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    « on: September 06, 2020, 11:15:20 PM »
    Hi everyone,

    I am currently 30 years old and I have no relationship for approximately 1,5 years. My relationships did not go smooth until now and I can say that they did not bring me happiness so far. I received the advice from an astrologer that it would be beneficial for me to not get married or have children for my health especially.
    What do you think, do you believe that this advice is correct? Also, what kind of person should I look for and any further advice about relationship would mean a lot to me.
    Thank you so much!

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    « Reply #1 on: September 07, 2020, 03:34:47 PM »
    It's better to post your birth details rather than posting the chart.
    Also include your birth city so solar time can be used and adjusted.
    What use is a reading if the chart maybe inaccurate?

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    « Reply #2 on: September 07, 2020, 08:22:31 PM »
    Hello,

    The DOB is 18.01.1990, time 05:57 AM city: Constanta, country: Romania

    Thank you!

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    « Reply #3 on: September 07, 2020, 08:45:25 PM »
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    « Reply #4 on: September 07, 2020, 09:25:23 PM »
    Hi @Gmuli,

    Interesting, are you referring to the 35 years pillar or the 45 one? I also forgot to mentioned that I am a female, if this matters for the chart.

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    « Reply #5 on: September 07, 2020, 09:34:04 PM »
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    « Reply #6 on: September 08, 2020, 03:18:45 AM »
    Hi @Watertree

    Can I ask you to confirm a few points and also questions:
    - you’re closer / better relationship to / with your mother than your father
    - does your mother work or she’s a home maker?
    - did you grow up with a happy / normal family?
    - you have a university degree from local university
    - you speak multiple languages (Like 3-4 languages, not uncommon where you live I guess)
    - you don’t work for the government nor multinational company but a local company.
    - do you work in mining industry or financial/bank? If neither, pls let me know what industry.
    - you prefer local men than foreign
    - your boyfriends so far tend to be older than you

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    « Reply #7 on: September 08, 2020, 03:53:21 AM »
    Hi @vng78

    This is pretty close  :)
    - very close relationship to mother, poor relationship to father
    - mother worked all her life
    - parents split up when I was 5
    - I have a Master's degree and I do speak 4 languages
    - I worked in multinational companies and I am now with a smaller foreign company (not local). I work in IT.
    - prefer local men; boyfriends tend to be older than me - Yes

    Thanks!

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    « Reply #8 on: September 08, 2020, 02:12:12 PM »
    Hi @vng78

    This is pretty close  :)
    - very close relationship to mother, poor relationship to father
    - mother worked all her life
    - parents split up when I was 5
    - I have a Master's degree and I do speak 4 languages
    - I worked in multinational companies and I am now with a smaller foreign company (not local). I work in IT.
    - prefer local men; boyfriends tend to be older than me - Yes

    Your chart after time conversion (sorry no time to attach nice pic):

     H   D     M     Y
    Jia  Gui  Ding  Ji
    Yin  Wei Chou Si

    Thanks for the feedback @Watertree . The adjusted chart image shows your mother is rarely at home therefore she works/worked.
    She has been the support throughout your life. Can I ask how's your mother's health like in the last 5 years? The Geng LP isn't quite good for her. This year Geng is also active so if she has had health problems before, she should take better care of herself. You also need to take care of yourself because this year Zi harms Wei, your health may suffer. Last 5 years I also suspect your career hadn't been that smooth and you have been more stressed than before. Can you confirm?

    Anyway, since the topic is relationship, let's get back to it. Some questions on your most recent relationship:
    - The guy appeared somewhere in 2016 or 2017
    - He was someone from work, older than you by good few years. There's some chance he could be someone who was originally born in other nearby country.
    - By 2018, things didn't go too well and I suspect your work was also affected very negatively, may or may not be related to the relationship.
    - 2019, the image shows he possibly already had another girlfriend

    Thanks
    Vince

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    « Reply #9 on: September 08, 2020, 05:22:16 PM »
    Hi Vince,

    Thank you for the details provided! I am pretty sure that my birth time is correct and it is Yin Wood -Mao!

    My mother did work, but after work she was always at home. Her health is not good indeed, she had a heart-attack in 2018 and also has bone and blood circulation problems.
    Regarding my career, I work with this company since Jan 2017 and I have been happy with them, my work was not affected since then.
    I got into this relationship in 2017, 2018 was kind of off between us and in 2019 we split. I then had another relationship with a younger guy which did not work out.

    Thanks!

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    « Reply #10 on: September 08, 2020, 06:38:33 PM »
    Hi Vince,

    Thank you for the details provided! I am pretty sure that my birth time is correct and it is Yin Wood -Mao!

    Your birth time is not wrong. There is a reason for converting it from local time to so called "Solar time" using the GMT offset and the longitude, which I won't go into. I have been using solar time and it works well for me, anyways. The only problem is if I misunderstood the Daylight Saving Time offset. In January I suppose DST is not on then?

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    My mother did work, but after work she was always at home. Her health is not good indeed, she had a heart-attack in 2018 and also has bone and blood circulation problems.

