

Hello. Relationships are also in the realm of resources. If you have the resources of a good job and an apartment, you just don't have enough energy for a relationship. It's good that you don't buy a car. As an option, you yourself need to start looking for a partner with the right elements for you. Or move to a round house, if you have one. Round - the energy of the metal, removes energy from the soil dm. This will free up your energy for relationships. Do you have the opportunity to write the date of birth of a woman with whom there was no continuation? You can only date, no time.

Her BOD is 16 Apr 1990

[Spiritsfan]

Hello. Southern solar hemisphere. Man. - 1-20.
Your pillars of luck have changed in 2022. The social circle has changed. There were candidates. Why didn't they suit you? But you have a BaZi card, which makes it difficult to have wealth. Are you in a good job with a good salary? Is there a property or a car in your name?

I am in good job and a good salary at least I think I am comfortable enough, I have got a condo but no car. I can afford it probably if I want too though. Like I said i have no concern in other areas of my life for now.
I do not have many friends and probably a loner or very introvert person. Last relationship was in 2017-2018 but it did not work out and separated in 2019 and since then I have no other relationship.
Meet some woman but I guess it failed to advance to next step as I have difficulty to express myself well as an introvert.

Hello. Relationships are also in the realm of resources. If you have the resources of a good job and an apartment, you just don't have enough energy for a relationship. It's good that you don't buy a car. As an option, you yourself need to start looking for a partner with the right elements for you. Or move to a round house, if you have one. Round - the energy of the metal, removes energy from the soil dm. This will free up your energy for relationships. Do you have the opportunity to write the date of birth of a woman with whom there was no continuation? You can only date, no time.

Her BOD is 16 Apr 1990

This was an attack on you to reduce your wealth. In your situation, you yourself need to look for suitable women for you. They simply will not be allowed to approach you hunters for wealth. If you work in a women's team, you understand what I'm talking about.

[vng78]

My DOB 9 Aug 1981. Male. Time: 3.20am. Singapore
I would like to know if I have luck with relationship or even get married at all, can you kindly help ?

Hi, your chart:
        元
辛 丙 己 乙
酉 申 未 丑

Before we get to relationship aspect, let me make sure of the chart itself based on a quick read:

Father is a capable person, seems to hold authority in his work. Mother on the other hand looks to be mainly a housewife.
Their relationship is not that great. There's a sign that your mother was also possibly someone who was born outside Singapore.
Did something happen to your father health wise during 2016-2021?

You're indeed an introvert, difficult to express yourself well as you described, but not only that, I think you're also shy and rather closed person?
You do have good reputation at work or small authority there. Do you work for a local / small company instead of MNCs?

Your relationship in 2017-2019, was she a Singaporean or non-Singaporean? Was she someone pretty and petit or otherwise?
What was the reason of break up? Another person came into her life?

Thanks
Vince

[Falc]

My DOB 9 Aug 1981. Male. Time: 3.20am. Singapore
I would like to know if I have luck with relationship or even get married at all, can you kindly help ?

Hi, your chart:
        元
辛 丙 己 乙
酉 申 未 丑

Before we get to relationship aspect, let me make sure of the chart itself based on a quick read:

Father is a capable person, seems to hold authority in his work. Mother on the other hand looks to be mainly a housewife.
Their relationship is not that great. There's a sign that your mother was also possibly someone who was born outside Singapore.
Did something happen to your father health wise during 2016-2021?

You're indeed an introvert, difficult to express yourself well as you described, but not only that, I think you're also shy and rather closed person?
You do have good reputation at work or small authority there. Do you work for a local / small company instead of MNCs?

Your relationship in 2017-2019, was she a Singaporean or non-Singaporean? Was she someone pretty and petit or otherwise?
What was the reason of break up? Another person came into her life?

Thanks
Vince

Father is a capable person, seems to hold authority in his work. Mother on the other hand looks to be mainly a housewife.
Their relationship is not that great. There's a sign that your mother was also possibly someone who was born outside Singapore.
Did something happen to your father health wise during 2016-2021?
Yes, it sounds correct to me. Nothing happen to my father health wise though, he is very health conscious person, so far no major illness. My parents relationship, I would say is still ok not great, perhaps they try to tolerate each others.

You're indeed an introvert, difficult to express yourself well as you described, but not only that, I think you're also shy and rather closed person? Yes, you are correct and I am shy especially with someone I am interested in.
You do have good reputation at work or small authority there. Do you work for a local / small company instead of MNCs? I works in foreign MNC

Your relationship in 2017-2019, was she a Singaporean or non-Singaporean? Was she someone pretty and petit or otherwise? Non-singaporean, yes she is petit and in my opinion she is pretty
What was the reason of break up? Another person came into her life? I think due to long distance and I would like to settle down at that time while she is not ready and we mutually agree to end our relationship.

Thanks

[vng78]

Thanks for the feedback.

Still on parents, just to confirm, your mother was born in or outside Singapore?
And, I also see a sign of father involved in an affair, does this correlate in reality?

Vince

[Falc]

Thanks for the feedback.

Still on parents, just to confirm, your mother was born in or outside Singapore?
And, I also see a sign of father involved in an affair, does this correlate in reality?

Vince

My mother was born outside Singapore.
I do not think my father had an affair as far as I am aware.

Also I think long time ago, I was told my birth time should be closer to Tiger hour not Ox hour..

[vng78]

Your birth hour 3:20am is what stated on your birth cert right?
I don’t see any case of borderline hour also to necessitate adjustment.

Anyway, if Tiger hour, most prominent characteristics:
1. your mother would have been someone born in Singapore and your relationship with her would be quite bad.
2. Your father would cause you a lot of psychological stress and he would often be away far from home.

Do those reflect your real life better or what I described at first using Ox hour (3:20am) better?

Vince

[Falc]

Your birth hour 3:20am is what stated on your birth cert right?
I don’t see any case of borderline hour also to necessitate adjustment.

Anyway, if Tiger hour, most prominent characteristics:
1. your mother would have been someone born in Singapore and your relationship with her would be quite bad.
2. Your father would cause you a lot of psychological stress and he would often be away far from home.

Do those reflect your real life better or what I described at first using Ox hour (3:20am) better?

Vince

I think you describe at first better. I have a good relationship with my mother, although my father would often be away far from home, he did not cause me a lot of psychological stress.

Thanks

[crimsongem]

Do they cheat on you and the difficulty may also be related to your broken family ties?

Do you have strong female influence in your career as well?

Thanks for clarifying.

IMO, there is a clash of 'energy', which can manifest in all sorts of differences. Both of you have totally different goals/ideas. You are a 'scholar', she is an 'artist'. You stick with the rules, she is a rule-breaker. You are a homeboy, she's a traveler. You find her overwhelming like a hurricane, she finds you boring like watching paint dry.

If there's any workaround, I guess it has something to do with religion. For example, both of you should be devoted to the same religion. Then you will find stability on the ship, with religion as the anchor.