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Request for birth chart reading [FREE] / Re: Is living alone in her destiny chart?
« Last post by kaingsv on April 21, 2021, 11:34:27 PM »
On the surface, it doesn’t seem so.
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Request for birth chart reading [FREE] / Re: Is living alone in her destiny chart?
« Last post by mellybau on April 21, 2021, 04:43:13 PM »
Hi,

Can you help to check on this bazi?

Female : Married, 30+
Year : Bing Yin
Month : Geng Yin
Day : Gui Si
Hour : Yi Mao

She keeps saying that she wants to live alone later. Is living alone in her destiny chart?

any marriage issue?
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Request for birth chart reading [FREE] / Please help me reading bazi for carreer
« Last post by Yan on April 21, 2021, 11:16:51 AM »
Hello, I want to start small business but I don't know which field is suitable. I'm currently working in financial field at property company. My birthdate is 28 April 1989, time 21.45 GMT +7.
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Liu Yao Yi Gua (LYYG) / Re: New book about WWG
« Last post by 8star on April 21, 2021, 12:47:40 AM »
final price is 999 $
If someone interested should go in quick
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Liu Yao Yi Gua (LYYG) / Re: New book about WWG
« Last post by 8star on April 21, 2021, 12:45:54 AM »
Price of the course went up - $369.

Yes but that is not the final price
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Hi everyone,

I dont know if this is the right place to ask my question and I apologise beforehand if the content is not correct / and long but I have no idea where to ask for advise.

I am overseas born Chinese. So I am not really Chinese and not really European either, sort of like a banana if you are familiar with this term.
All my life I have been struggling with my identiy and the way my strict parents been raising us (quiet common problem with overseas chinese children) Not only strictness but very much raised in a buddhist family. You know the sort of buddhist culture that is all about how to please other people and be a good person and anything selfish is a sin. All my life I have not been given love and affection, only criticism, punishment, verbal abuse etc you might call in western society.
Now I am 34 and my mother still manage to make me cry due to her lack of affection and display of love. I understand later in life that its normal for Chinese parents to criticise you and disapprove you of love because they want you to constantly become a better person (stupid deeply rooted confucian mentality)I went through serious deperssion and mental illness due to my childhood but have done alot of self development/medication to have turned myself to a complete new person. Now I am medication free, and drug free, happier and healthier.

However my mother still criticises me and keeps telling me that I have a bad temper and that I am stubborn and would never listen to her. She does not want me to explain / justify myself whenever I disagree with her and she wants me to just keep quiet and agree.
She had a consultation with a monk/master in Malaysia the other day who was able to read our fortunes/personality and what steps to follow in order to improve our lives. The monk told my mom that even though her daugther is clever, she has a bad temper and would not listen to my mother... That is her personality and that she was stubborn(she is right but I have changed alot). And the monk kept telling my mother bad attributes about my brother and my father. So my mother told me all this how much burden my mother has to carry all her life because of my dad, me and my brother and how shit we are and how much she suffers. I got obviously upset and tried to justfiy myself which unfortunately proves her point. The monk never criticise my mother however. I am not saying that to be superstitious, but she has consultation with many monks (they were quite accurate with their readings) and they say exactly the same things. Always critics on us but never on my mother. And my mother is not lieing. I cried because I am never good enough for the monk or for my mother even though I tried my best to be a good daugther and a good person in general.

My questions is: Why do buddhist monk only point out negative attributes about us, and are they right? Even though I have already changed alot? Is that a confucian mentality or a buddhist thing? The monk said I should listen to my mother but mother is not always right. And I thought buddhist do not believe in egos.
And why do monks/masters never point out fault in my mother? I asked her whether they said anything about her, she said no.

Is personality fixed and cannot be changed despite how much you have worked on yourself? How does this relate to bazi? Can you see in your bazi chart that the person is able to change her bad attributes or is it fixed?

