Wealth, Marriage, Children. please help to analyze this chart.

[Eostre]

Overall you are right about my husband situation. I'm very impressed.  is he consider as strong or weak DM?

Appreciate the answers @Eostre
I have made the lucky deductions with ZWDS, and am still an amateur.
Below are other deductions for my learning, do bear with me if they are gibberish.
And of course, please ignore if you do not wish to answer.

- I deducted you as the main income support on a few factors. You are his "gui ren", someone who can support him well. You are also the main support in the household, and is probably the CFO handling all financial matters, so he can rest peacefully at home. You have the capability to work as well, although your husband may not enjoy the idea.
This is exactly what is happening now. But actually he doesn't mind me back to work but at the same time don't really have intention to help with the household or kids. So if I decided to work, I need to make sure everything still taken care well.

- If your husband is good natured, are you the one with bad temper? Your husband may not enjoy when you advise him or become commanding, especially when you are worried about his income.
Yah, I'm the one with bad tempat. Most of the time I like to do things fast, but he always take his own sweet time. 

- Even though you mentioned he is conservative, he has the desire to accomplish well in career and wealth, yet he does relax from time to time.
Yes he is. His mind is ambitious but his behaviour does not show it.

- He is an observant person with the ability and potential to self learn, albeit facing difficulty to follow through his ideas thoroughly at times.
Yes, he is very smart person. With many idea and always very good in planning.

- There is always plenty of worries on his mind.
I can see since he become a father he always worry about his ability to give our children good life.

- There may be a conflict in his handling of money. For example, in trading, he yearns to make bold but careful trades, which is a dilemma.
Hmm.. He always being a conservative type so he knows what to expect. I think the conflict in handling money is that he tries to save small money, but don't mind to spend big money.

- Chart did show that he spends effort on children, and tries to take good care of them, but it seems like their relationships are not good. There may be plenty of tears involved.
Can I PM you about this one?

- Speaking of relationships, although he is happy with siblings, he is probably not on good terms with his parents, or just rarely sees them. He should be the traditional type who will take care of elders regardless of what may have happened.
This one very true. He stay far from his parents since teenager age. But he always do his best to take care of his parents. Actually he miss them often. He does not tell but I know from his looks when he called them through video call.

- He seems to have no luck meeting helpful people outside, and probably prefers not to social unless necessary, pretty passive. Thus when you mentioned he did well in real estate, assuming he is an agent, he probably clinched the sales from recommendations instead of securing externally, or some lucky breaks.
Hmm.. Yah, he is passive in social life. He likes to spend his time relaxing at home. He used to be a director in real estate company. He came as a foreign technical advisor so he get good paid for that.

- His career in the chart is astonishing when compared to the rest. Yet, anything too good is overwhelming, essentially so if it is not supported by other aspects. I am unsure how long he did real estate, but no matter what he does, it should show good results in the beginning, but should also decline.
Could you give any suggestion what career will be good for him? What do you think about him being a trader?

- Overall his personalities in the chart are quite conflicted, and he should be facing plenty of dilemmas in thought processes and decision making. And if he could not reach a conclusion at the end, it becomes uncontrolled.

Hmm.. for this one, most of the time he askes me to take decision in the end. 

Quite accurate reading you made. Keep it up. I think you're gifted in CM. It was really good reading consider you said you're an amateur. 👍

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[Eostre]

@Bazi_Fan No worries. I'm happy to hear input. 

What you describe is what he did when he was in a real estate company. And he do very well there. I suggested once for him to be back to company or being a lecturer. But I don't dare to suggest him over the same thing again. I don't want to hurt his ego. Later he think I don't confident in his ability to trade.

End of 2017, his company have some issues at the top management. Then he knew as a foreigner if bad thing happened, foreigner will be the first one to be fired. And the company already not to continue some of his foreigner friends work contract. He knew it will happen to him also. So, he apply for resign. 

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[Eostre]

@Bazi_Fan Thanks for the advice. 😊 I think his mother suggested the same thing as what I suggested to him. Whatever he decide, I will support him. 😊

[Origin]

Thanks @Eostre for the answers, I am learning much from your experience.
The really amazing people here are some of the bazi masters.
I am but a grain of sand

As for your husband's career choice, I am only concerned with two points:
- Prospect must obviously provide sufficient income; and
- His mental happiness must be sustained

Thus I am considering the following facts:
- Your husband prefers not to socialize, therefore reducing interpersonal relationships and support
- Without such, competency is rarely recognized, resulting in minimal opportunities
- Yet, your husband has the capabilities and ambition to perform
- He probably feels liberated at the idea of being solo now
- His trading result has been green for years, which shows his expertise

So, career options from my two cents worth:
1. Continue full time trading, which I think he enjoys, worst scenario to fall back into employment.
2. Establish a business and his underlings will his support his career, building relationships on behalf, etc. A property agency, perhaps? He probably has the expertise.
3. Seek a job role which he can have good challenges, somewhere he can build upon without depending on others. Only himself may know what roles spurs him, and within his resume's reach.



I am actually a fellow trader
I have previously posted threads on a spur about transitioning into full time trading by 2023 - https://fivearts.info/fivearts/index.php?topic=19565.0.
It is seeing such similarities that I have decided to try deducing your husband's chart.

A fellow professional trader should know that trading is not a game of luck. We analyze markets like psychiatrist diagnosing patients, like businessman forecasting revenue, like CM master reading signs from a chart. The result bears fruit from years of research, sheer hard work, and utmost professionalism. Professional trading is not gamble, it is a skill set.

So I really wish to take the chance and debunk the usual prejudice of depicting professional trading in CM. It is a career. Profits are made from hard labour. As professional traders we do not gain unexpected wealth. All are within calculated risks and expectations. At worst, please consider professional trading as self employment.

But TBH, in this era of gig economy and freelancing, I think CM should even evolve and consider dropping the difference between working for oneself and working for others. At the end of the day, working for others is explicitly working for oneself too.

Before flaming me, take the above with a pinch of salt.
Thanks