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  • Re: Need advice on relationship/marriage
    « Reply #45 on: August 15, 2019, 02:35:05 PM »

    This is a Sales person (because of Hour HS) but involve with big project if she work (because of EB 2 open Tombs Clash).
    Because of Hour, this BaZi woman is actually a "Nyonya Besar" destiny (rich housewife that doesn't have to do anything).

    Hi Master @Han so I am bing wu in the hour pillar?

    I am a housewife but not rich.

    Thus need to go back to work to build my retirement nest.



    So as long as you can maintaining your marriage because your original BaZi is DM compete with others, enter next LP you will see husband asset can start growing to enter add 1 digit of wealth in the end.

    So that is why because pattern DM competes with others, I only give a very simple solution = Fix your torso so you won't lose.

    It is the solution for the long run. What you need to do before enter next LP is you only need to maintain your attractiveness. It is a competition Life in your BaZi.



    (I'm reading it beyond time again ya..)
    Note.
    If you're unable to maintaining your marriage before can arrive at that next LP, that next LP will carry meaning you do business to get money (independent).

    That is why I suggest you counting on your Human Qi. With your own hands, create a good situation inside your relationship with husband.

    Spread your smile and spread out your positive thinking to your surrounding.
    Your husband will receive that positive wave of yours and return it back to you.
     


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    « Reply #46 on: August 15, 2019, 03:11:18 PM »
    Hi @maaax, anyway just curious, is there any health issue/injury, probably related to digestion/stomach area that may lead to surgery around 2014//16/17? If not, take care of of your health in this year 2019. Except you delivered your baby in 2016 by C-section, it means the event already happened.

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    « Reply #47 on: August 15, 2019, 04:40:19 PM »
    It is your husband give you so much pressure?

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    « Reply #48 on: August 15, 2019, 04:46:12 PM »
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    « Reply #49 on: August 15, 2019, 06:37:37 PM »
    Hi @maaax, anyway just curious, is there any health issue/injury, probably related to digestion/stomach area that may lead to surgery around 2014//16/17? If not, take care of of your health in this year 2019. Except you delivered your baby in 2016 by C-section, it means the event already happened.

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    Hi @fan, I had a surgery in 2014 for fibroid and had c section in 2016 and 2019. So the event should have happened right?

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    « Reply #50 on: August 15, 2019, 06:46:42 PM »
    Hi @fan, I had a surgery in 2014 for fibroid and had c section in 2016 and 2019. So the event should have happened right?

    Hi @maaax,

    Thanks for your feedback. I just try to verify your birth time, it seems the event already happened. So I can say 巳 hour is already accurate, at least from ZWDS perspective.  :)

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    « Reply #51 on: August 15, 2019, 07:21:05 PM »
    Thank you master @Han for your advice. Will work hard to get back in shape. There are 3 years plus to count down to the next LP... Hope I can be positive till then.

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    « Reply #52 on: August 15, 2019, 07:32:17 PM »
    Hi @fan, @rainmaster and @TianQi, many thanks. Currently in the process to sell the flat. If the sale goes through, will move to another place within one year. Will definitely fengshui the next home. Was hoping I could do something now to improve until the next home but the current place has some many constraints.

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    « Reply #53 on: August 15, 2019, 11:37:04 PM »
    It is your husband give you so much pressure?
    Hi @windwheel, it is more tension and friction than pressure.

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    « Reply #54 on: August 16, 2019, 01:33:56 PM »
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    « Reply #55 on: August 16, 2019, 02:51:25 PM »
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    « Reply #56 on: August 16, 2019, 05:13:35 PM »
    Hi @maax

    It looks like true when people with good quality of celebration or promotion star can easily draw other people attention. Was supposed to be silent but in the end i decide to help you. Below is my 2 cent analysis. Wish this comment could be some 'light' for your life journey.

    Maax husband chart :

              Dm
    Ding - ji - gui - geng
    Mao - you - wei - shen

    1. 卯酉 沖 open 未 tomb beside. Please note 未 tomb opened, dm carry qi is 7k wood qi. Not earth qi. Interpretation = husband high profile and big ego. Image very important for him. This theory is valid with maax validation on her husband personality.

    2. 癸 sit on 未 is his wife. 癸 also receive 7k qi. 庚申 as metal birth water, 癸 received HO qi as well. This interaction locked by 卯申 an he. 卯 is 未. Interpretation = wife and husband share similar traits hence fight a lot.

    3. 卯 is 未 because opened. When 卯申 anhe, 癸 as wife star sit on 未 received the combination as well. 申 is 天乙贵人 (heavenly noble) and 金輿 (golden carriage) star. But 申 as 庚 in conceive life stage of 卯. Classical interpretation on 金輿 star in males will marry a good and virtuous wife. Wife can support the husband in financial aspect but only in hidden or silent. If the wife trying to step over this barrier, outshine, rule, pressure the husband. 卯酉 will clashed which represent spouse palace as well. Actually this pattern is the finest solution..

    4. When 癸 appears in HS. This means the wife is important to him. The husband love her. How to see? 丁 as mother 沖 癸. The clashed unavoidable but in the middle is 己. The fraction with in laws or sour relationship with wife and in law written in here.

    5. The answer of a question is inside the question, the remedy is inside chart it self. The EB interaction show you how to do it. Focusing more in career (both of you), understand husband nature and respect the husband, do not suspicious to him. Why? Because in your chart (maax) with so many self element indicated you love the feeling to be adored.

    Switching to maax chart :

           Dm
    Yi - ding - geng - ding
    Si - wei - xu - si

    Just short one 未戌 is the work. Like axis explanation. When your chart flipped this will create turbulence in your marriage. 庚 as your husband star will affected as well when meet 卯 LP.

    However.. Please relax. The sign is only from your chart. From your husband chart just a small sign of divorced. I would say if there are any desire for divorced, bigger from your side. Unless 2 chart show same signal, this would be very hard to avoid. Yours are not. Feel free to double confirm from zwds viewpoint.

    The other cure is from fengshui remedy. Despite of we believe or not, fengshui somehow following our destiny. Not coincidence both of you sleep in the worst direction and others. I wish you my best luck and happiness.

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    « Reply #57 on: August 16, 2019, 07:48:28 PM »
    ^ Wow thanks TianQi for sharing, really deep and beautiful explanation, I really enjoy it.

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    « Reply #58 on: August 16, 2019, 07:49:40 PM »
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    In case cannot identify the problem, cannot find the remedy, or the practitioner responsibility to not create unnecessary fear for other people, certain things better left unanswered rather than give wrong medicine. The practitioner whom maax consult in my opinion is a good one whom she can trust.

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    « Reply #59 on: August 16, 2019, 09:47:45 PM »
    Thank you for helping me analyse further @Han. I agree I am very persistent and determined when I set my mind on something. Will try my best to deliver what I promise to do, even if I have to bend my back backwards. He liked me for being independent, being able to do a lot of things for him and go through tough times with him. But I'm also like any other women who want to be appreciated and showered with love and care too.

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