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  • Re: help with family and marriage life in 2018
    « Reply #15 on: May 24, 2018, 11:22:07 AM »
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    @thanos888

    The issue with parents and wife is due to Yin Si harm. Day branch is spouse and year branch is elders. It’s best to find middle way especially if you have Kids. It’s clearly visible from your chart hence, regardless of her or someone else, your parents and spouse will not get along.

    Next year hai clash Si day branch and combine year branch. Ji on hs is 7k suggesting stressful situation. Spouse palace clash means either move house or change in relationship. Hai being RW means loss of money, due to moving house, or loss of wife.

    It’s in your best interest if you can talk to both parties and find middle ground.

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    So next year would be the decision year, am I right?
    Either moving to a new house or losing my wife (divorce)? If I move to a new house it means I leave my parents and choose my wife, but If I lose my wife it means I stay and follow my parents.
    What month in 2018 do you think is the best to discuss with my parents and wife?

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  • Re: help with family and marriage life in 2018
    « Reply #16 on: May 24, 2018, 11:47:12 AM »
    I highly suggest you get a professional reading done so you don't end up making the wrong decision. Someone who specializes in divination can also help.

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  • Re: help with family and marriage life in 2018
    « Reply #17 on: May 24, 2018, 12:08:52 PM »
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    Strong hot earth is making your Yang Metal weak. Earth represents your mother, therefore she might have a strong influence on you, or you rely on her opinion and support a lot. But that support might not be that beneficiary for you. Your wife probably wants you to be independent, which is reasonable. Due to lack of water, you also don't have a voice, you are unable to express yourself and counteract dominant mother, and support your wife.

    This, of course, is very fragmented analysis because we lack birth charts from your wife and parents, but that would be a quite complex to analyze and would require more time.

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    Your software has elagent layout. Very appealing.

    The chart doesn’t look right. Geng Si pillar cannot exist.

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    Thx for pointing out, there are some bugs in our software which we have to iron out. Usually I double check with other tools before sending out, this time I forgot :-)
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    « Reply #18 on: May 24, 2018, 01:32:19 PM »
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  • Re: help with family and marriage life in 2018
    « Reply #19 on: May 27, 2018, 12:00:21 AM »
    I highly suggest you get a professional reading done so you don't end up making the wrong decision. Someone who specializes in divination can also help.

    Thanks. Good advice though

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    « Reply #20 on: May 27, 2018, 12:03:37 AM »
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    Moving to new house or loosing wife are just one of many possible scenarios. Metaphysics only gives big picture and how it manifests is dependent on person.

    Let me give real life example, a person I know had Zi mao punishment for 10 years and it included spouse palace and spouse star. One might say marriage is at risk but what happened in real life, the person left for another country for work so that can provide for family. It required him to declare he was not married for which they made pseudo-legal documents stating they are separated. After LP ended person was back home and changed legal status and they still live together. So issue with marriage yes! Did the marriage contract break yes! But still happily  living together.

    Another real life example, person has spouse palace in harm with spouse star in the chart. One might say can’t be spouse even if married the marriage will fail. Real life, married for 14 years then had legal issues with child abuse!!! (Asian parents in North America;)) lost child custody, and only way out was to let father take all the responsibilities of the incident and divorce wife so that she can get the child custody. It’s been 11 years since and Until this day they are legally divorced but still lives under same roof as any other husband wife and kids.

    So back to you, harm just means less affinity. Make an arrangement to create some distance between the parties. Like send your wife to work since Si is entombed in Xu. This will take away some tension as she will be at work during the day.

    Hai Si clash is suggestive of some changes in home/spouse relationship. Doesn’t have to be divorce it means just change from what you had before. In fact having a child next year could be perfect timing. 7k means child specifically boy for Gui DM. Then RW means you loose money over child, well being a great father you wanna be, who wouldn’t wanna spend money on their child. Si hai clash is then your wife experiencing near death experience= pregnancy and labour. Also, now the child is robbing away your wife (wealth) since mother will be more invested in the child and so not so much time for husband. This will also ease the problems between your parents and her as now she will be delivering their grandchild. This just a recommendation, as described in the example earlier, it all about what action you take rather than what’s the outcome.

    BTW your 10 year LP is favorable so I personally don’t think divorce is on the cards. But again human actions do matter. This month is certainly not the best because Si will harm Yin. Won’t get results, in fact thins may get more sour.

    @Talib
    I plan to gather together my parents and my wife and we will talk about it and find a solution, maybe next month or on July, what do you think?
    Should I just stay with my parents at least until 2019? Maybe we will move out next year 2019 since I plan to have another child too.
    Do you see anything in my chart about my parents? I mean they don't want us to move out, but if we insist to move out, will they get angry or maybe get sick because of stress and depression?

    thanks

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    « Reply #21 on: May 27, 2018, 12:33:29 AM »
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    @thanos888

    Moving to new house or loosing wife are just one of many possible scenarios. Metaphysics only gives big picture and how it manifests is dependent on person.

