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  • Break up and depression bazi
    « on: September 19, 2020, 01:35:24 AM »
    Hi everyone

    The last 3 or 4 years have been rough on me. I went through a break up recently and i’ve been on a self-destruct mode lately. I guess i was hoping my partner and i can work it out til the end
    My chart is
    Ji.      Geng.      Ji.      Ding
    Mao.  Chen.     You.    Mao

    His
    Jia.     Bing.     Yi.     Xin
    Wu.    Xu.       Wei.    Wei

    I am a bazi learner but in no way i understand a lot.

    I know my spouse star is far, my chart is cold and hard (too many metal and earth), my dm sits on ho (heard that it means my i am critical of my spouse) and i’m also lazy, clash/harm in my spouse palace.

    Lately this have been dark for me, depression hits like it never hit me before and i even get suicidal..

    I am missing my partner very much i feel like he’s my chance to live and i feel like i have no purpose without someone by my side. Even children have to be created by 2 people..he told me that i am too much for him, too much pressure and too much expectations. Even when i tried to keep it minimum it’s still there.

    I feel like i am lost and i need to guidance and understanding of what’s happening to me right now for me to try to navigate my life..

    I kept pushing and fighting  for us to work because that’s all i know how to do. I don’t know how to give up and not hoping anymore

    I appreciate any advice or guidance from everyone

    Thanks


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  • Re: Break up and depression bazi
    « Reply #1 on: September 19, 2020, 01:45:33 AM »
    You have a controlling, needy character (strong Geng controlling Wood), while he seeks for freedom. It’s a difficult match. You lack Fire element and he was able to provide it.

    Your relationships are mess, due to harms and clashes, so you have to work on yourself. This year might ignited the whole problem even stronger.
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  • Re: Break up and depression bazi
    « Reply #2 on: September 19, 2020, 02:02:26 AM »
    You have a controlling, needy character (strong Geng controlling Wood), while he seeks for freedom. It’s a difficult match. You lack Fire element and he was able to provide it.

    Your relationships are mess, due to harms and clashes, so you have to work on yourself. This year might ignited the whole problem even stronger.

    Yes, he is very aloof almost to a point of not caring that much. Should i stop focusing on my love life since it’s just disasters after disasters? If yes, what is it in my chart that can help me get through this messy time. What about next year? Still a mess? This year is metal year and i’m in gui LP. I thought the gui LP can help strengthen my output which can calm my dm down a bit.

    I felt fine before he arrived in my life and now that he was there and now not anymore i have to be honest there’s a gap that i don’t know what to fill it with.. move on or not move on makes me feel like i’m trapped since apparently i’m not lucky in terms of relationship. Looking for a new one to heal me scares me as well as things might repeat itself..

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  • Re: Break up and depression bazi
    « Reply #3 on: September 19, 2020, 02:06:47 AM »
    You have to move on and became stronger and independent. He showed you your weaknesses, now you have to work on them.

    Everything in life is a lesson, so you should ask yourself, what Im supposed to learn here?
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  • Re: Break up and depression bazi
    « Reply #4 on: September 19, 2020, 02:28:22 AM »
    You have to move on and became stronger and independent. He showed you your weaknesses, now you have to work on them.

    Everything in life is a lesson, so you should ask yourself, what Im supposed to learn here?

    I asked myself this question too. I felt like i was quite indepedent and capable as a woman to the point that i actually intimidate a lot of men because of it and people point that out to me a lot. I understand i am controlling and needy but i don’t do that to just anyone. Is it wrong to need someone in a relationship? Forgive me but i believe it is okay to have a need to be dependent on your partner. I felt like this last couple of years have been a lie. Why would he date someone if what he ever wanted was his freedom. I’ve never forced him to be in a relationship with me in the first place. Sorry if there’s any emotions misplaced here. I guess i am really lost

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  • Re: Break up and depression bazi
    « Reply #5 on: September 19, 2020, 02:32:07 AM »
    People behave differently in relationships, because the dynamic between elements is changing us, whether we want or not.

    So often people go into relationships with one idea, and after few months or years they realize its something completely else.

    The purpose of every relationship is to help us grow and learn. If you don't grow and learn while in relationship, then is better to be single.
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  • Re: Break up and depression bazi
    « Reply #6 on: September 19, 2020, 04:23:51 AM »
    People behave differently in relationships, because the dynamic between elements is changing us, whether we want or not.

    So often people go into relationships with one idea, and after few months or years they realize its something completely else.

    The purpose of every relationship is to help us grow and learn. If you don't grow and learn while in relationship, then is better to be single.


    Then what type of person would be suitable for me from his chart? What should i look for in someone? Or this is it? Because i’m controlling and needy there’s not gonna be anyone ever suitable for me?

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  • Re: Break up and depression bazi
    « Reply #7 on: September 19, 2020, 12:28:04 PM »
    You re still focusing too much on others. The real change is coming within, then the right person will arrive.

    Don't expect some miracle, some perfectly matching person will appear. He will appear when you are ready.
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  • Re: Break up and depression bazi
    « Reply #8 on: September 29, 2020, 05:29:10 AM »
    is there any other input? maybe something else that might be seen in both of the charts..?


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