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    « Reply #60 on: August 16, 2019, 10:03:18 PM »
    Thank you for doing the I ching reading for me @anton8888. The 1st 2 phrases have a lot of meaning to me now. I will keep in my mind your advice. Really appreciate your help.

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    « Reply #61 on: August 16, 2019, 10:56:19 PM »
    Thank you very much for sharing a lot more @TianQi. Everything you have said about husband and me is correct. That is why I'm trying hard to go back to work to divert my attention and be less focused about getting the love and adoration I want.

    Hopefully I can move out of the current flat within a year. Will have to convince husband to see fengshui for the next home as he is not really a believer of Chinese metaphysics.

    Thank you for your wishes. I am touched and grateful to receive so much help from many members.

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    « Reply #62 on: August 16, 2019, 11:57:01 PM »
    Thank you very much for sharing a lot more @TianQi. Everything you have said about husband and me is correct. That is why I'm trying hard to go back to work to divert my attention and be less focused about getting the love and adoration I want.

    Hopefully I can move out of the current flat within a year. Will have to convince husband to see fengshui for the next home as he is not really a believer of Chinese metaphysics.

    Thank you for your wishes. I am touched and grateful to receive so much help from many members.

    Whenever you want convince your husband in any life matters (am not speaking about fengshui here), several tips :

    1. Use soft and weak approach to defeat hard and strong.. Never trying to outsmart him, speak with humble and soft approach like : what is your opinion or how about. Because his pattern 卯酉未 clashed will activating his 7k. 酉 is his thinking and this will also activating unnecessary debate when he triggered. 'sorry for my blunt words' your husband also tend to snobbish or look down other people.

    2. If plan 1 not working, using hidden combination as 卯申. Indirect approach. This 卯 also his kids. 丁癸 clashed (the fraction within laws you mentioned) will also reduced by 卯申 effect. Because 丁 sit on 卯.

    3. He is loving you. This is undoubtedly loving you. Just his way to showing his love is not the romantic type. He is a practical man. You cannot change him but you can adapt with his style.

    Just doing and as long as remember these 3 practical solution alone, i personally believed you can improve the quality of your marriage life.

    As for buying and selling property.. Make sure plan the finance well.. If not the right timing for sell or buy do not force it. Understand CM is good but logic way of thinking and reality is more important.

    Good luck again.

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    « Reply #63 on: August 17, 2019, 04:06:29 PM »
    Thanks once again @TianQi.

    1. You have pointed out correctly about him. I really don't like this part about him as I'm not like that. I know I can't change him but it will be good if I can help him improve to be a better person. Thank you for the tip to be softer when talking to him.

    2. When you said indirect approach, what should I do?

    3. How do you tell he is undoubtedly loving me? Do the charts show?

    We have no choice but have to move to a bigger place as the current flat is too small. He is not happy not having his space.

    I turn to CM as some things cannot be explained logically and understanding the charts and luck pillars can help me make better decisions.

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    « Reply #64 on: August 17, 2019, 05:22:09 PM »
    Thanks once again @TianQi.

    1. You have pointed out correctly about him. I really don't like this part about him as I'm not like that. I know I can't change him but it will be good if I can help him improve to be a better person. Thank you for the tip to be softer when talking to him.

    2. When you said indirect approach, what should I do?

    3. How do you tell he is undoubtedly loving me? Do the charts show?

    We have no choice but have to move to a bigger place as the current flat is too small. He is not happy not having his space.

    I turn to CM as some things cannot be explained logically and understanding the charts and luck pillars can help me make better decisions.

    Hi maxx

    Indirect approach is something like this :

    1. You make the idea that you want for example changing home, come out from his mouth or his idea by him self.

    2. Mention for the kids well-being or for supporting the kids growth.

    You can say, just example :

    " This flat looks cool " (without saying your real purpose or trying to convincing him).

    Undoubtedly, he is loving his wife and wife role is important in his chart. Not undoubtedly loving you. As these 2 phrase very different meaning. Sorry, type too fast. Yes from the chart and from what i see.
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    « Reply #65 on: August 18, 2019, 12:52:47 PM »
    Thanks @TianQi. I will learn and apply as much as possible.

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    « Reply #66 on: August 22, 2019, 08:54:19 PM »
    Hi maaax,

    I read all the replies for your issue and find that we seem to be dealing with the same characteristics man. But in my case, we are not married and i didn't know he like his image and have a big ego so i have overstep that boundaries, like all the master say he is snobbish and like to look down on other people, i feel that with him too as well as i find he bear grudges over one matter with me for 1.5 years. I am not perfect either, also got a pretty headstrong temper which i don't anyhow use unless i'm being force to a corner. He has since find another girl who look similar like me and move on, he give up after 4 tries when i had enough of his self-centred behaviour. Since he already found someone, i refrain from going to places where he can see me. Will be moving away soon in order not meet each other anymore as i'm tired of all these disagreement, wishing him all the best and happiness with whoever he is with. I just want a fresh start for myself.

    For your case you have children, i hope all the master who help you can somehow help to balance and improve your relationship with your hubby. It's not easy handling such person but for your marriage and children, do try. It's gonna be tough but it may be worthwhile working hard for it. Wishing you and your family the best.

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    « Reply #67 on: August 26, 2019, 12:43:32 PM »
    Hi @lilac_adv, thanks for your wishes. Good to hear you have realised early and moved on. Will try to rebuild the marriage for the children. It is tough as the feelings are gone and only hurt remains. Wish you will meet the right partner =)

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    « Reply #69 on: December 16, 2019, 12:12:01 PM »


    Very low afffinity with spouse. The water husband star missing
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    Thanks @Shdqo0924, I'm aware water element is missing from my chart. Will be happy to know what can be done to improve the affinity with spouse when I have such bazi. Thanks

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    « Reply #70 on: March 19, 2020, 06:38:33 PM »
    Thank you to all the masters, there are quite a bit of changes since - starting losing weight in Nov 2019 and am a bit leaner than pre pregnancy weight, sold my current home in Dec 2019, just started work in Mar 2020, will be moving to new home in mid Apr 2020 - but the relationship with my husband is still cold.

    Any advice on my relationship. Thanks

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    « Reply #72 on: March 26, 2020, 05:23:38 PM »
    2021 would be more difficult than 2020 as it clash your day pillar, that is where spouse is located. Unless the marriage can survive by end of 2023, you and your husband can sail through those difficulties then this marriage can be long lasting but not without challenges as both your character are just too different.

    Just brace yourself, have faith and patience by following the master advice here. Do you want to try for another child? A daughter may help in the marriage.

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    « Reply #73 on: March 26, 2020, 08:37:22 PM »
    Thank you @rainmaster, I hope the FS of the new house will be more favourable.

    Thank you for the advice @lilac_adv. 2019 has been tough and 2020 is not improving, I can't imagine how bad 2021 will be... The relationship now is too cold to try for another baby. Plus I already have 3 boys and am not young anymore..

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    « Reply #74 on: March 27, 2020, 06:01:21 AM »
    Thank you @rainmaster, I hope the FS of the new house will be more favourable.

    Thank you for the advice @lilac_adv. 2019 has been tough and 2020 is not improving, I can't imagine how bad 2021 will be... The relationship now is too cold to try for another baby. Plus I already have 3 boys and am not young anymore..

    I thought you only had a boy so i just try asking you to go for a girl. It's OK. Have faith, don't think negatively.  Take the advice from the master here and stay positive. May the new house bring you good luck in your marriage and bring more harmony to your family.

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