    Mother is "rarely at home" is just a expression to say she's out and busy working, so don't get me wrong  ;D
    Hmm Jia and Yin are more bones related but Yi and Mao is more blood vessel related. Maybe the DST question above can solve this.

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    Regarding my career, I work with this company since Jan 2017 and I have been happy with them, my work was not affected since then.
    I got into this relationship in 2017, 2018 was kind of off between us and in 2019 we split. I then had another relationship with a younger guy which did not work out.

    OK so timeline roughly matches. Can I confirm the 2017 guy wasn't someone from your work or might be born elsewhere? (to be fair you may not know that level of detail). Just curious, I wonder if you met the younger guy in 2018?

    Vince

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    « Reply #11 on: September 08, 2020, 06:51:31 PM »
    Hey,
     
    Daylight Saving Time started on Apr 1, 1990 that year :)  so yes in January DST is off.
    The guy was not from work and he was born locally. Met the younger guy in April 2019.

    Thank you!

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    « Reply #12 on: September 12, 2020, 03:45:15 AM »
    @Watertree,

    Let's continue a bit further before real life gets in the way.

    Regarding your hour, if DST was off then I'll use the standard time so your hour pillar is unchanged.
     H     D     M      Y
     Yi   Gui   Ding   Ji
    Mao Wei  Chou  Si

    I know the title says "relationship advice" but really I'm not qualified to do that so instead I'll just read your chart :P

    Relationship wise, you have many in your life. Officer/Authority represents your relationships and there are many.
    Good thing is Wei tomb is clashed open therefore tendency is to have just one marriage. This could be a bit technical but maybe you'll find it useful - Wei in day branch is your spouse star sitting in your spouse palace so this is the guy you'll end up with. Wei swaps image with Yi and Mao, they being in hour, this tends to happen late in life.

    I'll try to give you as much details as possible but it has limitations and the more spouse stars there are, the more limiting it is but here goes.
    Your guy is quite likely to be younger than you as Wei clashes Chou and combines with Mao, so younger by a good few years. Mao being Eating God also has the image of being younger. Since Wei has nothing in common with Chou, he didn't grow up where you did and because Yi Mao in hour, it means from outside therefore quite likely now that he was born outside your country. He's also quite a capable person and is well educated, like yourself but also has the street smart, although there can often be some level of disagreements between the two of you.

    Just glancing at the LPs, he's likely to show up in Ren Wu, which is quite late. In Xin LP you are more likely to meet Chou guy but we're not going to go into that. Marriage timing prediction is really not easy but in this LP the chance is higher. There are a few likely years for marriage: 2035, 2037 and 2038.

    Hope this helps give you a glimpse of your relationship aspect.

    Vince

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    « Reply #13 on: September 12, 2020, 04:06:12 AM »
    Thank you@vng78, Vince!

    I did hear this "late in life" saying for me quite a lot, haha, I guess I will have to be patient then :)). Your explanation is very useful, thank you!
    I kave also heard that getting legally married actually changes your chart, like there will be another energy manifesting for your health, wealth etc with the influence of the spouse chart. Do you know anything about this, like how would the married life look like for this person?

    Also, do you have any advice regarding children, as in, if it is better not to have any?

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    « Reply #14 on: September 12, 2020, 03:11:40 PM »
    @Watertree

    Thank you@vng78, Vince!

    I did hear this "late in life" saying for me quite a lot, haha, I guess I will have to be patient then :)). Your explanation is very useful, thank you!
    Yes late is not only from chart but also from LP so not much you can do about that.
    But let me ask you out of curiosity, would you actively try to avoid Chou guy knowing Wei guy only comes in quite a while?

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    I kave also heard that getting legally married actually changes your chart, like there will be another energy manifesting for your health, wealth etc with the influence of the spouse chart. Do you know anything about this, like how would the married life look like for this person?
    No, I don't believe such thing. Your chart only belongs to you and it's fixed for life the moment you inhale your first breath of life. But of course being husband and wife, their charts will have to share much similarity / sync up in terms of significant events in their lives and how their lives go about in general. But otherwise, your spouse chart won't magically enhance your chart.

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    Also, do you have any advice regarding children, as in, if it is better not to have any?
    Whether to have or not, it should be up to you because only you know your circumstances  :P
    But on a more serious note, Mao is a child star in children palace so there is a child per the chart. The child will have good relationship with you and your future husband, most likely it's a girl.

    However, LP wise, I don't see the supportive LP to have children. Ren Wu LP, the Wu horse will break Mao rabbit so would be hard to get children.
    Further LPs are possible, but then biological clock kicks in so it could be hard too. However, medical technology is so advanced these days so maybe there would be a way?

    Oh yes, speaking of health, Yi Mao is also your physical health especially head region. Current Chen LP harms Mao so it pays to be more careful.
    Other than head/neck related, it could be to do with extremities/four limbs. 2023 and 2024 you need to be extra careful, not paranoid but take extra care of yourself / precaution.

    Vince

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