    Let me give real life example, a person I know had Zi mao punishment for 10 years and it included spouse palace and spouse star. One might say marriage is at risk but what happened in real life, the person left for another country for work so that can provide for family. It required him to declare he was not married for which they made pseudo-legal documents stating they are separated. After LP ended person was back home and changed legal status and they still live together. So issue with marriage yes! Did the marriage contract break yes! But still happily  living together.

    Another real life example, person has spouse palace in harm with spouse star in the chart. One might say can’t be spouse even if married the marriage will fail. Real life, married for 14 years then had legal issues with child abuse!!! (Asian parents in North America;)) lost child custody, and only way out was to let father take all the responsibilities of the incident and divorce wife so that she can get the child custody. It’s been 11 years since and Until this day they are legally divorced but still lives under same roof as any other husband wife and kids.

    So back to you, harm just means less affinity. Make an arrangement to create some distance between the parties. Like send your wife to work since Si is entombed in Xu. This will take away some tension as she will be at work during the day.

    Hai Si clash is suggestive of some changes in home/spouse relationship. Doesn’t have to be divorce it means just change from what you had before. In fact having a child next year could be perfect timing. 7k means child specifically boy for Gui DM. Then RW means you loose money over child, well being a great father you wanna be, who wouldn’t wanna spend money on their child. Si hai clash is then your wife experiencing near death experience= pregnancy and labour. Also, now the child is robbing away your wife (wealth) since mother will be more invested in the child and so not so much time for husband. This will also ease the problems between your parents and her as now she will be delivering their grandchild. This just a recommendation, as described in the example earlier, it all about what action you take rather than what’s the outcome.

    BTW your 10 year LP is favorable so I personally don’t think divorce is on the cards. But again human actions do matter. This month is certainly not the best because Si will harm Yin. Won’t get results, in fact thins may get more sour.

    @Talib
    I plan to gather together my parents and my wife and we will talk about it and find a solution, maybe next month or on July, what do you think?
    Should I just stay with my parents at least until 2019? Maybe we will move out next year 2019 since I plan to have another child too.
    Do you see anything in my chart about my parents? I mean they don't want us to move out, but if we insist to move out, will they get angry or maybe get sick because of stress and depression?

    thanks
    Its good if you plan talk together with your wife and your parents.

    If you talk nicely to your parents and you explain first what the problem, i think your parents want they children happy. So you need prepare best words for them. After you give your explanation, let they think first and you need listen what they want. Dont make argument with your parents. Please stay calm and get win win solution. Like every week example saturday and sunday you go to your parents house or friday nigth to sunday night you stay over at your parents house or etc. build communication with your parents, i believe even your parents old school, they still want their children happy. Just you need think, how you can explain your problem until they can understand.

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  • Re: help with family and marriage life in 2018
    « Reply #22 on: May 30, 2018, 05:17:11 PM »
    I think the metaphysic explanation has done by Talib, but I just want to give you suggestion...

    A married person, its like you got the mandate from the holy god to take care your spouse whatever the situation, and you hand over the responsibility back to god when you died. So, the word when we marriage is " until the dead do as part".
    Meanwhile parents, is the person that growing you up and they love you and give you anything that you need that they can afford.

    When you married, you have responsibility to build your own family, so I think your parents don't be jealous with your spouse, cause you are still his kid and they are still your parents whatever condition, and there is no ex-parents or ex-son, they blood flows in your body, you are they son.

    So if there is conflict between your parents and your wife, so you must be in your wife side... this is true. my Pastor and others said this is the best choice to save your family.

    With the conflict, I think its better for you and your small family (wife and kids if you have), and your parents not to life in one house, because there is different perspective about how to build family, you and your parents life in different era, and it will be has different way to solve anything matter in house... its trigger conflict situation for you.
    As a man, you have to go out, life in your own house, raise kids with your wife, on your own way... not in your parents way.

    The conflict will be decreased if you decide to go out and move to your own house. Conflict with your parents also decreased by time, because its your decision, the reason is how a shame gentleman if you just stay in your parents home, you must show how gentleman you are that you can success and have your own house, make your own rule, and grow up your children with your own courage... thats a real man can do.

    I just give you suggestion about what I have seen in my life, my study about persons' characters, education from school, church, and also my experience as a man that go out from my parents house after I married and make my own living with my family.



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    Re: help with family and marriage life in 2018
    « Reply #23 on: June 25, 2018, 09:06:16 PM »
    Do you depend on ur parents financially?
    If not, just move out of ur parents house.. it seems to me they want to control ur Life wich is not healthy..

    Even if marriage later on fail, you should be livin by urself Anyways. 

    Parents have a tough time to let go of the grip they have on their children, but thats detrimental for both parties.

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