Relationship/Luck Chart Question

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Hi Everyone,

I'm new to bazi and have been doing a lot of reading but have not quite gotten a grasp of things and wanted to get your opinions and see if any of you have any insights or things that stand out for me. 

I am:
Male
August 03, 1987.
Born in North America (EST zone), hour unknown.
Gay/Bi

I have been struggling when it comes to relationships. As in, despite wanting to be in a relationship, at 33, I have never been on a date, never been in a relationship, etc.  It is not from lack of effort.  I don't understand why this area seems to be so lacking.  I admit, a lot of the rest of my life seems chaotic and like bad luck seems to follow me, but I don't seem to see why particularly for relationships it is been especially hard.  Any ideas or thoughts from the above?  Compatibility advice? Anything else jumps out for career/ general luck?

There are two relationship issues in your chart. First is Yang Metal in your spouse palace, which is challenging your Yang Wood. Another one is Rabbit which has access to your Goat, translated, you have a lot of competition.

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Hi Everyone,

I'm new to bazi and have been doing a lot of reading but have not quite gotten a grasp of things and wanted to get your opinions and see if any of you have any insights or things that stand out for me. 

I am:
Male
August 03, 1987.
Born in North America (EST zone), hour unknown.
Gay/Bi

I have been struggling when it comes to relationships. As in, despite wanting to be in a relationship, at 33, I have never been on a date, never been in a relationship, etc.  It is not from lack of effort.  I don't understand why this area seems to be so lacking.  I admit, a lot of the rest of my life seems chaotic and like bad luck seems to follow me, but I don't seem to see why particularly for relationships it is been especially hard.  Any ideas or thoughts from the above?  Compatibility advice? Anything else jumps out for career/ general luck?

There are two relationship issues in your chart. First is Yang Metal in your spouse palace, which is challenging your Yang Wood. Another one is Rabbit which has access to your Goat, translated, you have a lot of competition.

Is there anyway to overcome this?  Is this a strong enough reason for the extremity of my case of my dilemma? Any other insights?

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Hi Everyone,

I'm new to bazi and have been doing a lot of reading but have not quite gotten a grasp of things and wanted to get your opinions and see if any of you have any insights or things that stand out for me. 

I am:
Male
August 03, 1987.
Born in North America (EST zone), hour unknown.
Gay/Bi

I have been struggling when it comes to relationships. As in, despite wanting to be in a relationship, at 33, I have never been on a date, never been in a relationship, etc.  It is not from lack of effort.  I don't understand why this area seems to be so lacking.  I admit, a lot of the rest of my life seems chaotic and like bad luck seems to follow me, but I don't seem to see why particularly for relationships it is been especially hard.  Any ideas or thoughts from the above?  Compatibility advice? Anything else jumps out for career/ general luck?

There are two relationship issues in your chart. First is Yang Metal in your spouse palace, which is challenging your Yang Wood. Another one is Rabbit which has access to your Goat, translated, you have a lot of competition.

Is there anyway to overcome this?  Is this a strong enough reason for the extremity of my case of my dilemma? Any other insights?

Chart is just one aspect, our genetic and upbringing also plays a big role.You probably need a coach to remove that blockage. Trying to figure it out out on your own is hard.

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[bazibeginner2]

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Hi Everyone,

I'm new to bazi and have been doing a lot of reading but have not quite gotten a grasp of things and wanted to get your opinions and see if any of you have any insights or things that stand out for me. 

I am:
Male
August 03, 1987.
Born in North America (EST zone), hour unknown.
Gay/Bi

I have been struggling when it comes to relationships. As in, despite wanting to be in a relationship, at 33, I have never been on a date, never been in a relationship, etc.  It is not from lack of effort.  I don't understand why this area seems to be so lacking.  I admit, a lot of the rest of my life seems chaotic and like bad luck seems to follow me, but I don't seem to see why particularly for relationships it is been especially hard.  Any ideas or thoughts from the above?  Compatibility advice? Anything else jumps out for career/ general luck?

There are two relationship issues in your chart. First is Yang Metal in your spouse palace, which is challenging your Yang Wood. Another one is Rabbit which has access to your Goat, translated, you have a lot of competition.

Is there anyway to overcome this?  Is this a strong enough reason for the extremity of my case of my dilemma? Any other insights?

Chart is just one aspect, our genetic and upbringing also plays a big role.You probably need a coach to remove that blockage. Trying to figure it out out on your own is hard.

