Dear Nin99,
Just a quick read from your life-story, I will try to answer as much as possible.
- Parents issue
- Relationship/Marriage
- Wealth/Career
It is very interesting that you have mentioned your parents first as introduction of your post. Consciousness or unconsciousness but in ZWDS it is coincidence the Parents Palace dominates your life.
In Bazi Ren Zi: your Parents Pillar is indeed strong and stable. Overall your Bazi is good to me. I don’t see any danger in that chart. Your DM is like a rain-drop compared with enormous Ocean Water of your parents. Somehow they are too strong, you will be push back into the back-ground.
Compared it with your ZWDS: Parents Palace. Again my first impression is indeed your Parents Palace. San He ZWDS it could relate to Karma-Destiny from past life. In Parents Palace there are Tai Yang, if Tai Yang is located on shining court, it could give light to Ju Men (dark star). Unfortunately, Tai Yang cannot help much. Ju Men with Hua Ji, is not a favorable combination.
It is pre-destined you are sticking with your Parents Palace. Keep in mind that whenever you focus on your career, Parents Palace is comparable to the Boss.
Si Hua ZWDS, Your Life Palace is flying into your Parents Palace. It means it is your Destiny in this life to stick with that Palace. A life-time is very long, and having Parents Palace clashing with your Health is also not a favorable sign.
This is an example of Parents Karma-debts for past-life. According to Buddha teaching, we can only improve it through paying with Spiritual ways. You are living in Europe; it will be harder to give you advice with Asian belief in this matter.
The good news is that although your Parents are not always agreeing with your decisions, but at the end they will support your Property Palace. It could mean they will share their inheritance also to you. Property Palace could also compare with Assets Palace (Wealth). Your Parents’ Property Palace will go more to your Siblings than you, if you have any siblings.
It is clear that your inheritance is less than your Siblings. Maybe it is wisely to treat your Parents well, as a good son to avoid complications later on.
Cheers,
Saphora.