Request to read Bazi

[ctan]

Hi.

I would like to request for help to interpret/analyze Bazi for Relationship (love & marriage) and career. Curious

Female, 9 October 1981, 7.30 am, Malaysia

[Spiritsfan]

Hello. Southern solar hemisphere. - 1. Woman.
You have a pillar of luck from 2020 to 2030 people with DM Yang water reduce your authority and help enemies. Due to the fact that you have yang metal in resonance, the action of the pillar increases its strength. But at the same time, you must have real estate registered on you or you must be in a good position at work. Have a good salary. Do you only have problems in your personal life? Are you the boss? Do you have property or children?

[ctan]

I have a small property. Have a decent stable job. Met a number of petty people at work, giving some troubles for me, due to jealousy. No children. Single. Challenges in personal life. Not many friends. Do I have luck in love and marriage?? or something as bad as mistress luck? I’m Not a boss. Not even sure if I have the leadership quality to be a boss

[Spiritsfan]

You shouldn't be as bad as you write. Either you work at a yang metal job. This is the police, programming, medicine. Anything related to a specific result. Or you have someone from the inner circle of bad pillars of luck. Did it all start in 2020? Or earlier or later?

[ctan]

You shouldn't be as bad as you write. Either you work at a yang metal job. This is the police, programming, medicine. Anything related to a specific result. Or you have someone from the inner circle of bad pillars of luck. Did it all start in 2020? Or earlier or later?

Yeah, I am in the R&D field. Competitive environment, less favourable earlier between 2018-2021. Your analysis is quite close with the nature of my job with specific results.
Had a failed relationship, in the previous luck pillar. What does it mean by inner circle?
And met another in 2019/2020 and is unstable/no future although we love each other. . I wonder if I have encountered a few bad peach blossoms. Do I have any luck in marriage/children/family?

[Spiritsfan]

You shouldn't be as bad as you write. Either you work at a yang metal job. This is the police, programming, medicine. Anything related to a specific result. Or you have someone from the inner circle of bad pillars of luck. Did it all start in 2020? Or earlier or later?

Yeah, I am in the R&D field. Competitive environment, less favourable earlier between 2018-2021. Your analysis is quite close with the nature of my job with specific results.
Had a failed relationship, in the previous luck pillar. What does it mean by inner circle?
And met another in 2019/2020 and is unstable/no future although we love each other. . I wonder if I have encountered a few bad peach blossoms. Do I have any luck in marriage/children/family?

See. You have a better card than 63% of people. 5 out of 8 elements are useful to you. And you describe the life of a person with a ratio of 5 out of 8 elements against you. This means there is a strong external factor. Which I am trying to find. The close circle is relatives. Parents, brothers, sisters. One factor is found - work. But there is more. It could even be a colleague or boss. To whom this work is useful due to the element of metal yang. Or even a group of people. If you have a "conspiracy" against you at work - this could be it.
And you can DOB men, you can without the time you met in 2019.

[ctan]

You shouldn't be as bad as you write. Either you work at a yang metal job. This is the police, programming, medicine. Anything related to a specific result. Or you have someone from the inner circle of bad pillars of luck. Did it all start in 2020? Or earlier or later?

Yeah, I am in the R&D field. Competitive environment, less favourable earlier between 2018-2021. Your analysis is quite close with the nature of my job with specific results.
Had a failed relationship, in the previous luck pillar. What does it mean by inner circle?
And met another in 2019/2020 and is unstable/no future although we love each other. . I wonder if I have encountered a few bad peach blossoms. Do I have any luck in marriage/children/family?

See. You have a better card than 63% of people. 5 out of 8 elements are useful to you. And you describe the life of a person with a ratio of 5 out of 8 elements against you. This means there is a strong external factor. Which I am trying to find. The close circle is relatives. Parents, brothers, sisters. One factor is found - work. But there is more. It could even be a colleague or boss. To whom this work is useful due to the element of metal yang. Or even a group of people. If you have a "conspiracy" against you at work - this could be it.
And you can DOB men, you can without the time you met in 2019.

I am not aware that I have a not too bad card, because I feel my current journey has not been smooth. thank you for letting me know. A small group of seniors in similar field, sitting in the higher office, see me as their potential threat or competition. I guess it is normal with office politics. How about family relationship, will it improve? There are few people entered my life in 2019-2020, shown interest, which makes me wonder about which is good or bad peach blossoms.
His BOD : 24 May 1985, Man A.
Another one, Man B, 1986. I dont know his DOB.

