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Request for birth chart reading [FREE] / Confused about my day master
« on: January 17, 2020, 06:08:29 PM »
Hi Masters,

I'm trying to figure out my day master using either the BaZi or ZWDS calculator online and I'm slightly confused. Some sites show Yang Fire but some sites show Yin/Xin Metal Elemental Phase haha. I'm just using this to try and get an insight to my personality! Would really appreciate any help!

Details:

DOB: 02/Sept/1993
Date: 2pm
Location: Singapore

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I've never had a fulfilling relationship throughout my life - and recently my friend introduced me to ZWDS. But since I'm not well-versed, the outlook didn't look too good.

I'm at the age where I'm currently looking eagerly to getting attached or even date properly. But it seems that I've not had any luck meeting suitable people (probably because I'm crazy busy haha).

Please advice if I'll ever find someone and settle down - or will die an old maid haha. I've been really upset over my zwds reading lately bc it doesn't seem like there's hope.

DOB: 2 September 1993
Time: 2pm (approx)
Birth city: Singapore
Gender: Female

This is interesting, since other readers had given answers from their perspective.

I am not a zwds reader but, first that I want to say, I think the result dont have large deviations if using bazi or using zwds, so what I read about finding spouse from your chart by bazi is not bad, you will be have relationship, because you still have time to make it, there are still 2 periods long. So, I think what you read from zwds by yourself maybe was not correct. You should ask experienced zwds readers, rather than to read it by yourself.

And about make a relationship I am agree if there is karmic factor from past, but I also agree that whatever you do now, it is your choice to make it happen. If you really-really bad want to find a spouse, to have good relationship with others, yeah you should join a lot of communities, often meet friends, be good with everyone, active in a gathering, being active in a place of worship, or at school, at work, so others will see you often and you will see others often too. But if you are too busy for yourself, busy in your job, so how many time will you spend for casing you spouse? It's all your choice to do that or not to do that...
So don't blame destiny for unlucky life because cannot have spouse right now...
(but I believe what should be happened is predestined from above, even what your characteristic that make you do like this now have been predestined, there are situations that you cannot go forward).

What you had to be worried know is you must pay attention to health, don't work too hard, and don't eat too much, you had indication to have bad health. About spouse? Yes you must go find it yourself.

Hi! Apologies for the late reply!

But thank you! My friend was the one who introduced me to ZWDS and I realised now how inaccurate it was when we calculated it ourselves! I'm saving up to get my zwds read by a master in 2020!

I agree with what you said about finding a spouse though. Right after I posted that, I realised that I turn people away a lot because of how insecure I am with the way I look and how dumb I can be at times. Right now, I've signed up multiple exercise programs to try and better my physical and mental health. Starting next year, I'm also looking to take a part-time diploma to see if I can get a better career in the future.

In a way, I've given up hope of finding a spouse/partner. But I want to focus more on myself and less on things I cannot control. Maybe I'll find someone. Maybe it's not in my destiny to be with a person. But it's alright.

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I've never had a fulfilling relationship throughout my life - and recently my friend introduced me to ZWDS. But since I'm not well-versed, the outlook didn't look too good. I'm at the age where I'm currently looking eagerly to getting attached or even date properly. But it seems that I've not had any luck meeting suitable people (probably because I'm crazy busy haha). Please advice if I'll ever find someone and settle down - or will die an old maid haha. I've been really upset over my zwds reading lately bc it doesn't seem like there's hope. DOB: 2 September 1993 Time: 2pm (approx) Birth city: Singapore Gender: Female

Hi, let's see...


Well, you're in the middle of the 癸亥 luck cycle and there's a good chance you'll find your man within this cycle. The closest timeline is between Nov 2019 and March 2020.
You will have to encourage yourself to socialize more, as the others have said to encourage the luck for companionship.
The next chance will come between July 2020 and February 2021.


A few questions:
- Are you a loner?
- Are you self-employed? Do you have your own business or do you have a job that is more speculative in nature?
It's highly possible you can attain or have attained a high position,
- Are you not concerned about money?
- Do you not get along with your father?
- Are you closer to your mother?
- Did you have to change homes in the past?
- Do you have a scar on you?
- Were your academic grades good?
- Did your grandparents help you a lot?
- Do you come from a long lineage? You probably have an ancestral hall.


Thanks.

Oh wow! Yes, I agree. I will have to encourage myself to go out more and socialize. I'm starting to do this slowly! Nov 2019 does not seem like a good time. I'm so swamped with work and doing things to help upskill and benefit myself haha. But maybe the heavens have other plans!

To answer your questions:

1. Yes, I am a loner. By nature sadly. I get very tired of people too much. Also, it wasn't until recently that I started talking and socializing more! Some traumatic events have led me to think this way - but I'm slowly trying to get out of my comfort zone!

