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    « on: September 26, 2019, 04:30:22 PM »
    Hi all, my name is Ben,

    I'm a new member here, have read some and tried to learn about bazi, but couldn't quite grasp the whole concept :) so any help is really appreciated!

    I have some problems that I need help with:

    -I have a relationship issue with my father that is taking toll in my life. Well, it's not just me, other family members like my mom, and brother also having problems with the dad, he is such a difficult person.

    - For these past 2-3 years I've been trying to start my own business, but at the end they weren't profitable enough so I decided to close those business ventures.. with 2 small kids and a loving wife I feel that I don't have much leeway anymore in experimenting with too 'crazy' or too 'creative' new business ventures; and furthermore, my financial resources are drying up just to support my little family, this has been stressing me out very much!!

    So any help in reading my bazi (or any other method) chart is really appreciated! By the way, I've done a bazi reading consultation and this guy told me that in this upcoming 1-3 years is going to be good for me financial-wise, is this true? One thing I know for sure is that I'm a Ren DM with no wealth element in my chart! (is this bad?) and also want to know my chart structure and my useful gods.

    Thank you for your time reading my post and hopefully I could get some answers that could help me decide my next course of action..

    Btw, my DOB is April 3rd 1985 at 06:20pm in Los Angeles, California, USA. Male 8)

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    « Reply #1 on: September 26, 2019, 04:40:23 PM »
    Hi Ben

    you are very creative, artistic and intelligent, but you might not be the business type. It's a good chart, a lot of possibilities, but if you really want to do business maybe it's better to team up with somebody who has more abilities in running a business.

    It's not really a big deal, as I said, you have a good chart, you just have to find your direction. Team up with someone who has a lot of Fire.
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    « Reply #2 on: September 26, 2019, 06:45:26 PM »
    Ren daymaster born at mao month which is need metal to support water become stronger. You already have metal which is your power to produce wood, this is already good sign for your natal chart. The problem is conflict between ji earth as a authority and wood as a output and no wealth element as a middle between output and authority.

    If you use output it will make your authority weak its means you are smart, talented but no reputation or doenst has respect from others. I assume you are male, and your LP walk to the north LP. North LP means water LP, it can means friend or connection or people. So you together with other people produce something (output = creativity, or etc). But the problem probably you dont have authority.

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    « Reply #3 on: September 26, 2019, 09:33:12 PM »
    Hi Ben

    you are very creative, artistic and intelligent, but you might not be the business type. It's a good chart, a lot of possibilities, but if you really want to do business maybe it's better to team up with somebody who has more abilities in running a business.

    It's not really a big deal, as I said, you have a good chart, you just have to find your direction. Team up with someone who has a lot of Fire.

    Hi johnyqi,

    Thank you for the reply!
    About the business type, I think you are right,, I am certainly lacking of staying power in any of my endeavors, usually I just like to formulate/ come up with a plan but with little execution or control and follow through afterwards..
    As for partners with lots of fire, I thank you for the advice!

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    « Reply #4 on: September 26, 2019, 09:39:14 PM »
    Ren daymaster born at mao month which is need metal to support water become stronger. You already have metal which is your power to produce wood, this is already good sign for your natal chart. The problem is conflict between ji earth as a authority and wood as a output and no wealth element as a middle between output and authority.

    If you use output it will make your authority weak its means you are smart, talented but no reputation or doenst has respect from others. I assume you are male, and your LP walk to the north LP. North LP means water LP, it can means friend or connection or people. So you together with other people produce something (output = creativity, or etc). But the problem probably you dont have authority.

    Hi windwheel,
    Thank you for the reply!
    Yes I am a male, about the reputation/ respect from others, yes you are right about that and I don't really care about that kind of stuff, I just want to make a pretty nice living:)

    So this connection or partners producing output that you mention, when will this going to happen? What year or in what LP?

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    « Reply #5 on: September 26, 2019, 09:54:06 PM »
    Ren daymaster born at mao month which is need metal to support water become stronger. You already have metal which is your power to produce wood, this is already good sign for your natal chart. The problem is conflict between ji earth as a authority and wood as a output and no wealth element as a middle between output and authority.

    If you use output it will make your authority weak its means you are smart, talented but no reputation or doenst has respect from others. I assume you are male, and your LP walk to the north LP. North LP means water LP, it can means friend or connection or people. So you together with other people produce something (output = creativity, or etc). But the problem probably you dont have authority.

