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  • Lost job, zero relationship & lacking motivation [Need help]
    « on: August 21, 2020, 08:34:25 AM »
    Dear sifus,

    I lost my job yet again for the 3rd time in the past 1 year.
    Got terminated from job last year Oct 2019. Then left the next company in Apr 2020 because it was having financial issue.
    No job for 2 months then after that got terminated again from the 3rd company 3 days ago (18 Aug 2020). This is very demotivating.
    How long is it going to last?

    I've been single for the last 36 years of my life. Even I tried but none seems suitable.
    Feels very demotivating at this point. Am I destined in my whole life to be totally alone?

    Maybe sifus in this forum can point out what's next using ZWDS or Bazi.
    When will all this ever be solved or at least stabilize.

    My details:-
    Birth date:- 21.08.1984
    Time:- 5.50pm (+8 GMT)
    Closest coordinate of birth:- 3°05'35.9"N 101°38'44.4"E

    Thank you in advance for all the advice, sifus.

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    « Reply #1 on: August 21, 2020, 11:40:42 AM »
    ur DM ding fire is very weak  so u like wood n fire n dry earth . u hate metal n water n wet earth

    ur  LP now is bing fire/rat water. bing fire got hurt by the  MHS ren water.  rat will half combine with MEB monkey metal to form water. so ur LP career  luck is not good

    AP is geng metal/rat water .  Geng metal will grow water,  rat again will half combine with monkey metal to form water .  ur  AP career is bad.

    2020 lunar dog month is good for u.

    otherwise u need to wait until 2021 lunar months of tiger/rabbit/horse

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    « Reply #2 on: August 21, 2020, 12:02:24 PM »
    ur DM ding fire is very weak  so u like wood n fire n dry earth . u hate metal n water n wet earth

    ur  LP now is bing fire/rat water. bing fire got hurt by the  MHS ren water.  rat will half combine with MEB monkey metal to form water. so ur LP career  luck is not good

    AP is geng metal/rat water .  Geng metal will grow water,  rat again will half combine with monkey metal to form water .  ur  AP career is bad.

    2020 lunar dog month is good for u.

    otherwise u need to wait until 2021 lunar months of tiger/rabbit/horse

    Hi, thank you for the clarifications, however there are a few items I'm not sure:-
    Lp - Luck Phase?
    MHS?
    MEB?
    AP - Annual Phase?
    Which month is lunar dog month?
    Which months are tiger / rabbit / horse?

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  • Re: Lost job, zero relationship & lacking motivation [Need help]
    « Reply #3 on: August 21, 2020, 12:09:07 PM »
    Hi @ultimaweapon ,

    I'm a beginner here, but I saw your Bazi and your chart is an 'Extreme Weak' chart. Note: This doesn't mean that your luck is weak from the onset. It just means that the usual way of applying the good or bad 5 elements doesn't apply to you.

    In your case, you are a extreme weak 丁 Fire. In normal weak 丁 charts, we would usually want to supplement the 丁 with more Fire or Wood to add strength to it. BUT, in extreme weak charts, the element that is same as yours or give birth to yours becomes your unlucky element instead.

    This means, Fire and Wood are actually your unlucky elements. Starting from 23 February 2020, you are on 5 years' of 丙 Fire luck, which is 劫财 (Rob Wealth), and your luck will not be good for 5 years. But there will still be ups and downs each year as the yearly elements change.

    During these 5 lunar years, you will find it difficult to earn money, or find a good love relationship during these 5 years. Note that it goes according to the Lunar Chinese Calendar . Do not invest any money during these 5 lunar years because you are on 破财运。

    If you ask me, you shouldn't attempt to get married or find a girlfriend during these 5 lunar years because the relationship would most likely not be successful. Life is full of ups and downs, take it as a form of training during these 5 years.

    I'm sorry for any inaccuracies and you may wish to take my advise as a pinch of salt. Thank you. 











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    « Reply #4 on: August 21, 2020, 12:19:18 PM »
    ur DM ding fire is very weak  so u like wood n fire n dry earth . u hate metal n water n wet earth

    ur  LP now is bing fire/rat water. bing fire got hurt by the  MHS ren water.  rat will half combine with MEB monkey metal to form water. so ur LP career  luck is not good

    AP is geng metal/rat water .  Geng metal will grow water,  rat again will half combine with monkey metal to form water .  ur  AP career is bad.

    2020 lunar dog month is good for u.

    otherwise u need to wait until 2021 lunar months of tiger/rabbit/horse

    Hi, thank you for the clarifications, however there are a few items I'm not sure:-
    Lp - Luck Phase?==>luck pillar
    MHS? ==>.month  heaven stem
    MEB? ==>.month  earth branch
    AP - Annual Phase?===>annual pillar
    Which month is lunar dog month?===>10/8--->11/7
    Which months are tiger / rabbit / horse?===>see lunar calendar

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    « Reply #5 on: August 21, 2020, 12:43:37 PM »
    Hi @ultimaweapon , I'll like to add on that you may be tempted to gamble during these 5 lunar years starting from 23 February 2020. Do not gamble, because you will end up losing alot of money if you gamble.

    If you're already gambling, please quit gambling because as mentioned above.

    Beware of financial scams too.

