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    « on: September 20, 2018, 05:21:17 PM »
    DOB 16.10.1986 MALE 01:03 (Jakarta, Indonesia +7 GMT)

    I got married in 2014 and currently living with my parents, but already separating with my wife and son, not divorce but she is living with her mom. Already separating for 6 months now and still counting.. Big conflict and fight between my parents and hers. Can anyone read my chart? Please give some insight and advice

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    « Reply #1 on: September 20, 2018, 05:58:46 PM »
    You are weak Yang Metal DM, with a lot of Fire and Earth, this year is not so good for you. You need to man up, not let parents control your marriage. But if you are financially dependent on them, then it might be tricky to resolve the situation.

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    « Reply #2 on: September 20, 2018, 07:30:32 PM »
    You are weak Yang Metal DM, with a lot of Fire and Earth, this year is not so good for you. You need to man up, not let parents control your marriage. But if you are financially dependent on them, then it might be tricky to resolve the situation.

    I'm afraid you interpret wrong DOB chart
    I have attached a file, hope it helps :)
    I own a business and not dependent on them but they insist us to live together but me and my wife want a chance to live alone (different house)


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    Re: urgent need help in marriage life and parents relationship
    « Reply #3 on: September 20, 2018, 08:34:39 PM »
    November will be time for reconciliation, and new baby can be seen.

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    « Reply #4 on: September 20, 2018, 09:40:53 PM »
    November will be time for reconciliation, and new baby can be seen.

    Do you mean our relationship with my parents will be fine and getting better? New baby? When? Will born next year 2019?

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    « Reply #5 on: September 20, 2018, 09:59:30 PM »
    Just wait and see what will happen

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    « Reply #6 on: September 20, 2018, 10:26:27 PM »
    Just wait and see what will happen

    Okay. I really hope everthings going to be fine.
    I also hope that my wife and son would come back here and stay together again with my parents.
    We really don't want a divorce, its just not a good solution.
    I think I just stay positive and let it flow like water.

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    « Reply #7 on: December 10, 2018, 10:57:30 PM »
    The situation is getting hot. What will happen to my marriage in 2019? Should I choose my wife or parents? Need help

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    « Reply #8 on: December 10, 2018, 11:06:55 PM »
    Nobody can tell you what to choose, that's something you have to cut through.
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    « Reply #9 on: December 10, 2018, 11:11:07 PM »
    Nobody can tell you what to choose, that's something you have to cut through.

    I want to save my family, I gotta choose wife and son. Its not that I dont love my parents but its a best solution. Will 2019 going to be a good year to me?

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    « Reply #10 on: December 10, 2018, 11:20:00 PM »
    There will be less pressure from parents (no more Fu Yin between month pillar and 2018).
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    « Reply #11 on: December 10, 2018, 11:33:39 PM »
    There will be less pressure from parents (no more Fu Yin between month pillar and 2018).

    Do you see in my chart that I will be moving to a new house with my wife and son?
    My parents dont want me to move and live alone independently but next year I will move and live with my wife son. I think my parents will be angry and we will have another fight.

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    « Reply #12 on: December 10, 2018, 11:38:49 PM »
    From your chart, there's a high possibility that you will move into a new house and live separately with your parents. Indeed usually better to live separately with parents after married to avoid conflict with the spouse. And it's normal if your parents want to stay with you and don't want to separate, but you may explain to them that you want to learn and grow up as an independent man, and you can still visit them every time.

    May I know did your parents also live with their parents after they get married in the past? And may I know is your spouse older than you, around 4 years or so?
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    « Reply #13 on: December 10, 2018, 11:43:04 PM »
    From your chart, there's a high possibility that you will move into a new house and live separately with your parents. Indeed usually better to live separately with parents after married to avoid conflict with the spouse. And Ii's normal if your parents want to stay with you and don't want to separate, but you may explain to them that you want to learn and grow up as an independent man, and you can still visit them every time.

    May I know did your parents also live with their parents after they get married in the past? And may I know is your spouse older than you, around 4 years or so?

    Yes I want to live separately to avoid conflict especially between my wife and my parents. We also want to have freedom and independent life. We also plan to have 2nd child when everything is done and okay. If I choose to move do you think my parents will hate and ignore me in future? I mean will we be able to maintain good relationship?

    Yes my parents live together with my grandmother. My spouse is younger than me, 2 years younger.

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    « Reply #14 on: December 10, 2018, 11:56:26 PM »
    From your chart, your parents are the type of person that too controlling and dominating. And basically, you have low affinity with your parents since young. It can have some meaning:

    1. You may live in harmony with your parents but they died early.

    2. You may live with your parents but always fight with them / both of you and your parents seldom at home.

    3. You may live separately with your parents but has a good relationship.

    3. And the worst case is you may live separately with your parents and also has a bad relationship with them.

    So there are several possibilities and don't know what will happen exactly to you. For this type of question, it's more suitable to ask in divination forum.

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