    Hi windwheel,
    Thank you for the reply!
    Yes I am a male, about the reputation/ respect from others, yes you are right about that and I don't really care about that kind of stuff, I just want to make a pretty nice living:)

    So this connection or partners producing output that you mention, when will this going to happen? What year or in what LP?
    If you want go to business, its better in service industry which need special skill. If money get money seems your wealth luck will be up and down.

    Im so sorry to say this, your LP not walk to fire LP which si snake, wu horse, wei so it might be your achievement have limitation.

    Your career luck will be not smooth sailing in this decade, you will meet challanging or obstacle in your career.

    If possible how about joint venture with other if you still want in business? Let other invest in your business and you are as operational or CEO? Its not means your career will be smooth sailing, just for avoid your sign of money luck. Or you can work for someone else(it will be more safe).

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    « Reply #6 on: September 26, 2019, 10:22:01 PM »
    Madam Ben , stay lowprof
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    « Reply #7 on: September 26, 2019, 11:39:58 PM »
    Hi all, my name is Ben, I'm a new member here, have read some and tried to learn about bazi, but couldn't quite grasp the whole concept :) so any help is really appreciated! I have some problems that I need help with: -I have a relationship issue with my father that is taking toll in my life. Well, it's not just me, other family members like my mom, and brother also having problems with the dad, he is such a difficult person. - For these past 2-3 years I've been trying to start my own business, but at the end they weren't profitable enough so I decided to close those business ventures.. with 2 small kids and a loving wife I feel that I don't have much leeway anymore in experimenting with too 'crazy' or too 'creative' new business ventures; and furthermore, my financial resources are drying up just to support my little family, this has been stressing me out very much!! So any help in reading my bazi (or any other method) chart is really appreciated! By the way, I've done a bazi reading consultation and this guy told me that in this upcoming 1-3 years is going to be good for me financial-wise, is this true? One thing I know for sure is that I'm a Ren DM with no wealth element in my chart! (is this bad?) and also want to know my chart structure and my useful gods. Thank you for your time reading my post and hopefully I could get some answers that could help me decide my next course of action.. Btw, my DOB is April 3rd 1985 at 06:20pm in Los Angeles, California, USA. Male 8)
    Hi Benett,


    I'll have a go.


    Having no wealth star doesn't mean you won't get rich. In fact a lot of celebrities do not have any or many wealth stars. You just have to work with what you have.


    I can see since last year till this year, you've been trying to find your feet. You have no affinity with your father. In fact you are closer to your mother.


    Did you get married in 2013?


    I agree with the others that you must specialize in something and charge for or use it to work for someone else. If you want to start a business you must find people you must partner with to run it who can help you handle it. Doing it alone, you will most likely be overwhelmed. Am I right in saying that you prefer to do things on your own? You do however have the ability to collaborate, but you have to dig deep to develop it.


    Between November and April, you might want to start networking in earnest. Ask your friends, family or strangers for opportunities. If you're looking to work for someone else, you can do so at the start of April. Whether working alone or for someone else, you only have a window of 2020-2021 for bosses to see your ability so make good use of this timeline. I can also see you must travel to have success.


    Hope this helps!

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    « Reply #8 on: September 27, 2019, 08:00:37 AM »
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    « Reply #9 on: September 27, 2019, 11:35:01 AM »
    @Bennett Are you still living in your birthplace?
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    « Reply #10 on: September 27, 2019, 12:03:28 PM »
    My personal opinion:

    1. 壬 born in 卯 with 乙 protruding, HO (Hurting Officer) structure, unfortunately meet DO (Direct Officer) 己. Need metal or fire to control this 乙.

    2. 酉卯 clash want to open 丑 as Metal / resource tomb, but 酉丑 half-combo close the tomb.

    3. 酉卯 clash also indicate you reject your boss, want to start your own business, or relationship with parents is sour.

    4. 2014-2024 丙子 LP, 丙 should be useful as the "bridge" between 乙 and 己, but unfortunately got clashed by 壬 DM = yourself, it may indicate the problem also lies in yourself.

    5. 子丑 combine want to close 丑 as Resource tomb, makes HO 乙 uncontrollable and hurt 己 as DO.

