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    « on: October 19, 2019, 12:24:55 AM »


    I know this topic is quite sensitive.

    But which element should I look at when it comes to reading relationship in a gay birthchart? How can I know which year/ luck pillar will I be likely to meet a partner/ soulmate?



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    Hi Namle.16,

    This topic was discussed in a very good topic. If you search using keyword 'Gay' you may be able to find it.
    I think @RapaNui was part of the discussion. While doing search you can add my name or RapaNui's.

    Good luck,

    Ren

    Many thanks Ren, I'll check it out now!

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    To Namle.16, All,

    I think Namale.16 raised an interested question: “What element should be used (for spouse) in a same sex relationship".

    This was discussed in Summer's topic: Same Sex Marriage.
    Other topics seem to be more concerned with how to determine if someone was striaght or not.

    Trey gave us this:
    Writing with a phone is insane. Grrrr

    Afaik, much like Ancient Greek, homosexuality was commonly practiced in ancient China. History had recorded a number of emperors who are openly gay or bisexual. There are records of the names male concubines as well as female concubines during Han dynasty. Homosexuality wasn't something that was frowned upon until the arrival of influence of Buddhism and later Christianity.

    Traditionally, concubines are represented by PianCai. As PC has the same polarity as the DM, it can also represent a male concubine. The concept of Cai is almost like 'possession'. It is something that is controlled, used and belongs to the DM. As such, IMO, a more submissive partner in a homosexual relationship can be represented by PC. Likewise, 7k is the controlling figure with the same polarity as the Dm, hence I believe it can represent the more dominant partner.

    In the case where both are neither dominant nor submissive, Bijian should represent both

    After reading the threads here on the forum, I starting to think the sex of the DM determines the Spouse element not their sexual preference. I think, the what will happen, will come out in the chart.

    My problem comes when the DM chooses to identify as the opposite gender Then maybe one would switch.
    Similarly, if same gender people choose to have a strong long term friendship / partnership (regardless if sexual or not). In these cases, I think Trey's comments stand.

    What do you think?

    (afaik = as for as a I know)

    Ren

    @namle.16


    Well, from my personal experiences in a gay relationship. I can really tell it is mostly based on the dominant/ submissive roles that we choose to play.

    If you look closely at my chart, you might see I have a tendency to be more dominant in a relationship as my Hurting Officer strengthens Indirect Wealth/ Direct Wealth elements (which represent for wife or submissive role in relationship). My DM is strong so that I am able to control the wealth elements. In reality, I can easily attract partners who are weaker (mentally) than me acting like a wife/ girl in that relationship.

    Meanwhile, I have no 7 Killings in my chart as my Direct Officer is kinda weak. In reality, in the past when I dated guy who is more dominant/ playing the dominant role, we broke up just because he did not find me soft/ feminine enough in the relationship. It is just like a female chart with strong HO/ EG and weak DO/ 7K, the woman will be more likely to go against her husband/ boyfriend that leads to divorce.

    In case of Friends/ Rob Wealth (years/ months), yes, I also meet several guys but there are no official relationships having happened. We were more like friends and bros hanging out.

    To conclude, I guess the element that we choose to look at when it comes to a gay relationship probably depends on our sexual preferences/ roles in that relationship.

    How do you think?


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    « Reply #6 on: October 22, 2019, 10:15:19 PM »
    To Ren,

    Thanks a lot for reminding me. This is my first time in the forum and I wasn't really aware of this.

    Cheers.

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