Hi
@Rickkz Well i wanted to plot your vedic chart, Which timing of birth becomes very important even to the minute.
If you were born at exactly 1:00P.M that mean you were born during the 3rd Pada of Ashlesha 23'20Degrees to 26'40 Degrees of Cancer.
The 3rd pada of Ashlesha is a Ashtamamsha Pada, Which means in your life you could face many unexpected events.
In your life could face many difficult situations and force major transformations.
Your brother who passed away was your elder brother?
This is also a very intuitive and intelligent nakshatra. Someone who can understand deep philosophical subjects.
On the negative side this nakshatra could be possessive, jealous and quite vicious nature.
For Ashlesha Ascendants, The Placement of Moon and Mercury become extra important. As this will tell if negative or positive traits are more likely.
If Moon and Mercury is damaged can take on very negative side of Ashlesha.
In your case it is a mixed bag. You see Moon is in a good position of Purvaphalguni. And Venus the ruler of Purvaphalguni is in it's own house.
Mother could of been quite a influencing force in your life and she is quite spiritual.
Yet Moon is conjunct Ketu in the 2nd house. This creates someone who has strong fluctuations of emotions.
Someone who can be quite moody in nature. You could have some depression and low self-esteem.
Mercury is in the 10th house in bharani conjunct Jupiter and Sun in the 10th house.
This is a good placement for Mercury, is moving from the asceticism of Yama, Into the sensuality of Bharani.
Mercury is not combust by the Sun and is forming Buddha-Aditya Yoga With presence of Jupiter. So you have a strong urge to connect with others.
Your father most of been quite well educated and well respected.
Yet Jupiter is combust so it hasn't been until this year that you started to realize more spirituality and religion.
As for your wife, looking at your Chart.
There is a huge chance that you could meet your wife while your working or at work. There is also chance to meet her in large public social events.
I will analyze more later and give more details on that as i am running out of time rn. I will post later on details of wife.