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You shouldn't be as bad as you write. Either you work at a yang metal job. This is the police, programming, medicine. Anything related to a specific result. Or you have someone from the inner circle of bad pillars of luck. Did it all start in 2020? Or earlier or later?

Yeah, I am in the R&D field. Competitive environment, less favourable earlier between 2018-2021. Your analysis is quite close with the nature of my job with specific results.
Had a failed relationship, in the previous luck pillar. What does it mean by inner circle?
And met another in 2019/2020 and is unstable/no future although we love each other. . I wonder if I have encountered a few bad peach blossoms. Do I have any luck in marriage/children/family?

See. You have a better card than 63% of people. 5 out of 8 elements are useful to you. And you describe the life of a person with a ratio of 5 out of 8 elements against you. This means there is a strong external factor. Which I am trying to find. The close circle is relatives. Parents, brothers, sisters. One factor is found - work. But there is more. It could even be a colleague or boss. To whom this work is useful due to the element of metal yang. Or even a group of people. If you have a "conspiracy" against you at work - this could be it.
And you can DOB men, you can without the time you met in 2019.

I am not aware that I have a not too bad card, because I feel my current journey has not been smooth. thank you for letting me know. A small group of seniors in similar field, sitting in the higher office, see me as their potential threat or competition. I guess it is normal with office politics. How about family relationship, will it improve? There are few people entered my life in 2019-2020, shown interest, which makes me wonder about which is good or bad peach blossoms.
His BOD : 24 May 1985, Man A.
Another one, Man B, 1986. I dont know his DOB.

You and your BaZi card can have a relationship at any time. The map allows it. External circumstances do not allow. You need a Yang water element work. Selling with a big check. Cars, business projects, houses, decorations. Or any other, but not Yang metal. It will be better anyway.
People unite in groups against other people for their own benefit. At all stages of life. With weak BaZi cards against people with strong BaZi cards. Against people with even weaker BaZi cards. You have now chosen the most difficult direction. This is the Taoist way of training. Increasing difficulties in life. To improve your skills. Therefore, if you want a relationship, and then a family and children, you need to change the element of work.
One of the signs of external influence of a group of other people is when people love each other. But not together. The person you met was right for you.

I did notice that I do not have enough 'water" in my Bazi. How to enhance Yang water element in life, perhaps through changing home decor/furniture with the water elements ? Do I have to change my job to the "yang water element job"?
May I know what did you mean by I have chosen the most difficult direction? In which aspect? If it is related to my career, did it mean that I should choose to be "aligned" with that group of people to reduce my obstacles? We have different principles and work ethics. It is not easy.
It is very sad that we can't be together, although loving each other and feeling comfortable with each other and compatible in many ways. I have very little confidence in myself, to face all other external factors/obstacles. there is too much doubt until one can feel like giving up and go separate ways. Any chance for the person and I to come back together again?

[Spiritsfan]

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As long as you work in such a metal yang job, you will be the weak link in the team. And they will always unite against you. This is a dead end. And joining a group that won't help against you. They will still betray you. I don't know what career change opportunities you have. But even moving as a consultant to the sales department will improve your position. And if you behave passively, without standing up for your rights, you will always be driven into the worst position in the team. It's a cruel corporate world. He's not for everyone. You are now in your position will always give energy. Therefore, you will not have a personal life. You don't have energy for it. You spend everything at work.
My personal experience has shown that housing depends on BaZi. And not vice versa. Therefore, feng shui does not change anything drastically in life.
Try to get into sales without losing your professional orientation and your life will improve.
And there is a chance to build relationships again. Or even meet someone else.

Thanks for this. It is actually true that they will always unite against me. Even a friend has turned into a petty person and joined the other side. Im glad that I finally could see the true face of the friend.
Will this situation get better in my career as I get older by any chance?
Can I still progress (slowly) and get promoted in this yang metal job?
Thanks for enlightening me about alternative career route (sales related) which may be better or can improve my life. I have been a bit lost after experiencing extremely slow progress in my career after a while it has been demotivating, doubts if this is the right job. Feel like I work alone, carrying the burdens of the whole team. That's why it feels like my time is always invested in work. not much personal life.

I am curious which day master is more suitable with a person like me as spouse? I was told before that I have higher tendency to have divorce.
Is someone about my age or younger better suited?
is it worth waiting and reconcile with that person who had come to my life earlier in 2020 if there are still feelings?
Does my Bazi show the tendency to attract unavailable men?

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