Are you thinking like a relationship coach or therapist?
You're right, I'm sure chart is only part of it, but I can't think of anything I can change in my control to change anything else which brings me back to the chart to figure out what is going wrong.  Do you think the wood and metal opposite each other is the main thing that stands out? Is there a remedy?

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Hi Everyone,

I'm new to bazi and have been doing a lot of reading but have not quite gotten a grasp of things and wanted to get your opinions and see if any of you have any insights or things that stand out for me. 

I am:
Male
August 03, 1987.
Born in North America (EST zone), hour unknown.
Gay/Bi

I have been struggling when it comes to relationships. As in, despite wanting to be in a relationship, at 33, I have never been on a date, never been in a relationship, etc.  It is not from lack of effort.  I don't understand why this area seems to be so lacking.  I admit, a lot of the rest of my life seems chaotic and like bad luck seems to follow me, but I don't seem to see why particularly for relationships it is been especially hard.  Any ideas or thoughts from the above?  Compatibility advice? Anything else jumps out for career/ general luck?

Hi @bazibeginner2 ^_^  ,

Did you have a gay love interest in 2015 and a female love interest in 2017? Love interest doesn't need to be in a couple relationship.

Also, studying or reading academic things are something you dont like? Prefer to talk through your thoughts and have meaningful discussions with others?

Cheers, Bazi_Fan

Hi Bazi_Fan,

Thanks for replying.  I had to take some time to really think back to where I was at in 2015 and 2017 and how I could loosely apply or think of "love interest" in as many ways possible.  I can confidently say I had no female love interest in 2017 (or for a long time) and did not have a male love interest 2015 (I could maybe think of someone I had a huge infatuation with that I tried to be connected on a platonic level a year or two before but I think he may have been straight but I never asked to confirm. 

For my profession and with my history of schooling I've done a ton of studying and A LOT of reading of things academic.  I wouldn't say those are things I enjoy tons, but I like knowledge I get from those things and accepted it's something I will have to continue to do, as much as I feel burned out by it and don't want to.  If you meant reading books and novels for enjoyment...I can confidently say I don't like doing that....I don't read for leisure.  I do like having personal, emotional, one on one conversations with others. 

What are your thoughts?

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Hi @bazibeginner2,

I might be reading your chart wrongly  . So happy to see other members posts and learn from them 

Also, don't you wanna hide your post?

Cheers, Bazi_Fan

I also have trouble figuring it out. It’s generally not a bad chart. Maybe the missing hour is a problem, could be a clash there, affecting relationships.

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Hi @bazibeginner2,

I might be reading your chart wrongly  . So happy to see other members posts and learn from them 

Also, don't you wanna hide your post?

Cheers, Bazi_Fan

I also have trouble figuring it out. It’s generally not a bad chart. Maybe the missing hour is a problem, could be a clash there, affecting relationships.

Thanks for the input. I don’t even have the vaguest estimate on the time I was born unfortunately. I wasn’t sure if my sexual orientation would throw the chart off but it shouldn’t. I am so perplexed about this strong relationship hurdle that seems atypical, when I heard about Bazi, I was certain my chart would say something that would click or make sense and give me comfort. Sound sounds like from you there is nothing bad about my chart...is there anything good I should know about?

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Hi @bazibeginner2,

I might be reading your chart wrongly  . So happy to see other members posts and learn from them 

Also, don't you wanna hide your post?

Cheers, Bazi_Fan

Is there an advantage to hiding the post? I was thinking i would leave it open to get more responses to help.

I don’t think your reading is wrong, you asked a question and I replied. I think you’re an expert. It sounds like I have a complicated chart. I think tonight I’ll take some more time to think about what you said and see if there were people I was forgetting about.
Did anything else seem noteworthy from my chart?

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Hi @bazibeginner2,

I might be reading your chart wrongly  . So happy to see other members posts and learn from them 

Also, don't you wanna hide your post?

Cheers, Bazi_Fan

I also have trouble figuring it out. It’s generally not a bad chart. Maybe the missing hour is a problem, could be a clash there, affecting relationships.

Yup i agree and it's hard without the time... 

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[johnyqi]

Fire gives you strong creativity, you could be a quite good performer or artist. Fire is a bit too strong, therefore you need Metal Element, which in same time represents your relationships, so it's all linked.