2. Not self-employed, but I used to be! I'm now working at a company to gain more insight in the role I'm doing. Not going to lie, I have thought about building my base and then starting my own business soon! How can I ensure that my career and business prospects will be good?

3. I am concerned about money! But lately, ever since I've started socializing, I have less and less in my bank ahaha.

4. Nope. I have a bad relationship with my dad.

5. Slightly closer - compared to my dad. I'm not very close to my parents.

6. Yes! Moved countries many many times :)

7. Several. I don't have good skin - which is why I "quarantined" myself from the world.

8. Good and bad - no middle haha. I had several A*'s and several fails.

9. Yes!

10. I'm not so sure about this....must find out more!

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Religion and spirituality is like coin. Side by side
But learning religion first it would lead someone into something " dry " especially when met dogmatic religion leaders
Learn spirituality without religion is oke, heart will guide someday to which one suitable religion with own self not by lineage, family, neither by social nor culture

Fanatic people in previous life were ignorant / unbeliever lol, fanatic people will having ignorant descendants
Free thinker people in previous life were fanatic imao, free thinker people will having fanatic descendants

Dont let religion drive your life but let your life be guiding by your own " light ", there is Buddhi in every creatures. Light of God. Just need to activate it, press the button , to connect to Highest, Acintya / unthinkable as beyond mind, beyond words , immanent transcendence ). Through purifying mind, attitudes, behavior, speech, thoughts. Nobody is perfect as mankind but there is perfect man by heaven's scores.
Confusing already ? lol, better discussed the creatures how to loving them and compassion with them all, and let the rest handle by heaven. When someone destiny into spiritual path, nature will guide. For seekers then before met the right master, someone has to meet the wrong master. To know what is true what is false and become wiser

To empty your hands is quick and easy
To empty your minds need meditation
To empty your upper heart need evaluation
To empty your middle heart need reflection
To empty your deepest heart need perseverance

Just to cheer you up :)

The best would be to find a balance between both! I'm still trying to achieve that - probably will be a lifelong journey :)

Thank you for this! It did cheer me up haha. I really appreciate this! :)

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Entering November'19, you have high chance to meet someone.
Your younger brothers are prone to accident with their legs.

Oh! Wow. High chance! Hopefully, I meet someone :P

Even though I met a Master and she read my aura, and said that there might be little love chance for the next three months. We'll see though but thank you for helping me read my chart!

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You have sign to be married. Just you want take a chance or not. Even your peach blossom sign is there. Based on your natal chart.

But the problem your spouse will be attach to you so much or even giving you pressure. The best solution is understand each other and sonetimes make a deal between you and your spouse so both of you will get good relationship.

2019, 2021, 2023, 2024 its a chance to meet your spouse or its sign married year. Your peach blossom has a good sign this decade.

Wow! Thank you for helping me interpret my chart!

Oh no....attached too much haha. Very bad because I'm a loner and I like to be independent. I will try and let more people in my life, to help change my attitude for the future. Ooh! Very interesting :)

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@ddd1993 My advice, reduce stubbornness and vengeful attitude, it may hinder your luck. You have a tendency to remember other people mistakes and hard to forget it.

Yes! I agree. It wasn’t until recently that I’ve learnt to forgive and let go some people and mistakes in life. I must learn to forgive and forget. Maybe not vengeful - but life and heaven is testing me...seeing how I react.

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I've never had a fulfilling relationship throughout my life - and recently my friend introduced me to ZWDS. But since I'm not well-versed, the outlook didn't look too good.

I'm at the age where I'm currently looking eagerly to getting attached or even date properly. But it seems that I've not had any luck meeting suitable people (probably because I'm crazy busy haha).

Please advice if I'll ever find someone and settle down - or will die an old maid haha. I've been really upset over my zwds reading lately bc it doesn't seem like there's hope.

DOB: 2 September 1993
Time: 2pm (approx)
Birth city: Singapore
Gender: Female

Metal frame bazi is quite strong. Too much metal the water become stinky. To overcome this in real life it really about widening ur social circle. Meet more girlfriends. Besides social, fire 离 also comes from religious cultivation. For example 炼丹. Using 巳. Sector, your Ming Gua is 艮. 生气 at 巽. So, Sector of snake can be use. But use it after 2020 Feb 5. This year your RS sector also got negative star. So. This year, prefer u don't force too much. Take thing in stride. Didn't go into details. Just passing by. Your later luck cycle quite ok. Don't worry..

Thank you!

I think I’ll focus on cultivating myself more. Trying to learn more about spirituality and religion and trying to be more patient with myself. Thank you again for helping me read!

