Thanks. : )
thank you and good choice of a calculator, in my humble opinion! : )
yea indeed good calculator, but have so many symbolic stars, i dont understand how to read it in my chart
could you please read my personality based on it? 
My symbolic star skills are still under development.
Sometimes they seem to be very important for reading, sometimes I find it challenging to integrate them...
Its going slow.
But its a lot of material, so I think when it all fits will be awesome.
His relationship with you is difficult to say without being sure of the hour, as his kids in bazi would be in the hour.
In your chart, he seems to be trying to support you the way he can in more then one way,
yet if you are pulling away, may be why there is distance now.
Thanks for your advices, so wise like always
about the hour, here's a condition my dad had:
1. his parents divorced when he was like 5 Yo, his father (my grandpa) married after to a widow with 3 kids, her mother (my grandma) never married again
2. have 2 sisters that so manipulative and materialistics
i hope those help you to confirm the hour? i am sure he was born in the morning, his name meaning "sun" he said around 7 am
Problem is, the hour is last part of life, so we can't easily confirm it with past events, sometimes we can, when its clear there is another influence changing important dynamic.
So we can rule it out one by one, but it will take a lot of questions and probably easier with other ways(divination etc.)
For example, if the hour was Chou or Xu, then 18-35 would have been with a lot of people around and feeling part of the group for him.
While if the hour was Chen then would be much lonelier(there may have been people around, but won't feel part of it).
And stuff like that, yet it will take a while and not sure it will help much, overall. : )
and yea true, he always supporting me more than my mom did emotionally,
what about mother figure in my chart?
I guess she would be Jia...
Still supporting, but on more surface level(not as deep connection, as its stem, and Bing by definition doesn't need much wood support, so it could even be the other way around sometimes).
is it true that i am similar to him based on our charts? my mom ever said that i got my dad's charisma
There are similarities, both work with fire and dry earth, in a little different way, yet that is still similar. There are many differences, as well.
me and my father have business together, likely i help the business. but you know.. it is always hard to have business matters with your parents i guess
Aha, that makes sense. : )
If you want, can always ask specific question in the divination section.
We do need more questions for clearing up rules and improving our reading skills etc(while we mostly read divination stuff in jlims forums, many members also write here as well).
And it could be more precise then bazi reading could be.
Some summary of how to do in here:
https://fivearts.info/fivearts/index.php?topic=16510.0Although in short, can just think of a question(for example "how is my relationship with my father" or "is everything with my father fine emotionally?"), then empty your mind click the generate button in the site then post image of what comes out with the question. Or just copy the string top right and post it. : )