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    « Reply #6 on: August 21, 2020, 01:12:56 PM »
    Hi, thank you for the clarifications, however there are a few items I'm not sure:-
    Lp - Luck Phase?==>luck pillar
    MHS? ==>.month  heaven stem
    MEB? ==>.month  earth branch
    AP - Annual Phase?===>annual pillar
    Which month is lunar dog month?===>10/8--->11/7
    Which months are tiger / rabbit / horse?===>see lunar calendar

    Thanks for the clarifications.
    Is there any lunar calendar app / site I can check for the zodiac months?
    I tried to create my own using MS excel but it didn't work.

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    « Reply #7 on: August 21, 2020, 01:16:12 PM »
    Hi @ultimaweapon , I'll like to add on that you may be tempted to gamble during these 5 lunar years starting from 23 February 2020. Do not gamble, because you will end up losing alot of money if you gamble.

    If you're already gambling, please quit gambling because as mentioned above.

    Beware of financial scams too.

    Thanks for the reading earlier and this advice.
    I've stopped gambling since a young age but in case I might be going that path again,
    Hopefully I will remember it. 

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    « Reply #9 on: August 22, 2020, 12:46:45 AM »
    Hi @ultimaweapon , @smsek , @Administrator

    Please ignore my reading above, I've made a mistake earlier. There is a 甲木 (正印) in your Year Pillar. Therefore I can't be sure or certain whether your chart is a normal weak chart or extreme weak chart and my readings may be wrong.

    Admin if you could please assist to delete my posts above.

    My Apologies for the mistake in reading earlier. 
    « Last Edit: August 22, 2020, 12:49:18 AM by Astroman54 »

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    « Reply #10 on: August 22, 2020, 08:42:02 AM »
    Hi @ultimaweapon , @smsek , @Administrator

    Please ignore my reading above, I've made a mistake earlier. There is a 甲木 (正印) in your Year Pillar. Therefore I can't be sure or certain whether your chart is a normal weak chart or extreme weak chart and my readings may be wrong.

    Admin if you could please assist to delete my posts above.

    My Apologies for the mistake in reading earlier.

    I see. like everyone else, we always take the advice of others with a pinch of salt.
    We don't have to necessarily 100% trust everything.
    How does it change if it was a normal weak chart? What is your opinion?

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    « Reply #11 on: August 22, 2020, 09:33:31 AM »
    There's one key information you left out that is very important . what gender are you?  without that , we can't look at luck cycles properly.

    Ok. found your gender male symbol on the side lol.  detective work. haha.    happy birthday by the way.

    As for job. everyone is having hard time cuz of covid-19.   relationship has to also do with your effort with social skills as well as willing to go out there and meet people. IT will be tough in current economic problems. finance will be in most people's mind affecting how people relate to each other.  More important is to build good relations not the goal of bf/gf.  Of course it also depends on your bazi chart if you easily attract people are not.  I too have hard time meeting right people. Always ungrateful people using me. it's cuz i have clash of pig/snake with day/hr pillar.  Make it tough to find keepers. Most of it is due to other person making isssue out of nothing.  I can bed people no problem. anyone can do that. I am more into real relationship not superficial type.

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    « Reply #12 on: August 22, 2020, 09:46:41 AM »
    There's one key information you left out that is very important . what gender are you?  without that , we can't look at luck cycles properly.

    Ok. found your gender male symbol on the side lol.  detective work. haha. 

    As for job. everyone is having hard time cuz of covid-19.   relationship has to also do with your effort with social skills as well as willing to go out there and meet people. IT will be tough in current economic problems. finance will be in most people's mind affecting how people relate to each other.  More important is to build good relations not the goal of bf/gf.  Of course it also depends on your bazi chart if you easily attract people are not.  I too have hard time meeting right people. Always ungrateful people using me. it's cuz i have clash of pig/snake with day/hr pillar.  Make it tough to find keepers. Most of it is due to other person making isssue out of nothing.  I can bed people no problem. anyone can do that. I am more into real relationship not superficial type.

    Yeah I understand what u mean. I think the major issue now is the job. 3 companies within 1 year is very taxing.
    and I can't see clearly what lies ahead with covid.
    Can anyone advise me if Construction is right for me?

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    « Reply #13 on: August 22, 2020, 09:54:15 AM »
    Let's look into your bazi now.  your weak fire surrounded by lots of water and metal.  relationship wise not so good as other people control you or take advantage of you or put pressure onto you. They look down on you.  to strengthen self you would need to get educated about relationships / people skills.  Learn influence skills. Neurolinguistic programming. Body language.   A good book would be 'the ellipsis manual' by chase hughes.  you can then branch off the info from there.  That's probably my best advice to help balance your chart more to give you more control.
    Also since your day master fire is weak. you need to learn to be more outgoing. fire represent entertainment and outward expression. that way all the metal/water around you don't weaken your further.

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    « Reply #14 on: August 22, 2020, 10:02:04 AM »
    Let's look into your bazi now.  your weak fire surrounded by lots of water and metal.  relationship wise not so good as other people control you or take advantage of you or put pressure onto you. They look down on you.  to strengthen self you would need to get educated about relationships / people skills.  Learn influence skills. Neurolinguistic programming. Body language.   A good book would be 'the ellipsis manual' by chase hughes.  you can then branch off the info from there.  That's probably my best advice to help balance your chart more to give you more control.
    Also since your day master fire is weak. you need to learn to be more outgoing. fire represent entertainment and outward expression. that way all the metal/water around you don't weaken your further.

    Thank you for the insight. I've started the reading the book.
    I'm also thinking about job in what field should I look for next?
    Should I continue with the construction / engineering field?

    Sadly, I'm not really very outgoing and introverted.
    I guess the metal / water elements are controlling me.

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