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Honestly it's nothing to do with karma, you get married or not.
People tend to blame everything on karma.  8)
The truth maybe shocking.

@ddd1993  How many siblings ?

Hi Chary!

So sorry for the late reply, it’s been a busy couple of days! I have two younger brothers :) Does this mean anything?

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Its ok being curious, nothing is wrong with it.

You make me have to tell my old story lol... i do really like you, could felt the energy from here..... you are good girl, nice.

That time long time ago when i was 26 i was accused by many people that i am lesbian. imao. just caused they never seen me with bf. I started my own biz age 24 with intention how to help people in suffering by God given me good brain in biz. I did it. crazy things i did. from capital only usd 7k, became millions usd within less than 2 years. every biz i touched its profitable. beyond my wishes beyond my intention ( to be rich etc )

age 26 i " hired " bf, singaporean lol. its more like a friend as well biz partners. no sparkling ( from my side , as just to proved others that i am not lesbian :( wew ), we quarrel much ( from my side lol ) as my focus really on biz

age 27 i started thinking about children ( i do love children whom well manner cute clever lol so many wishes ), then again heaven given me chance. i adopted ( now she is 17 years almost graduated and with academic bright at least often went to competition without i pressured her to provide academic but i pressured her to " born to give benefits to others and well manner as well has dignity and honored )

then age 30 with angmo lol almost getting married and i burnt the wedding gown due not sure whether this is what i wanted in life and cancelled the wedding only 1 month before lol

then age 32 with singaporean young millionaires, his parents would like to propose to my parents due his parents like me much, i said NO, you dont need to visit my mother to propose, i answer with on behalf of her that  i only doing biz with your son and there is no room for man in life as its full already lol

age 34 propose by european banker , i again said NO. he asked are you going marry with your biz ?? i replied I DO lol

i married at age 40 after retired from biz to be a monk lol

long story.....

so may be you could learn from this short story and live the fullest as you are

I will mention you in my prays. God bless you

Hi Tea,

God bless you too. Thank you for sharing your story with me! No need to apologise. I really appreciate this!

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LOL

Funny you... how many people got stressed when having relationship comparing how many people happy by having relationship , ask them to answer honesty lol

I even confused why people focused on love relationship like no other things much more important in life lol
female here
and married by destiny luck pillars only lol to finished my purposed in life that in past life never care about husband issues imao

Hahaha. Yeah, I know. I see so many people around with relationship problems.

I'm not focused, just curious. I do want children in the future - and it's highly likely, I'll have to meet someone in order to make and have them haha. But if there's no luck around love, what can I do? Just live my life to the fullest lor.

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@ddd1993 , you're just 26 and you're already worried about being end up alone  ;D

Are you feeling desperate because all your friends are dating?

From Ba Zi, you have a Spouse star at the stem, and you're currently in a good LP to find a Spouse. This means if you want a boyfriend, you can find one. You just need to spend less time at work and more time socializing. You also need to lower your expectation. Real life is not like in the movies. If you want Mr Perfect like in the movies, you'll never find one.

In your chart, if the hour is correct, there's potential issue after marriage, but that's far in the future. You can think of how to solve that problem later. One step at a time.

Hahaha. All my friends are getting married and having kids already lol! But no, I think I'm going through my quarter-life crisis hahah.

I see! During my aura reading yesterday, I was told that it is highly unlikely I will find someone during the next three months...which is fine for me. I just want to meet someone by the time I'm 30! And hopefully, marry before I settle my career in my 40's.

I understand that! Not looking for a movie man haha or Mr Perfect! Just a nice man to settle down with - if it's in my destiny. If not, maybe just more friends in life hahaah.

Yeah I was told that there is a potential for a turbulent marriage. Maybe I'll just wait and see. Thanks for your interpretation! I'm now considering getting my ZWDS or Ba Zi read to see when someone suitable will enter my life!

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That's good! That means you don't owe anyone huge karmic debt nor anyone owes you huge karmic debt! Being single is good actually in this way!

See this thread! --> https://fivearts.info/fivearts/index.php?topic=14675.0



Oh...guess I have to live this life on my own...and alone. Good for karma but bad for my mental health haha. Thanks though.

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I've never had a fulfilling relationship throughout my life - and recently my friend introduced me to ZWDS. But since I'm not well-versed, the outlook didn't look too good.

I'm at the age where I'm currently looking eagerly to getting attached or even date properly. But it seems that I've not had any luck meeting suitable people (probably because I'm crazy busy haha).

Please advice if I'll ever find someone and settle down - or will die an old maid haha. I've been really upset over my zwds reading lately bc it doesn't seem like there's hope.

DOB: 2 September 1993
Time: 2pm (approx)
Birth city: Singapore
Gender: Female

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