How can I not let my deep rooted issues with my mother affect my emotions? I am already practicing meditation, read alot of spiritual self development books, trying to believe there is no such thing as ego and having to let it all go. But I always get upset when I speak to my mother. But when a buddhist monk says something like this, I get upset because they dont point out how much I have changed for the better and it is not always true. I think im truly upset because my mother suffers alot because of us and no matter how much I have tried to better myself, she is still not happy with me. It upsets me because she should not have given birth to us and she should have married better and given birth to better children with better DNA...This is unfortunately how i felt since I was a toddler. Im 34 still seeking my mothers approval and love and I know I will never get it. I cannot get rid of this feeling of being not good enough/not loved and valued and my entire family is bringing me down. They are all unhappy which makes me sad. I know they love me but knowing is not feeling.

How do I deal with this deep rooted issue? Should I try my best to improve my "bad temper" (which i only have around my family) but how should I just agree with her without getting emotionally so upset? Im a grown woman and so far been doing alright with my life. I have already tried to keep distant from her, but she is old and I cannot ignore her or keep even further distance.

Any advise? Sorry I am just upset and I have no idea which forum to turn to and there is no one I can speak to who can relate. I hope someone can share their opinions with me.

Thank you for listening/reading
I think it would be useful to you when you are able to discern and identify the accuser. Maybe this will provide you with a different perspective. Prayer is useful so that you can create a layer of protective light around yourself as a defense against the accuser.

https://teachinghumblehearts.com/en/category/Christianity/renew/discern-satans-schemes/
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Mei Hua Yi Shu (MHYS) / Re: Free book: Plum blossom numerology
« Last post by andy on April 20, 2021, 11:58:11 PM »
7 amazing stories showing the great predictive power of Plum blossom numerology.

Story 7


Page 114, I ching numerology based on Shao Yung's classic Plum blossom numerology (get this book free)
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Numerology Representation – 1, 2 (Wood 木), 3, 4 (Fire 火), 5, 6 (Earth 土), 7 ,8 (Metal 金), 9, 0 (Water 水). Odd Number (Yang), Even Number (Yin). If the number of stroke is 27 (omit 2 and use 7 as 金), if 30 (omit 3 and use 0 as 水).

This method of name selection splits the analysis into 5 Grid 五格 (Heaven 天格, Man 人格, Earth 地格, External 外格 and Total 总格)

There are 4 main permutations:
Double Surname with Double Name,
Double Surname with Single Name,
Single Surname with Single Name
Single Surname with Double Name.

Heaven Grid (天格)
Double Surname with Double Name: add the strokes for both surname.
Double Surname with Single Name: add the strokes for both surname.
Single Surname with Single Name: add the stroke for surname +1
Single Surname with Double Name: add the stroke for surname +1

Man (Human) Grid (人格)
Double Surname with Double Name: add the stroke for both surname and first name.
Double Surname with Single Name: add the stroke for both surname and first name.
Single Surname with Single Name: add the stroke for surname and first name.
Single Surname with Double Name: add the stroke for surname and first name.

Earth Grid (地格)
Double Surname with Double Name: add the stroke of both name
Double Surname with Single Name: add the stroke of name +1
Single Surname with Single Name: add the stroke of name +1
Single Surname with Double Name: add the stroke of both name

External Grid (外格)
Double Surname with Double Name: use the last name as external category
Double Surname with Single Name: use 1 as external category
Single Surname with Single Name: use 2 as external category
Single Surname with Double Name: use the last name +1

Total Grid (总格)
Add all (total) the stroke of all the characters in the name.

Heaven, Man (Human) and Earth Grid -> Relationship with Children, Friends, Colleagues and Subordinates, Parents and Elders.
Heaven and Man (Human) Grid -> Relates to Fortune and Career.
Man (Human) and Earth Grid -> Relates to Foundation, Learning and Property.
External and Man (Human) Grid -> Relates to Kinship and Spiritual Matters.

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