Marriage faith / Clash, destruction, penalty in Spouse Palace

[Chaniss Khoo]

Hi, I am new here. My marriage life has been tough for me. I read up some info about bazi and plot a bazi chart for myself. I am worried about my many clash, destruction and penalty especially in my spouse palace as well as  the 10 year luck pillar that I will be going through. Most worried is my 10 yr luck cycle at 50 onwards will be going through a tough relationship that's what I have read in google search. Please shed me some light if my marriage going to be happy ending or sad?

What can I do to overcome the challenges?

Dob: 12/09/1984 Female

[yc poon]

just an advise, to get your chart read, it would be the best to provide time of birth and city also.
this half chart type, not may people want to spend time to read.

just my 2cent.

[Chaniss Khoo]

Sorry forget the time.

12/9/1984 @ 1.46pm female

[ren]

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[Chaniss Khoo]

Hi Ren, I am born in September. 12 September 1984. I married in 2010 and in 2011, i give birth to my first child.

[yc poon]

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[Chaniss Khoo]

Dear YC,

Thank  you for your reply.

Based on my natal chart, no doubt the harm and punishment makes me having a deep depression at the age of 15 onwards until 25. Up till now I am still having slight of mental instability.

In my case of self-punishment, other than alcohol, any other problem that will trigger like mental abuse because I don't take even a sip of alcohol.

I am a family woman, I don't really care on outside temptation. I just want a happy family and marriage. The 3rd party you mean exist does it indicate initiated by who? From me or my spouse? Anything that trigger the cause of the 3rd party and any remedy? At what age this problem will occur?

Please shed some lights. Thanks.
 

[TaiYin]

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[Chaniss Khoo]

I am from Seremban, Malaysia (Southwest part)

[TaiYin]

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[Chaniss Khoo]

Hi TaiYin,

Thank you for your explanation.

Yeah, you are right, I am not good in handling my emotions and tends to thk alot when it comes to my marriage. As I always think that one day he will cheat on me and I will be dwell in deep depression, and thats the end of my life.

He treated me well, just that I don't trust him enough. Lost of sense of trust.

His dob is 8 October 1981 at 11.52pm, location Seremban, Malaysia (Southwest of Malaysia)

[TaiYin]

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[Chaniss Khoo]

Dear TaiYin,

He is too secretive, very quite and he don't like open communication with me.
 
In my fifties pillar, I have a Mao-You clash and from what I read, it happens because of exrtra marital affairs. May i know how do I stop this from happening? A goos fengshui house can help?

[yc poon]

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[Chaniss Khoo]

HI YC,

Thank you for explanation once again.

I have alot of water elements in my chart especially Yin Water, explained my emotional instability.

May I know which 2 luck pillars? As I only noticed 1 luck pillar in my fifties, Mao appeared clash with my You (month and Day pillar), uncivilized punishment with my Zi (year pillar). Can you explain more on Zi-Mao punishment and You-Mao clash in my chart scenario? Too many version of answer if I googled.

Is there any remedies like balancing of 5 elements and Fengshui be helpful to overcome the challenges?

Thanks.