    6. 庚 that's located in the Spouse palace 申 should be useful to control 乙 as HO, but unfortunately enter the tomb.

    7. The solution is to open this tomb by making 酉卯 clash to happen. 卯 located in month pillar represent your birthplace, so you need to move out from your birthplace to open the tomb.

    8. Or you need to wait until 甲戌 LP 2034-2044 as 甲戌 is the cure. 甲 combine with 己 to save DO, and 戌 punish 丑 to open the tomb and control 乙 as HO.

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    « Reply #11 on: September 27, 2019, 12:34:02 PM »

    If you want go to business, its better in service industry which need special skill. If money get money seems your wealth luck will be up and down.

    Im so sorry to say this, your LP not walk to fire LP which si snake, wu horse, wei so it might be your achievement have limitation.

    Your career luck will be not smooth sailing in this decade, you will meet challanging or obstacle in your career.

    If possible how about joint venture with other if you still want in business? Let other invest in your business and you are as operational or CEO? Its not means your career will be smooth sailing, just for avoid your sign of money luck. Or you can work for someone else(it will be more safe).

    Hi windwheel,

    It's really sad to hear that hehe, but thank you for the advice nonetheless, I will keep in mind that it is better to find partner(s) if I want to try to do another business, thank you once again, really appreciate it!

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    « Reply #12 on: September 27, 2019, 12:50:12 PM »
    Hi Benett,


    I'll have a go.


    Having no wealth star doesn't mean you won't get rich. In fact a lot of celebrities do not have any or many wealth stars. You just have to work with what you have.


    I can see since last year till this year, you've been trying to find your feet. You have no affinity with your father. In fact you are closer to your mother.


    Did you get married in 2013?


    I agree with the others that you must specialize in something and charge for or use it to work for someone else. If you want to start a business you must find people you must partner with to run it who can help you handle it. Doing it alone, you will most likely be overwhelmed. Am I right in saying that you prefer to do things on your own? You do however have the ability to collaborate, but you have to dig deep to develop it.


    Between November and April, you might want to start networking in earnest. Ask your friends, family or strangers for opportunities. If you're looking to work for someone else, you can do so at the start of April. Whether working alone or for someone else, you only have a window of 2020-2021 for bosses to see your ability so make good use of this timeline. I can also see you must travel to have success.


    Hope this helps!

    Hi waywalker,

    Thank you for your response, really appreciate it.
    Having no wealth star doesn't mean you won't get rich. In fact a lot of celebrities do not have any or many wealth stars. You just have to work with what you have.
    Glad to hear that :)
    I can see since last year till this year, you've been trying to find your feet. You have no affinity with your father. In fact you are closer to your mother.
    Yep, all true.
    Did you get married in 2013?
    Pretty close! I got married in January 2014, but perhaps it is still the same lunar year as 2013?
    I agree with the others that you must specialize in something and charge for or use it to work for someone else. If you want to start a business you must find people you must partner with to run it who can help you handle it. Doing it alone, you will most likely be overwhelmed. Am I right in saying that you prefer to do things on your own? You do however have the ability to collaborate, but you have to dig deep to develop it.
    Yes you are right once again, I feel like that I could get things done faster and the way I want by doing it alone, but collaboration is not really that out of the picture, but yes you are right I would prefer to do it by myself.
    Between November and April, you might want to start networking in earnest. Ask your friends, family or strangers for opportunities. If you're looking to work for someone else, you can do so at the start of April. Whether working alone or for someone else, you only have a window of 2020-2021 for bosses to see your ability so make good use of this timeline. I can also see you must travel to have success.
    By must travel to have success, do you mean that I have to travel out of my birthplace or travel in general?

    Thank you for your advice, will keep them in mind:)

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    @Bennett , may I ask what type of business you were trying to do before?

    From your chart, seems like creative endeavors work better for you.

    Hi rainmaster,

    Thank you for your reply.

    I created some kind like an advertising android app with my friend, and a small coffee shop before that.
    creative endeavors such as painter, sculptor or musician maybe? ;D

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    « Reply #14 on: September 27, 2019, 01:02:41 PM »
    @fan

    Hi fan,

    Thank you for your reply!

    Nope, I have moved out of my birth country since long time ago, so does this qualify as a cure to open the 'tomb'?

    Interesting read fan, it's like nothing I've ever read about bazi, may I know what method do you use?


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